It can be painful when we are betrayed by a close friend,But its important to know how best to handle it...
There's a wise saying...."Its How yhu Handle your problems Tat really matters"
Below is a list of What NOT To Do When A Friend Betrays You
1. Don’t try and act like it didn’t happen. When you
experience something really unpleasant like the betrayal
of a friend it can be easy to go into a state of shock, but
it’s important to acknowledge and accept it.
2. Discuss the situation again and again with mutual
friends. It’s easy to become childish and indiscreet at
times like this, especially if alcohol is involved. Do not
lower your standards of behaviour my talking
unnecessarily badly of your ex-friend, why not be the
bigger person!
3. Try and replace this friendship with another one too
soon. We can be on the rebound in all kinds of
relationships including friendships. It’s always a good
idea to think about what lessons can be learned from the
experience that you just had, before you rush to replace
the friendship with another one. If you don’t want to be
betrayed by a friend again, then it will serve you well to
choose your next new friendship wisely.
4. Give yourself a hard time about it. Whilst there are
always two sides to every story, if you have taken an
honest look at your actions within the friendship and still
conclude that this friend betrayed you and their
behaviour was quite simply wrong. Then put the blame
where it is rightly deserved, and don’t be too hard on
yourself.
When a friend betrays you it is an upsetting and stressful
time in your life, full of questions and doubts. But you can
get over this situation if you take the correct steps to move
forward. The above tips will help you recover from the loss
of your friendship, grow as a person and make better
friendship choices in the future.
If you have any other suggestions of what TO do, or equally
important, what NOT to do when a friend betrays you, then
why not share them here


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