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HELP!!! i am suffering from lust in my dreams by Nobody: 1:12pm On Apr 17, 2016
I repented three years ago but since then i still battled with lust and masturbation. it is a horrible secret sin to me and though i was not comfortable, i found myself doing it. By the grace of God two weeks ago i repented genuinely and i had peace as if it flows from a river. indeed, it flew from a river which is Jesus Christ because i was so confident, i was feeling it like never before. The peace was there till five days ago when i started experiencing serious spiritual battles in the dream:

1. The first night, I dreamt of a lady pursuing me with a ring, i shot a door against her and by the grace of God, i had victory.

2. The second night, i found myself lusting over a lady i met during my NYSC service year. In this particular dream, i found myself in a serious competition with one man for her.

3. Now, just yesterday night, i was lusting, kissing and touching a white lady!!

Does this mean i am not saved?
Does it mean i have a spiritual wife?
why is it that the strategy the devil is using is spiritual lust which is so hard to resist?
can i ever overcome this battle alone?

please help me because i came back from church and i was so weak, very weak that i gave in to the temptation of masturbating.

i have repented yet again and i want a quick solution.

thank you.
Re: HELP!!! i am suffering from lust in my dreams by ITbomb(m): 1:35pm On Apr 17, 2016
This one strong o

You may have probably watched too much porn back then, those images are in your subconscious memory and requires little trigger to come out.

To fight, actively tell yourself that those images are wrong, hold a sword and swing it at any of the characters in your imagination or dreams. Killing them with sword instead of trying to hold down or divert the thoughts works for me, just try it.
Sometimes practical exercises are better than praying and casting
Re: HELP!!! i am suffering from lust in my dreams by Nobody: 7:55pm On Apr 17, 2016
ITbomb:
This one strong o

You may have probably watched too much porn back then, those images are in your subconscious memory and requires little trigger to come out.

To fight, actively tell yourself that those images are wrong, hold a sword and swing it at any of the characters in your imagination or dreams. Killing them with sword instead of trying to hold down or divert the thoughts works for me, just try it.
Sometimes practical exercises are better than praying and casting

the sword i am learning to use is the word of God

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Re: HELP!!! i am suffering from lust in my dreams by Tjayjosh(m): 8:41pm On Apr 17, 2016
@EnuguJOBHUNT. Yes you are born again. But, you need a deliverance session. To free you completely from those demons who have attached themselves to you, as a result of the act of masturbation and other sexual sins relating to it.

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Re: HELP!!! i am suffering from lust in my dreams by Nobody: 9:08pm On Apr 17, 2016
Tjayjosh:
@EnuguJOBHUNT. Yes you are born again. But, you need a deliverance session. To free you completely from those demons whom have attached themselves to you, as a result of the act of masturbation and other sexual sins relating to it.

thank you Sir. i really appreciate your comment.
Re: HELP!!! i am suffering from lust in my dreams by Nobody: 9:13pm On Apr 17, 2016
Tjayjosh:
@EnuguJOBHUNT. Yes you are born again. But, you need a deliverance session. To free you completely from those demons whom have attached themselves to you, as a result of the act of masturbation and other sexual sins relating to it.

the deliverance you talked about, can it be done alone, by myself, in the name of Jesus Christ or do I need a pastor?
Re: HELP!!! i am suffering from lust in my dreams by Dammyrosky(m): 9:16pm On Apr 17, 2016
My brother move closer to the word of God(Bible), take it has your dear friend, meditate on it frequently and let the word be written in your heart. And particularly never cease praying. God is able to deliver you by his grace. That's one of the greatest weapon the devil use on we christians, we must not surrender to it by letting the message of christ fill our toughts. May God help you in jesus name.(amen)
Re: HELP!!! i am suffering from lust in my dreams by Nobody: 9:30pm On Apr 17, 2016
Dammyrosky:
My brother move closer to the word of God(Bible), take it has your dear friend, meditate on it frequently and let the word be written in your heart. And particularly never cease praying. God is able to deliver you by his grace. That's one of the greatest weapon the devil use on we christians, we must not surrender to it by letting the message of christ fill our toughts. May God help you in jesus name.(amen)

Thank you my brother. you have really helped a brother. Meditating the word of God was what helped me for the two weeks i was genuine, until the battle became so strong to handle. it happened like this:

i fought and succeeded in overcoming physical lust but the sin i overcame in the physical surfaced in the spiritual to overcome me. Sometimes i feel i am alone suffering this. i will make the word of God my best friend as you advised. thank you.
Re: HELP!!! i am suffering from lust in my dreams by Tjayjosh(m): 9:33pm On Apr 17, 2016
EnuguJOBHUNT:


the deliverance you talked about, can it be done alone, by myself, in the name of Jesus Christ or do I need a pastor?
Self deliverance is ok. I recommend a 3 or 7 days fasting and prayers. You can cast those demons out by the power of the Holy spirit who dwells in you. By all means avoid anything that lights up the lustful flame in you, i.e, pornographic movies or mags, sexually explicit movies etc. Continually feed your spirit with the word of God. It's not going to be easy, but you can do it. Masturbation, lustful thinking opens up a spirit portal for demons to have access to oppress you. The lord is your strenght. God bless you my broda!

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Re: HELP!!! i am suffering from lust in my dreams by Dammyrosky(m): 9:42pm On Apr 17, 2016
EnuguJOBHUNT:


Thank you my brother. you have really helped a brother. Meditating the word of God was what helped me for the two weeks i was genuine, until the battle became so strong to handle. it happened like this:

i fought and succeeded in overcoming physical lust but the sin i overcame in the physical surfaced in the spiritual to overcome me. Sometimes i feel i am alone suffering this. i will make the word of God my best friend as you advised. thank you.
God will surely intervene to your case in jesus name. I can understand little on how you feel, Am so certain the almighty God will deliver you.
Re: HELP!!! i am suffering from lust in my dreams by Nobody: 9:42pm On Apr 17, 2016
Tjayjosh:

Self deliverance is ok. I recommend a 3 or 7 days fasting and prayers. You can cast those demons out by the power of the Holy spirit who dwells in you. By all means avoid anything that lights up the lustful flame in you, i.e, pornographic movies or mags, sexually explicit movies etc. Continually feed your spirit with the word of God. It's not going to be easy, but you can do it. Masturbation, lustful thinking opens up a spirit portal for demons to have access to oppress you. The lord is your strenght. God bless you my broda!


Amen, thank you Sir.
Re: HELP!!! i am suffering from lust in my dreams by Nobody: 9:45pm On Apr 17, 2016
Dammyrosky:
God will surely intervene to your case in jesus name. I can understand little on how you feel, Am so certain the almighty God will deliver you.

God bless you my brother.

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Re: HELP!!! i am suffering from lust in my dreams by Nobody: 9:54pm On Apr 17, 2016
EnuguJOBHUNT:
I repented three years ago but since then i still battled with lust and masturbation. it is a horrible secret sin to me and though i was not comfortable, i found myself doing it. By the grace of God two weeks ago i repented genuinely and i had peace as if it flows from a river. indeed, it flew from a river which is Jesus Christ because i was so confident, i was feeling it like never before. The peace was there till five days ago when i started experiencing serious spiritual battles in the dream:

1. The first night, I dreamt of a lady pursuing me with a ring, i shot a door against her and by the grace of God, i had victory.

2. The second night, i found myself lusting over a lady i met during my NYSC service year. In this particular dream, i found myself in a serious competition with one man for her.

3. Now, just yesterday night, i was lusting, kissing and touching a white lady!!

Does this mean i am not saved?
Does it mean i have a spiritual wife?
why is it that the strategy the devil is using is spiritual lust which is so hard to resist?
can i ever overcome this battle alone?

please help me because i came back from church and i was so weak, very weak that i gave in to the temptation of masturbating.

i have repented yet again and i want a quick solution.

thank you.


You have a spiritual wife or sex partner whom you attracted by masturbation. Your being born again has dealt a great blow to your relationship with her. That is the reason for the attack.

Everyone who masturbates is oppressed by a demon. Such people if they engage in a hot night vigil they will be attacked most times by the demon covering or pressing them when they go to sleep. They hardly make progress financially.

That doesn't mean your not born again. If means your a baby child of God. If you enlighten your spirit with the word of God through meditation. Those devils oppressing you will disappear.

You can deal with that demon effectly by the knowledge of the word of God not by prayer alone. This is because, if you cast it out. It come back later more aggressively. That is why you hear many people here say you can't stop masturbation.

But when the light of God's word drives it out. It lighten you that it can not come again. You know the devil is darkness and light defeat darkness anytime anywhere

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Re: HELP!!! i am suffering from lust in my dreams by thecultivateur(m): 10:17pm On Apr 17, 2016
Firstly, In order for you to prevent lust from invading your heart again, you need to recognise it for what it really is instead of you trying to deny the presence of such in your life. You must admit it as your weakness. Without your admittance of such, you can never conquer it in your life. It takes true humility & genuine repentance to do this. The apostle John said about this in the book of 1 john 1: 8-10
Second, once u realised this, the next thing u will do is to confess that sin of lust to God, tellin Him that u're truly sorry. The bible says that God is always faithful & just, He is quick to forgive us of our sins when we were remorseful & repentant. Also find a worthy person to confess that you have such weakness to that individual so that the person will know that you are serious about over coming such problem in ur life & will assist you in your quest to do so. This is because you need to be accountable to someone should you find yourself slipping back to that dark path again. Thirdly, remove & avoid all manner of medium that will incite lust to rise again in ur heart, including hard & soft porns, bad friends, x-rated movies & music videos, being alone with the opposite sex in a private place etc Matt. 5: 27-30
Finally, this is the hardest part but by the special grace of God, you can do it. Realise that you can't overcome this weakness on your own. You need to trust master Jesus to help you overcome it. The bible says that we can do all things through Christ who strengthens us. This is something that only Jesus alone can do, not just by your own might. Remember to pray to God always, bro. It's your greatest weapon against forces of evil. I will also advice you to always find time & study the new testament scriptures to aid you in your quest in overcoming evil. Goodluck in your faith walk to perfection. May the spirit of the lord be with you & give you strength to overcome your temptations.

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Re: HELP!!! i am suffering from lust in my dreams by Nobody: 10:20pm On Apr 17, 2016
soulpeppersoup:


You have a spiritual wife or sex partner whom you attracted by masturbation. Your being born again has dealt a great blow to your relationship with her. That is the reason for the attack.

Everyone who masturbates is oppressed by a demon. Such people if they engage in a hot night vigil they will be attacked most times by the demon covering or pressing them when they go to sleep. They hardly make progress financially.

That doesn't mean your not born again. If means your a baby child of God. If you enlighten your spirit with the word of God through meditation. Those devils oppressing you will disappear.

You can deal with that demon effectly by the knowledge of the word of God not by prayer alone. This is because, if you cast it out. It come back later more aggressively. That is why you hear many people here say you can't stop masturbation.

But when the light of God's word drives it out. It lighten you that it can not come again. You know the devil is darkness and light defeat darkness anytime anywhere

thank you so much Sir, these words have opened my eyes now. so true and hard food but by the grace of God i will obey this advice.
Re: HELP!!! i am suffering from lust in my dreams by AVRecruit: 10:38pm On Apr 17, 2016
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Re: HELP!!! i am suffering from lust in my dreams by Nobody: 8:21am On Apr 18, 2016
grin grin grin this guy and kpekus

Re: HELP!!! i am suffering from lust in my dreams by Nobody: 10:37am On Apr 18, 2016
Our soul has escaped as a bird from the snare of the fowlers; The snare is broken and we have escaped. psalm 124 vs 7
Re: HELP!!! i am suffering from lust in my dreams by Amberon11: 9:03am On Apr 19, 2016
[b] This is how you can be free from water spirit( spirit wive) [\b]

first, you must repent fully from all sins from the depth of your heart. while doing so, you must also acknowledge that you're a sinner and that your actions opened the portal for those demons that are tormenting you.

read psalm 51 as many times as possible until it sinks into your spirit man. The only prayer you're expected to say is [b]"have mercy upon me oh God in the name of Jesus" [\b] .

Remember the prayer of a sinner is an abomination unto God. so the only prayer of you're that God will hear is prayer of repentance.

I don't like typing too much, if you use Airtel, kindly drop your number and i'll call you.
God bless you!
EnuguJOBHUNT:
Our soul has escaped as a bird from the snare of the fowlers; The snare is broken and we have escaped. psalm 124 vs 7
Re: HELP!!! i am suffering from lust in my dreams by Amberon11: 9:08am On Apr 19, 2016
you are very much enlightened. God bless you!

when people say masturbation is not a sin, I look at them in pity. Masturbation is even worse then fornication because it attracts spirit husbands/wives and trust me those demons are the most aggressive demons. They can hinder progress and block every good thing from locating someone.
soulpeppersoup:


You have a spiritual wife or sex partner whom you attracted by masturbation. Your being born again has dealt a great blow to your relationship with her. That is the reason for the attack.

Everyone who masturbates is oppressed by a demon. Such people if they engage in a hot night vigil they will be attacked most times by the demon covering or pressing them when they go to sleep. They hardly make progress financially.

That doesn't mean your not born again. If means your a baby child of God. If you enlighten your spirit with the word of God through meditation. Those devils oppressing you will disappear.

You can deal with that demon effectly by the knowledge of the word of God not by prayer alone. This is because, if you cast it out. It come back later more aggressively. That is why you hear many people here say you can't stop masturbation.

But when the light of God's word drives it out. It lighten you that it can not come again. You know the devil is darkness and light defeat darkness anytime anywhere
Re: HELP!!! i am suffering from lust in my dreams by ifenes(m): 9:24am On Apr 19, 2016
Amberon11:
you are very much enlightened. God bless you!

when people say masturbation is not a sin, I look at them in pity. Masturbation is even worse then fornication because it attracts spirit husbands/wives and trust me those demons are the most aggressive demons. They can hinder progress and block every good thing from locating someone.

Spirit husbands and wives?? I better start doing it then. I would rather a spirit wife over anything.
Re: HELP!!! i am suffering from lust in my dreams by Amberon11: 9:58am On Apr 19, 2016
your cup of tea!
ifenes:


Spirit husbands and wives?? I better start doing it then. I would rather a spirit wife over anything.
Re: HELP!!! i am suffering from lust in my dreams by Nobody: 10:30am On Apr 19, 2016
ifenes:


Spirit husbands and wives?? I better start doing it then. I would rather a spirit wife over anything.

Oh!!! Please don't desire such. That spirit can suck your strength and make you worthless in life. give your life to Jesus.
Re: HELP!!! i am suffering from lust in my dreams by Nobody: 10:31am On Apr 19, 2016
Amberon11:
[b] This is how you can be free from water spirit( spirit wive) [\b]

first, you must repent fully from all sins from the depth of your heart. while doing so, you must also acknowledge that you're a sinner and that your actions opened the portal for those demons that are tormenting you.

read psalm 51 as many times as possible until it sinks into your spirit man. The only prayer you're expected to say is [b]"have mercy upon me oh God in the name of Jesus" [\b] .

Remember the prayer of a sinner is an abomination unto God. so the only prayer of you're that God will hear is prayer of repentance.

I don't like typing too much, if you use Airtel, kindly drop your number and i'll call you.
God bless you!

Thank you Sir, God bless you.
Re: HELP!!! i am suffering from lust in my dreams by ifenes(m): 11:15am On Apr 19, 2016
Amberon11:
your cup of tea!

You really think Spirit wife is true? Please get real
Re: HELP!!! i am suffering from lust in my dreams by ifenes(m): 11:16am On Apr 19, 2016
EnuguJOBHUNT:


Oh!!! Please don't desire such. That spirit can suck your strength and make you worthless in life. give your life to Jesus.

Stop!! You think I share your fears?
Re: HELP!!! i am suffering from lust in my dreams by Amberon11: 11:29am On Apr 19, 2016
ifeness, do you want me to give you a call?
ifenes:

You really think Spirit wife is true? Please get real
Re: HELP!!! i am suffering from lust in my dreams by ifenes(m): 11:40am On Apr 19, 2016
Amberon11:
ifeness, do you want me to give you a call?

.
Re: HELP!!! i am suffering from lust in my dreams by multioption: 12:41pm On Apr 19, 2016
There's a handle the devil uses to handle/control every living soul; it is called Flesh. From your narrative, the enemy has located masturbation as the gateway into your soul, hence they are taking advantage of it.

Your repentance is genuine, and so is your salvation. But there's something left on your part. You must destroy the satanic gateway into your soul, which is lust.

How?

There are several ways to go about it - as some have suggested on this thread (Fasting, Praying, Meditation, Renewing your mind via the Word), but the victory you'll experience physically may have little or no effect in the dream world. So, what's the way out?

I suggest you to read an article here: Overcoming Masturbation, Sexual Struggle and Compulsive Habits.
https://web.facebook.com/notes/faithful-joel/overcoming-masturbation-sexual-struggle-compulsive-habits/1203003649721664/
Re: HELP!!! i am suffering from lust in my dreams by Amberon11: 4:06pm On Apr 19, 2016
Lol.. ain't nobody selling their soul. I'll give you a call shortly.
ifenes:


Yes give me a call +447990070165 convince me to sell my soul to the arabs
Re: HELP!!! i am suffering from lust in my dreams by Boboye4slim(m): 12:13am On Apr 20, 2016
Amberon11:
Lol.. ain't nobody selling their soul. I'll give you a call shortly.
this is my number I need your help too 08080098777 or you can just drop yours I'll call you myself
Re: HELP!!! i am suffering from lust in my dreams by ifenes(m): 5:58am On Apr 21, 2016
Amberon11:
Lol.. ain't nobody selling their soul. I'll give you a call shortly.

Still waiting

I will put you on speaker so you can convert my friends and I

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