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Top 3 Things Nigerian Women Do That Destroy Their Marriages. by OEmiohe: 3:30pm On Mar 08, 2016
1. Criticize him, make fun of him and belittle him to your friends and family:

When you criticize and belittle your husband, you not only diminish your husband in your eyes, but you also poison those closest to you. You force them to take sides, and of course they choose your side, because they want to be loyal to you.
Your friends and family don't live at your house.They don't see what goes on day after day. They don't see the good things your husband does.The only view they have of your husband is the one that you present to them. If you are constantly badmouthing and belittling him, then they will view him as a bad partner for you.

2. Disrespecting his insight, opinions and advice:

Men and women are different on many levels. Men are fixers. By nature, if you present a problem, he will come up with concrete steps to solve the problem. When you are dismissive, it sends the message that you do not value him. When you come to your husband with a problem or a concern, be ready for him to create an action plan to resolve your conflict. It may not be exactly what you would do, but he is offering a solution. The least you can do is listen to his suggestion, and thank him for his input.

3. Undermining his authority, but demanding he take full responsibility:

In any organization, there must be a leader, someone in charge. The head over the whole organization, who says, "The buck stops here."Typically, the person who carries the responsibility ought to be the one who has the final say. Families and relationships are much like
any other organization. There must be someone in charge, someone who will take full responsibility when things go wrong, and someone that everyone can turn to.

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