When some women enter into a new relationship they come up with the "no sex till I find out he is serious" then later in the relationship when they feel "he is now serious" they will give in to sex... This is laughable how do you know when a guy is serious? Is seriousness giving sex outside wedlock... if you are one of these women you are only fooling yourself delaying sex till you feel a guy is serious does not make sense because after giving sex when you think he's serious he can still dump you. Will you then say he is serious after dumping you? And There's nothing like if you show your partner too much love they start misbehaving. I hear some women say "if you show a man too much love he will start misbehaving/ start taking you for granted" thinking this way is ridiculous. Showing someone much love will rather keep them than push them away the problem is most women who reason this way are not showing their man love but are rather stalking/ choking him.... there's a big difference between stalking/ choking and showing love. When they find them self stalking their man to them following him everywhere and monitoring all his activities is love they think if you love someone then showing it is feeling concern by following them everywhere. When you start stalking your partner the next thing is they see you as a problem they don't see your action as love and so they start pulling away from you rather than appreciate the fact that it is because you love them is why you stalk on them.... This is why some people think that when you show your partner too much love they start misbehaving or take you for granted. Nobody will ever take love for granted no matter what.. Just like the case of a stubborn child whom the parents keep monitoring so he/she won't go astray. To the child they are stalking him/her and he/she start feeling uncomfortable being around their parent but to the parent constantly monitoring the child is them showing they love and care for that child.. Same thing happens when you stalk your partner thinking your constant monitoring is showing them love they start pulling away and to you pulling away is what you now refer to as "taking your love for granted"... know the difference stalking/choking your partner is different from showing them love. Nobody starts misbehaving because you are showing them more love,stalking them with it is what they are reacting to and not the love you are showing them.
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From>>http://www.luvkey.com/2016/03/know-difference-stalkingchoking-your.html