Though they pretend to be friends, your failure gladdens them. You need not to be afraid of them because if you must reach the zenith of your dream, enemies would certainly be part of the adventure.
You must learn to deal with them wisely for them not to be an obstacle for you, but rather a propellant. The zeal to overcome their actions and bad expectation for you should rather be your feedback response. The critics are always many, but those who are ready to build your dreams in
life are few.

Do you know what the enemies of your progress want? Do you know what gives them joy? It is the fact that they want you and them to remain at the same pace or the same horizon of life. They don’t want you to go above them; seeing you behind is what will give them an unspeakable joy. Close your eye at this moment and try to picture them; they are right there in your family; they are among your close allies and friends, they are in your place of work; your household; your mosques or churches, to mention a few. So tell me: how on earth can you do without them? But the ability to http://ishopealive..com.ng/2016/02/topic-43-enemy-is-must-if-you-must-grow.html

This is just what happens in life and it's very unfortunate some of us youths know this but find it hard to accept. Good work OP.