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Please Help: Was Caught Right In The Act, What Do I Do? Wife Must Not Hear This by bcomputer101: 10:25am On Feb 11, 2016 |
When she said this, I knew she was joking because although she didn’t say much about herself, anyone who is familiar with the soft sell magazines and social media will know her well and I know she has no need of our small money. I didn’t hear anything from her again until after about three months. I was out of the country with my family on holidays the day she called. She asked me to help a young man who needed a soft loan. I told her I was out of the country on vacation, but referred her to someone who can help. She told me the person can wait and that I should let her know when I return from vacation. My wife asked me about my conversation with her and asked me to be careful. She said she wasn’t careful about her, but I shrugged her away because I felt she was just being a woman. When I returned to the country, I called her and she came over with the young man who wanted the loan. Since she was standing surety for him, his loan was processed quickly and to appreciate she invited me for her birthday celebrations. I told her I will be coming with my wife, but she insisted that I should come alone. At this level, I should have applied caution; I made up my mind not to go, but eventually, I went because I convinced myself that I won’t stay too long, but when I got there, I met something else. She had already made an elaborate arrangement for me and sincerely, it was not like an open party that I expected. It was just few of us, her friends and few men of my age. Though, I enjoyed the party, but before I left, I was able to pick what her intention was. I was uncomfortable with it and made up my mind that I won’t fall into her trap. Maybe the mistake I made was not telling my wife. We hardly keep things from each other. I told her I was attending my client’s party, although I didn’t mention her name, so when I returned home and she asked me how it all went, I couldn’t tell her the truth, I had to lie. The lies were my biggest undoing. Because I couldn’t open up to tell my wife especially when other things began to happen. Sincerely, I cannot say I knew when our friendship became a relationship. She would invite me for lunch and sometimes I stopped over at her place after work. I started keeping late nights and stopped attending mid-week services in church. Whenever my wife raised this, I had a readymade answer and it was always work pressure. She is not the type of woman who complains or makes issues. Another thing which buttressed my excuses was the fact that my partner at a time was ill and had to go abroad for treatment. At this time, I actually worked late, but Madam K was readily available, with food drinks to take care of me. Because my job entails travelling, I had an avenue for good excuses; I would sometimes leave my home and stay in a hotel with her or sometimes sleep over in her house. All the while, I knew what I was doing was wrong, but I couldn’t help myself. Every time I went out with her or slept at her place, I feel so guilty. It became so bad that she started taking me to see her spiritual leaders, Imams and people who pray for her. In fact, there was a time she introduced mPPo a native doctor from her village in Ijebu. She introduced me to a lot of things which ordinarily I wouldn’t have been involved in. I couldn’t tell anyone these, talk less of my wife. I knew I was going too deep into it and that I should stop, but I couldn’t stop. At a level, my wife quarreled with me, but eventually she relaxed and started praying for me. Something however, happened there weeks ago, which opened my eyes and that is why I am seeking help. Madam K, told me that we would be attending a burial party in Kogi her home state. I agreed to go with her because I never thought that in my wildest dreams would I meet anyone I knew there. The very day I left home after telling my wife that I had to attend a conference, her elder sister came in from the United States of America to attend her friend’s dad’s burial in Nigeria. She said she asked her to come along, but she gave an excuse that she had to stay at home because I travelled out of town. I didn’t know my sister-in-laws were attending the same party. Thank God my wife didn’t come with them. Her elder sister came to the party with two other younger ones and even the one who stays with us. It wasn’t an issue of telling lies, the party was in full swing and the musician; one of the popular ones was playing and calling my name and praising me as Madam K’s husband. It was really a show of shame. We were just coming from the dance floor, when I came face-to-face with my sister-in-laws. They were going to the dance floor. The first thing that came from my youngest sister-in-law was that, “so uncle it is you”. I would have loved the ground to open and swallow me. I greeted them and hurried away. I became distablised, but couldn’t leave the party. I would have left, if I had the opportunity, but Madam K didn’t allow me. She noticed the change in my behaviour and asked what happened; I told her I had a headache. My sister-in-laws left the party before us; they came over to our table to greet us. I eventually learnt that the woman who was being buried was Madam K’s aunt who raised her.. I hurried home the following day thinking I was going to meet hell at home, but my wife didn’t say a word. She welcomed me home normally and later asked what was wrong with me. I told her I had malaria and she suggested I go to the hospital. Two days after, she called to tell me that her sister was at home. Fortunately, I had to attend a church meeting so I couldn’t see her. I prayed that she would have gone before I returned home and God granted my request. But when I got home, I noticed that my wife’s countenance had changed. Her sister who stays with us also refused to meet my eyes. I don’t know if they had told my wife, but she has not asked me anything. Please, what do I do? Should I ask her and how do I get out of Madam K’s claws? I need your counsel, please. source: http://tribuneonlineng.com/caught-right-in-the-act-what-do-i-do |
Re: Please Help: Was Caught Right In The Act, What Do I Do? Wife Must Not Hear This by Pineapp: 10:32am On Feb 11, 2016 |
bcomputer101:kkk |
Re: Please Help: Was Caught Right In The Act, What Do I Do? Wife Must Not Hear This by Barry2015(f): 11:39am On Feb 11, 2016 |
Just tell your wife everything that happened and as for her forgiveness so also ask God to forgive you and sin no more.and as for Madam K just fast and pray to God so as to be released from her grip. It is well!!!!!! |
Re: Please Help: Was Caught Right In The Act, What Do I Do? Wife Must Not Hear This by Barry2015(f): 11:40am On Feb 11, 2016 |
Just tell your wife everything that happened and ask for her forgiveness so also ask God to forgive you and sin no more.and as for Madam K just fast and pray to God so as to be released from her grip. It is well!!!!!! |
Re: Please Help: Was Caught Right In The Act, What Do I Do? Wife Must Not Hear This by stanvesco(m): 9:54pm On Feb 11, 2016 |
from ur story u didnt tell us if u slept with madam k....it seems u were just sleeping at her house o |
Re: Please Help: Was Caught Right In The Act, What Do I Do? Wife Must Not Hear This by ahnie: 1:24am On Feb 12, 2016 |
They exchanged FLUIDS in a bedmatic way. stanvesco: |
Re: Please Help: Was Caught Right In The Act, What Do I Do? Wife Must Not Hear This by justmenoni: 5:53am On Feb 12, 2016 |
Lies lies..her village in ijebu then Kogi!! Ur sister in law was attending the burial party of her friends dadyand u are attending that of madam k's aunt 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help: Was Caught Right In The Act, What Do I Do? Wife Must Not Hear This by Shiningmama(f): 8:31am On Feb 12, 2016 |
justmenoni: Hahahaha. God bless your brain. 3 Likes |
Re: Please Help: Was Caught Right In The Act, What Do I Do? Wife Must Not Hear This by justmenoni: 12:59pm On Feb 12, 2016 |
Those ppl go do anything cos of traffic to their website Shiningmama: |
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