the subject above has being a question asked by many folks who i discovered troubled by the church persons or groups. pls your view.

None of the above,an ideal marriage is not for public,church,friends or family consumption.

The church always tries to get involved, depending on how close you are with your pastor/priest.
The truth is that, no matter what what people think, marriage is always a family affair, but its up to the couples to know the level of involment they want from the respective families.

@poster
i hope you aint refering to weddings.
wedding and marriage are two different things o, but they both have one thing in common.
The couples can get who they want involved. simple

It is a personal thing.
Not even the family thing nor the church thing.
Cos when push come to shuffle, the man and the woman will be the one facing it alone.

Both