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Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by lezz(m): 7:18pm On Mar 17, 2016
1 in 16 women today will hit menopause before age 40!

For some, it could come as early as mid to early 30s without the symptoms of irritability, vagina dryness or mood swings!!!

This is one of the many shortfalls of modern life of work, stress and quick-food, the modern woman has paid away in exchange of being 21st century compliant!

Human activities and expectation have doubled at a time when life expectancy in many developing countries has fallen.

For some reason, girls experience their first menses earlier than was the case during the 60's, and women clock in their menopausal age faster than they used to....


The shocking irony is that our grand mothers who carry their fertility far into their late 50's married earlier than today's women, many of whom would consider themselves lucky to see their menses at 40 yrs.

It is a staggering observation that most ladies today mary late and still go through the risk of ovarian failure while still so young.

The demand of education, career, and a preconceived husband of phantasy have made many ladies settle late domestically.

Waiting for a perfect blend of education, career and Mr Right to materialise without checking their fertility state and ability of motherhood!!!

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Re: Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by haywire1: 7:34pm On Mar 17, 2016
CORRECT, I PITY THOSE LADIES SHOWING HARD TO GET SKILLS grin grin grin grin


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Re: Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by Fairytales: 7:52pm On Mar 17, 2016
lezz:
1 in 16 women today will hit menopause before age 40!

For some, it could come as early as mid to early 30s without the symptoms of irritability, vagina dryness or mood swings!!!

This is one of the many shortfalls of modern life of work, stress and quick-food, the modern woman has paid away in exchange of being 21st century compliant!

Human activities and expectation have doubled at a time when life expectancy in many developing countries has fallen.

For some reason, girls experience their first menses earlier than was the case during the 60's, and women clock in their menopausal age faster than they used to....


The shocking irony is that our grand mothers who carry their fertility far into their late 50's married earlier than today's women, many of whom would consider themselves lucky to see their menses at 40 yrs.

It is a staggering observation that most ladies today mary late and still go through the risk of ovarian failure while still so young.

The demand of education, career, and a preconceived husband of phantasy has made many ladies settle late domestically.

Waiting for a perfect blend of education, career and Mr Right to materialise without checking their fertility state and ability of motherhood!!!
old school talk, you think every woman is interested in marriage? We are talking about developing ourselves, attaining even higher heights than our male counterparts, you are here talking marriage, mtshew.

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Re: Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by Nobody: 7:57pm On Mar 17, 2016
If that is a problem, then it's left for women to solve. U guys shuld leave woman matter, focus ur attention on finding a solution to d ever increasing erectile dysfunction cos It is becoming a topic at most female gathering these days.
undecided

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Re: Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by lezz(m): 8:04pm On Mar 17, 2016
mineANDurs:
If that is a problem, then it's left for women to solve. U guys shuld leave woman matter, focus ur attention on finding a solution to d ever increasing erectile dysfunction cos It is becoming a topic at most female gathering these days.
undecided
This isn't a gender bashing thread! It's a matter of grave concern!

Viagra is a drug that takes care of the physical dysfunctional problems of erectile malfunctioning!!!
Women have no such drug!!

Rather the threat of premature ovarian failure is real and has no cure!!!

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Re: Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by lezz(m): 8:06pm On Mar 17, 2016
Fairytales:
old school talk, you think every woman is interested in marriage? We are talking about developing ourselves, attaining even higher heights than our male counterparts, you are here talking marriage, mtshew.


Marriage isn't for everyone!
But I doubt I'll find a woman who doesn't want a kid of her own!!!

So instead of wasting all of her years in a career and fantasising about a mythical husband , she should worry about her ability to produce children from her own ovaries!!!

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Re: Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by diva90: 8:12pm On Mar 17, 2016
I don't advice any woman to marry before 25. By 25, yes! After 30, the chances of her finding a partner are pretty slim. Btw these days I don't know if marriage is something that should be rushed into, it's no joke!

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Re: Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by Nobody: 8:16pm On Mar 17, 2016
lezz:
Viagra is a drug that takes care of the physical dysfunctional problems of erectile malfunctioning!!!
Women have no such drug!!

Rather the threat of premature ovarian failure is real and has no cure!!!

Prolonged use of viagra causes heart attack, I guess u dont know dat abi?
Just make sure u leave an inheritance for ur family b4 u die k?
And u think erectile dysfunction is not a matter of grave concern? Why do u think a lot of married women cheat these days?
Well it's bcause more and more men are developing erectile dysfunction and are too proud to admit it or seek help.
If a woman dosnt conceive after 1yr of marriage, u will see her making an effort, dats y Gynaecologists are making money and Urologists are packing up.

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Re: Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by Dklef(m): 8:18pm On Mar 17, 2016
LOL, Lezz. I disagree with you as marriage is not and should not be the top priority of anyone (even a woman}

There is more to life order than marriage. Finding our purposes on earth and fighting towards achieving them is fundamental.
However a lady should also put her 'reproduction life' into consideration and basically plan her sex life.

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Re: Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by lezz(m): 8:19pm On Mar 17, 2016
mineANDurs:


Prolonged use of viagra causes heart attack, I guess u dont know dat abi?
Just make sure u leave an inheritance for ur family b4 u die k?
Prolonged use of Viagra wouldn't be needed in productive expediency!!!

'Sides, I do not have a need for Viagra.

I can get it up and make you feel like the woman you were meant to be!
Re: Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by lezz(m): 8:22pm On Mar 17, 2016
Dklef:
LOL, Lezz. I disagree with you as marriage is not and should not be the top priority of anyone (even a woman}

There is more to life order than marriage. Finding our purposes on earth and fighting towards achieving them is fundamental.
However a lady should also put her 'reproduction life' into consideration and basically plan her sex life.

Very so.
Marriage isn't for everyone!

But the majority of women want to bear their own children!

And with this age of junk food, career pursuit, stress, job demands that all culminate into late marriage, it behoves women should be aware of the risk they bear!
Re: Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by Nobody: 8:23pm On Mar 17, 2016
mineANDurs:
If that is a problem, then it's left for women to solve. U guys shuld leave woman matter, focus ur attention on finding a solution to d ever increasing erectile dysfunction cos It is becoming a topic at most female gathering these days.
undecided
Increasing Erectile Dysfunction is as a result of failure on the part of the women to deliver edible and quality dishes to their families.

Most ladies can't even switch on a gas cooker.
Few who may succeed, can't even fry just an egg.
Yet they envy and crave for most NOLLYWOOD'S kitchen cooking cabinets.

They only enroll themselves through cathering abattoirs learning how to cook a mere RUBBER BAND a.k.a INDOMIE..

WHY WON'T MEN fall flaccid. .. ?

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Re: Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by Nobody: 8:24pm On Mar 17, 2016
lezz:
Prolonged use of Viagra wouldn't be needed in productive expediency!!!

'Sides, I do not have a need for Viagra.

I can get it up and make you feel like the woman you were meant to be!

Thanks for d offer but Not interested!
Re: Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by Nobody: 8:25pm On Mar 17, 2016
EVILFOREST:

Increasing Erectile Dysfunction is as a result of failure on the part of the women to deliver edible and quality dishes to their families.

Most ladies can't even switch on a gas cooker.
Few who may succeed, can't even fry just an egg.
Yet they envy and crave most NOLLYWOOD'S kitchen cooking cabinets.

They only enroll themselves through cathering abattoirs learning how to cook a mere RUBBER BAND a.k.a INDOMIE..

WHY WON'T MEN fall flaccid. .. ?

Keep deceiving urself k?

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Re: Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by lezz(m): 8:26pm On Mar 17, 2016
mineANDurs:


Thanks for d offer but Not interested!
It isn't an offer!!!

It's a statement of fact!!!!!!

You need a DP first to get a tease from Leslie cheesy
Re: Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by lilmax(m): 8:43pm On Mar 17, 2016
Fairytales:
old school talk, you think every woman is interested in marriage? We are talking about developing ourselves, attaining even higher heights than our male counterparts, you are here talking marriage, mtshew.
grincheesy

And the deception continues

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Re: Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by lilmax(m): 8:54pm On Mar 17, 2016
Its better to get married early than blame men for not asking you out when you get old and then join feminism saying life is not fair to women cheesy

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Re: Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by bukatyne(f): 8:56pm On Mar 17, 2016
lezz:
Prolonged use of Viagra wouldn't be needed in productive expediency!!!

'Sides, I do not have a need for Viagra.

I can get it up and make you feel like the woman you were meant to be!

@Bold:

See advert

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Re: Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by lezz(m): 9:08pm On Mar 17, 2016
bukatyne:


@Bold:

See advert
I don't quite follow undecided
Re: Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by mizquote(f): 9:25pm On Mar 17, 2016
lezz:



Marriage isn't for everyone!
But I doubt I'll find a woman who doesn't want a kid of her own!!!

So instead of wasting all of her years in a career and fantasising about a mythical husband , she should worry about her ability to produce children from her own ovaries!!!

and you feel women must get married before they can bear kids?

with the high level of technology and choices ranging from ivf, adoption to surrogacy.

Nawoa for some reasoning sha.

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Re: Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by aforti(m): 9:30pm On Mar 17, 2016
You talk of menopause and child bearing as criteria for y women should marry at an early age, and you also talked of reduced life expectancy
My question is what if the just want to have 1 child? And cont to live their lives, what point will they be trying to prove exactly by giving birth to battalions?
Also do you know that child bearing is a potential risk to life?, hence child bearing itself reduced your life expectancy by 1% of the expected?
Secondly marriage is also a recipe for disaster or a recipe for happiness. It can increase or reduce your life expectancy. My point is there is more to life than marriage.

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Re: Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by lezz(m): 9:35pm On Mar 17, 2016
mizquote:


and you feel women must get married before they can bear kids?

with the high level of technology and choices ranging from ivf, adoption to surrogacy.

Nawoa for some reasoning sha.
surrogacy and adoption will never fill up the chasm of emptiness that marks a woman's inability to birth her own kid!!!

You know your womanhood is marked by your ability to produce your own kid from your own ovary!


Once you stop producing eggs your chances of ivf is considerably poor and prone to failure.

As your ovaries can't even produce it's own egg for ivf to take advantage of!

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Re: Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by aforti(m): 9:37pm On Mar 17, 2016
EVILFOREST:

Increasing Erectile Dysfunction is as a result of failure on the part of the women to deliver edible and quality dishes to their families.

Most ladies can't even switch on a gas cooker.
Few who may succeed, can't even fry just an egg.
Yet they envy and crave for most NOLLYWOOD'S kitchen cooking cabinets.

They only enroll themselves through cathering abattoirs learning how to cook a mere RUBBER BAND a.k.a INDOMIE..

WHY WON'T MEN fall flaccid. .. ?


So the guys in their parents houses still having erectile dysfunction it means their mothers can't even deliver edible and quality dishes abi? Smh..I can see you have a manhood but where did your brain go to? Pls call it back you need it more then your stick

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Re: Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by aforti(m): 9:38pm On Mar 17, 2016
EVILFOREST:

Increasing Erectile Dysfunction is as a result of failure on the part of the women to deliver edible and quality dishes to their families.

Most ladies can't even switch on a gas cooker.
Few who may succeed, can't even fry just an egg.
Yet they envy and crave for most NOLLYWOOD'S kitchen cooking cabinets.

They only enroll themselves through cathering abattoirs learning how to cook a mere RUBBER BAND a.k.a INDOMIE..

WHY WON'T MEN fall flaccid. .. ?


So the guys in their parents houses still having erectile dysfunction it means their mothers can't even deliver edible and quality dishes abi? Smh..I can see you have a manhood but where did your brain go to? Pls call it back you need it

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Re: Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by virginboy1(m): 9:51pm On Mar 17, 2016
mineANDurs:
If that is a problem, then it's left for women to solve. U guys shuld leave woman matter, focus ur attention on finding a solution to d ever increasing erectile dysfunction cos It is becoming a topic at most female gathering these days.
undecided
Sister we care about our naija women a lot, so we can't just free your matter just like that.
Take heed. "Abi una no want born legit Children for us"?

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Re: Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by AfricanApple(f): 10:33pm On Mar 17, 2016
haywire1:
CORRECT, I PITY THOSE LADIES SHOWING HARD TO GET SKILLS grin grin grin grin


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jumping to comment, I doubt you even read through. what does 'playing hard to get' has to do with the post! ah! na wa o

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Re: Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by Dheartless: 11:14pm On Mar 17, 2016
lezz:
1 in 16 women today will hit menopause before age 40!

For some, it could come as early as mid to early 30s without the symptoms of irritability, vagina dryness or mood swings!!!

This is one of the many shortfalls of modern life of work, stress and quick-food, the modern woman has paid away in exchange of being 21st century compliant!

Human activities and expectation have doubled at a time when life expectancy in many developing countries has fallen.

For some reason, girls experience their first menses earlier than was the case during the 60's, and women clock in their menopausal age faster than they used to....


The shocking irony is that our grand mothers who carry their fertility far into their late 50's married earlier than today's women, many of whom would consider themselves lucky to see their menses at 40 yrs.

It is a staggering observation that most ladies today mary late and still go through the risk of ovarian failure while still so young.

The demand of education, career, and a preconceived husband of phantasy has made many ladies settle late domestically.

Waiting for a perfect blend of education, career and Mr Right to materialise without checking their fertility state and ability of motherhood!!!
how much more info does this require ??
the only reason I support this thread is that , it is good to always "irrespective of the number of times ", warn a person you love over the danger that associating with an issue.
but our beloved "todays" females will choose to be the alpha and omega, just because they women !!!

I swear a thing happened today that concern my beloved females, it really got me angry, i will not use that as a criteria to jugde over the morals of this thread but I will post a thing concerning what happened today on another thread.

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Re: Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by cococandy(f): 3:22am On Mar 18, 2016
What won't you guys blame us for? grin

Erectile dysfunction is now the fault of women too? Issorait.
EVILFOREST:

[mIncreasing Erectile Dysfunction is as a result of failure on the part of the women to deliver edible and quality dishes to their families.

Most ladies can't even switch on a gas cooker.
Few who may succeed, can't even fry just an egg.
Yet they envy and crave for most NOLLYWOOD'S kitchen cooking cabinets.

They only enroll themselves through cathering abattoirs learning how to cook a mere RUBBER BAND a.k.a INDOMIE..

WHY WON'T MEN fall flaccid. .. ?

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Re: Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by Creamish(f): 8:49am On Mar 18, 2016
What U have posted really does apply to some women..but not all are biologically wired same. Some are unable to birth a child all thru their marital years regardless of the age they got married...while some birth beyond 40.

One really needs to consider your aforementioned valid points but then again, a woman who finds her partner before 25 is indeed fortunate. Some will read this piece and jump into a disastrous marriage just to avoid the age-induced issues and end up far worse than they would have been childless..

My point is.. Ceteris Paribus, ur aforementioned applies..but we know all things are not always equal.

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Re: Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by Acidosis(m): 9:20am On Mar 18, 2016
As far as I'm concerned, ALL Nigerian women want to get married.


Let's stop the deception. I've never seen a woman who frowns at a beautiful matrimony. They all love it, fantasize about that ring, the wedding gown, the proposal, the baby, the baby bump, etc.

No room for deception.

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Re: Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by ireneidiva(f): 9:41am On Mar 18, 2016
Acidosis:
As far as I'm concerned, ALL Nigerian women want to get married.


Let's stop the deception. I've never seen a woman who frowns at a beautiful matrimony. They all love it, fantasize about that ring, the wedding gown, the proposal, the baby, the baby bump, etc.

No room for deception.
Even men. But a lot are not ready by 25. No rush.

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Re: Why Today's Women Should Marry Before Age 25! by lezz(m): 9:57am On Mar 18, 2016
diva90:
I don't advice any woman to marry before 25. By 25, yes! After 30, the chances of her finding a partner are pretty slim. Btw these days I don't know if marriage is something that should be rushed into, it's no joke!
Women Should even marry before 25!

1 in 16 women hitting menopause as early as 33 is alarming!

Mind the statistics is even much worse in developing regions like Africa.


'Sides, a woman should have finished bearing children in her early 30s for her body to recuperate well and firm up into menopause and middle age.


Women find it hard to get married early due to several factors that has marked the 21st century.

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