so tell me wd u lyk 2 spend d rest of ur lyf wit a brainy orangutang - me

that's a dated quote, you know.

SeanT21:

I agree with U. All these guys here complaining are the ones that will be chasing after these girls.

i ain't one of them

Appearance first then inner beauty comes after.

It's simple the more attractive you are the more attention you get.

skyy04:

It's simple the more attractive you are the more attention you get.

I agree with that

skyy04:

Appearance first then inner beauty comes after.

It's simple the more attractive you are the more attention you get.

appearance first? inner beauty second? seems to me you're standing reason on its head.

@ poster

"Tooshing" up one's face or body is part of civilization.

Your question should have been "why did we go to school"

or " why didn't we remain monkeys - homosapiens"

well, i am one of the fortunate people who look fantastic with simple white powder and colourless lip balm, so i wont say im under any pressure to look good.
needless to say, the society dictates the norm but come to think of it, who makes the society, its u and me, so what are we saying here?

It's because they have nothing to worry about.

who doesn't like a good thing? but I agree the obsession is way too much.

rokiatu:

who doesn't like a good thing? but I agree the obsession is way too much.

but a nature thing is better then the fake one

you can only have this problem when you allow society to dictate
to you how to live your life.

But cum 2 tink of it ,y shldnt society dictate hw u liv ur lyf?, all ur morals/values/ disposition is based on society, d religion u find urself in is based on society so jst bcoz u feel its in ur power 2 modify evrytin doesnt mean d society wnt still dictate coz d society is U. As for man's obsession wit beauty,can't say i'm unhapi abt it coz its a gud fing, only if it cld take our minds away 4rm corruption

not necessarily my brother. i've always been a non-conformist from childhood and i like
bucking the crowd. and that includes what 'society' thinks as regarding beauty.

. . . . .dats hw ur own opinion, and dis is based on sum minority of our societal values. . . .buh still dir r many odas lyk u wit d very same opinion on 'beauty' and wen u're in dat crowd. . . . .u truly wont stand out,or wld u?

Ladies go for breast enlargement,take all kinds of drugs,use bleaching cream and go almost naked just to please or impress men.It should not be so.You are beautifully and wonderfully made.

you can certainly stand out by being yourself. if there is a crowd of half dressed
girls trying to please men and only one lady decides to be sensible and dresses
right. guess who will stand out then?

shollykaye:

Ladies go for breast enlargement,take all kinds of drugs,use bleaching cream and go almost naked just to please or impress men.It should not be so.You are beautifully and wonderfully made.

my thought too

and guys do all d evry evry 4rm hair 2 clothes 2 pecks and abs. . . . . . .buh society wld still pay more attention 2 boobs!

ah! boobs you said?

Society wise, It is deemed unnatural immoral rude too direct unfeminine less funny when a woman make the proposal to a male. So women are left to one choice-:in order to pressurize the male to consider; to contribute the meeting and mating process ; and compete with their fellows for love and attention/attraction: " their looks". Hence the emphasis on looks. u may be any thing educated intelligent accomplished,  but u will be noted most and first by your looks by men and women. This is cos of the corruption that is in the world through lust as the bible has said . If u are aware and can recall in the movie s*x and the city- one of the female characters did say that u wont find an accomplished man unmarried/unattached but u will find an accomplished woman unmarried/unattached.

so the lewd dressing is an indirect invitation to 'mate'?

Believe me or not when u r attractive u r 40% close to success.