http://theexfactorguidereview.com With so many self-improvement books out there I am amazed at just how inept people are at the dating game. Being straight, I only speak for the heterosexual population of course. On current evidence, we heterosexuals are really, really bad at opening up and sharing. At any rate, we European heterosexuals are no good when it comes to sharing emotions. Of late, I've simplified my life no end. In the last few years I stumbled upon a five step process to dating so simple and obvious it's a wonder more people haven't tripped over it. I write from the male perspective but this is equally applicable to women. One prerequisite before starting is to leave your fear and ego at home.

Find out a little bit about the person you're interested in. If you have absolutely no shared interests, leave fear and ego out of the equation and proceed no further. If on the other hand you have at least some shared interests, proceed to step two.

Get over your shyness and look for opportunities to engage her in conversation. If she bores you to tears or everything she says makes your blood boil, leave fear and ego out of the equation and proceed no further. If you enjoy talking to her at least some of the time, proceed to step three. http://gethardagainbookreview.com