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Married In School, Single At Home by dapaiks: 11:21pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
MARRIED IN SCHOOL, SINGLE AT HOME
Thinking about this topic, I’ve been wondering who the focus of
this post should be – girls or guys or both.
In almost every tertiary institution in Nigeria,you find
‘undergraduate couples’ living as husbands and wives. You find a
lot of these misguided people in virtually all schools. It’s so bad
that, often times,they are duly recognised and acknowledged as
couples by lodge neighbours, classmates and even leaders of
various students associations. Little wonder there is such an
award as “The best couple of the year award” shamelessly and
thoughtlessly received by students..Like I said earlier, I really
don’t know the particular gender to address but let me just
keep typing. The rate at which girls live with their boyfriends in
their various off campus hostels is painfully alarming.
Most times, these young girls are very beautiful, with bright
and promising future.They cohabit with boys who are their
fellow students as roommates. The lugubrious part of it is that
the silly girl would always introduce the small boy as her
fiancé..Our society is really sick courtesy of those that live in
it. These girls collect either hostel fees or house rents from
unsuspecting (and sometimes, struggling)parents and end up in
the house of a boy. You struggled possibly for several years to
gain admission. Then you suddenly became a prayer warrior
posting and shouting ‘Amen’ at the slighted provocation. You
fasted. You had one prayer point filled with promises of your
loyalty and devotion to God if only He would answer your
prayer. Now that He has fulfilled His part by answering and
granting you admission, don’t you think He is expecting you to
fulfill your own part, to keep whatever promises you made to
Him??.
Many of you just got admission and once you settle down
(especially from your second year), crazy thoughts will begin to
creep into your minds. Yes by then, the heat of the rush would
have been over; If God didn’t capture you (possibly through the
various campus fellowships), boys would have caught you. In my
school we even have an unrecognized, unregistered but well
offered course (Moz101. moz, being the short form 4
Mozambique hall, were fresh female students ar
accommodated). For d guys its a course that shouldn't be
carried over.
Soon, they would persuade you to move in with them. Of course,
they’d give you one thousand reasons to make you give in to
their prodding..Before you agree to move in and live with a boy
on campus, consider the reason why you are in school in the
first place. What image would you be creating about yourself?
Can this boy marry you in case you get pregnant for him as is
always the case, or will you resort to series of abortions like
many other girls before you?
What advice will you give your children in future concerning this
kind of things? After school, what next? Will the relationship
really lead you anywhere?.
This post is finally addressing the female folks. I didn’t plan it
that way. Maybe it’s because they are the worst hit by the
grave consequences of illicit sexual relationships. They are the
ones that turn out to be the sore losers in the end. They call it
school life but they don’t realize how idiotic they have been till
it’s too late. You are not in school to get married. Part of the
reasons why you are in school IS NOT to get the husband-and-
wife experience, to see what it feels like for the boy to provide
the money for food and for the girl to go to the market for
food stuffs and cook. That’s pure misplacement of purpose!
One guy told me that he was practically learning how tobe a
caring and romantic husband. Such shameless! Then you hear
the girl say, “We are not doing anything, we are just
roommates”. Yet she commits countless abortions before
graduation..Yes, your admission has given you unlimited
freedom. Yes, your parents are not there to tell you what to do
or what not to do. There is even no blood relation around, so
there's no fear of someone reporting you. But what about giving
your womanhood respect and protecting your dignity?
What about living in such a way as to have a positive story to
tell the next generation (including your children) without your
conscience pricking you?
What Goes Around Will Definately Come Around....
Y not exercise a moment of thorough thinking....
Culled from Facebook posts
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Re: Married In School, Single At Home by talktonase(m): 11:39pm On Jan 08, 2016 |
After fifteen abortions she go still get better husband wey go marry her later in the future born plenty shidren but the ones wey no gree give boys their congo make them shine in the name of keeping virginity till they marry will end up been unable to even take in...this life can be soo unfair. |
Re: Married In School, Single At Home by Nobody: 3:18am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Sai Baba |
Re: Married In School, Single At Home by oluwaisaac(m): 7:09am On Jan 09, 2016 |
Perfect title! |
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