Many marriages have collapsed due to one reason or the other. But in stead of the two people involved to move on with their lives, they start planting hatred of the opposite gender into their seed.

Some single mothers do warn their female child(ren) to keep away from men so as not to face the same situations as their's.

They are ready to go any length to see that they spoil the reputation of men just for their daughter not to go through what they have gone through that led to separation from their husband.

Some single fathers are also alike. Because of what the wife did that led to break-up they try all in their capability to reduce woman to object of ridicule.

In most cases, infidelity makes men to stay separated from their wife, and because of this they will paint all woman as same to their male child(ren) thereby seeing other woman as nothing to be taken too serious.

Not all men are the same, so also, not all women are the same.

If you say because of what a man or woman has done to you then nothing should work between those two genders then you are deceiving yourself greatly.

So many homes are sweater than honey, yet, they consist of the different genders each of you are castigating, what will you do about that?

Twins grew together in their mother's belly and came to the world almost together, yet, they behave differently in most cases.

We all are not the same, we must be ready to give each persons room to prove themselves. Hasty generalization will lead to nothing than more disaster.

Let God's will be done in stead.

Source: http://www.bamisepeters.com/2016/02/your-marriage-failed-doesn-mean-your.html