Chai WOMEN DON SUFFER FOR DIS WORLD.SOOOOO A man and a woman have sex ,d woman gets pregnant ,carries d baby for nine month ,goes to d labour room(while d man might be with edible caterer) and almost dies trying to bring d baby to d world .After d birth of d baby her body changes,she's no longer beautiful as she was bfor child birth ......and den d man go con dey drag say na him suppose get custody of d pikin? To hell with Yoruba customary court or wateva u call it.

How many of his other en strange women has their children living with him ?

Get tiwa s videos here. Or better still, upload yours
www.videonaija.tv

Good thing we have music to help us tru sad times

Sapphire86:
OP, are you and TJ smoking cocaine together cuz this is pure trash!!

Hmmmmm

You self

nonhuman:
my friend stop making noise if it comes to Christianity u will be the first to I love Jesus. the bible already itself cleae . marieage is for better or worst . besides if tiwa its not wealthy do u think she would have opted out?

Oga bible says a man that can not provide for his family is worse than an infidel. Also infidelity is the only acceptable reason for divorce which happened in this case. But WHY would an educated (supposedly) man say inadvertently that it's better for a woman to be poor so that she ll remain in a bad marriage. Nigeria, which way..

ourchoice:
If not for money and material need, majority of Nigerian women won't marry any man! #FACT

If TeeBillz had money, Tiwa wouldn't have disgraced him the way she did...2face Idibia, Danjuma, Late MKO Abiola, Late Abacha, Shino Peters, etc are more irresponsible than Teebillz but still, their wives and concubines who are prettier and hotter than Tiwa Savage times 2 condone them and even defend their cheating and irresponsible lifestyles!

If you are a guy or man reading this, please listen up: you are dead to women if you don't have money as a man...but you are the most loving, caring and faithful man to women so long as you have the money!

Women are smarter than men of today, too bad....women screen men based on how much they have but men screen women based on inconsequential physical beauty that fades the moment u get the woman to be yours.

It's high time Nigerian men wake up and start dating and marrying women based on how much they (women) have too....divorce her if she looses her job! divorce her if she fails to contribute to the family upkeep! Don't marry her if she doesn't have a good job, not from a rich family and not earning big income! Nigerian men wake up! Nigerian ladies are taking u Nigerian men for a fool!

A Nigerian guy will be rich and go marry one broke girl and turn her life and that of her family around for good....but no rich Nigerian lady agrees to date or marry an average-income Nigerian guy....and if she dares, she must be too old and ugly! and must be controlling the poor guy's life like a remote controlled CCTV camera!

Guys wake up!

Ini Edo only divorced her husband because things became bad for him financially and he started depending on Ini Edo for money...the same thing is happening now between Tiwa and TeeBilllz, why? because Nigerian women are only after money and once the man can't dish out the money like before, he's dead and gone!

If Omotola's husband was broke, Omotola would have divorced him long time ago...same with Stephanie Okereke, etc...to these women, it's all about the money!

Davido was right: life to Nigerian women is all about the money and nothing else!

Have u guys ever wondered why Linda Ikeji, Genevieve Nnaji, Rita Domnic, Funke Akindele, etc are all single It's simply because they are waiting for Dangote son or some billionaire to marry them and squander more money on them!

They don't want to settle down with an average-income earner or ordinary millionaire guy, they want billionaires, shame on Nigerian women and their mad love for money!!

Nigerian guys wake up too! Don't date or marry a broke girl again! If your wife was working and looses her job, pls divorce her asap and marry a richer lady, simple!!!

Let's all join the women and play the game too!

Sorry dear but life doesn't work that way. An eye for an eye is only for immature and vindictive people. The matters of the heart are too complicated for such washing machine tactics you suggested. The only thing I agree with you is the Irresponsibility of Tu-face. It's sickening that his name is more often mentioned in matters of the private part. I wonder if his wife can stomach the shame of managing a husband with a public manhood.

And it continues, Celeb-Celeb marriage don't work out at all. A high Prob of crashing. Besides this gives the stat of those that wedded in dubai and their union crash later on to be 7/10 in the last 5years. Dubaidemic

Shut up your dirty, stinky, rubbish and garbage mouth , which Yoruba custom, where was the custom when she was going through what ever she claim she was? where was the custom where their son was going off track both in his previous marriage and this also? I guess the custom told her to SURU �� now damage has been done. When will the Africa culture ever be fair to women

ourchoice:
If not for money and material need, majority of Nigerian women won't marry any man! #FACT

If TeeBillz had money, Tiwa wouldn't have disgraced him the way she did...2face Idibia, Danjuma, Late MKO Abiola, Late Abacha, Shino Peters, etc are more irresponsible than Teebillz but still, their wives and concubines who are prettier and hotter than Tiwa Savage times 2 condone them and even defend their cheating and irresponsible lifestyles!

If you are a guy or man reading this, please listen up: you are dead to women if you don't have money as a man...but you are the most loving, caring and faithful man to women so long as you have the money!

Women are smarter than men of today, too bad....women screen men based on how much they have but men screen women based on inconsequential physical beauty that fades the moment u get the woman to be yours.

It's high time Nigerian men wake up and start dating and marrying women based on how much they (women) have too....divorce her if she looses her job! divorce her if she fails to contribute to the family upkeep! Don't marry her if she doesn't have a good job, not from a rich family and not earning big income! Nigerian men wake up! Nigerian ladies are taking u Nigerian men for a fool!

A Nigerian guy will be rich and go marry one broke girl and turn her life and that of her family around for good....but no rich Nigerian lady agrees to date or marry an average-income Nigerian guy....and if she dares, she must be too old and ugly! and must be controlling the poor guy's life like a remote controlled CCTV camera!

Guys wake up!

Ini Edo only divorced her husband because things became bad for him financially and he started depending on Ini Edo for money...the same thing is happening now between Tiwa and TeeBilllz, why? because Nigerian women are only after money and once the man can't dish out the money like before, he's dead and gone!

If Omotola's husband was broke, Omotola would have divorced him long time ago...same with Stephanie Okereke, etc...to these women, it's all about the money!

Davido was right: life to Nigerian women is all about the money and nothing else!

Have u guys ever wondered why Linda Ikeji, Genevieve Nnaji, Rita Domnic, Funke Akindele, etc are all single It's simply because they are waiting for Dangote son or some billionaire to marry them and squander more money on them!

They don't want to settle down with an average-income earner or ordinary millionaire guy, they want billionaires, shame on Nigerian women and their mad love for money!!

Nigerian guys wake up too! Don't date or marry a broke girl again! If your wife was working and looses her job, pls divorce her asap and marry a richer lady, simple!!!

Let's all join the women and play the game too!

Lol, I partially agreed with you. We still have some women that don't car about your pockets but they are one one in a million.

I am sure this poster posted this rubbish post after taking correct igbo

BrainnewsNg:


Hmmmmm

You self

Lol!! Im just allergic to foolishness...

scully95:


You want to tell me Tiwa did not know before she ran into it right ? Ok let assume she does not know.

To get to the bottom of it all, you need to look into what went on in LA. When tiwa was a no one and was fcking every man's dick way up.

I guess T balogun must have loved the fckings and so put his everything with the hope of making the best from her.

But see how things turned out... First of all sacking T balogun is more or less like removing the connecting rope between the two or the relationship which is based on mutual business in the first place.

If she did not remove his only life wire, I bet he wont go around begging for money. 45m here..

Accoding to Tiwa, I am even sure those that dropped that kind of money must be servicing her cos she's the loose girl and there is element of truth in everyting T Balogun said about her..

I know this family very well. Teebillz's father is a big boy to the call was formally running all the computer prices in Computer villiage before he diversified to real estate.


T Balogun is a spoilt child and the type that would never beg Tiwa. Things fell apart for him. Rewind to LA,Teebillz is a big boy to the call that has Office in LA. Do you know what it means to have an office down town LA and decided to sell everything because of one girl and the girl now decided to remove his only life wire ?

The issue she said about diverting money could be resolved. Why kill he cat for removing just the eyes from the big fish ?
Someone mostly pushed her to do that..Those people will push her to her fall finally.

You and your type have given you a men the undisputed world title of parasitic legion of demons. Men like you should be thrown away so that good Yorba men will not be described with the same adjective as u and ur kind

Leave a child in custody of someone taking drugs sooner or later he is going to sell the child for 100k in order to get the next high, as a matter of fact seems the person who wrote this is also high

It is very sad that, someone in this 21st century will have the mindset, that relatives should have more rights to children than their biological mother.

And it is more ironic that, the same individual(s) that trashes western "tradition" and the whiteman ways, will choose the whiteman's inventions like the Internet, blog and media to convey such ignorance. I believe the same Yoruba culture and tradition define means of communications, transportations, commerce, why don't we also stick to those old traditional ways of doing and accomplishing these tasks?

In the past, these same Yoruba customs term twins evil and kill them with complete abandonment and many other inhuman practices that were put in place to appease the gods from time to time. We should as well stick to all those and completely disavow ourselves of the benefits and quality of life improvements that the western view of things have given to us.

And it is utter ignorance to summise that, the western or America family court system blindly gives the rights of the kids to the mother. The America family court system revolves around the concept of the 'best interest of the child', which is a multifaceted criteria the 'trial of facts' must go through in other to determine who among both parents (in some states grandparents) should have primary custody/visitation of the child.

And except in cases where there is documented cases of real danger to the child/parent, the other party always have visitation rights and there have been cases, where the custodial parent had been forced to even drive the kids to the prison, so that the noncustodial parent can exercise his/her visitation rights. This system, though not perfect and in some cases have done harms to the family dynamics, beliefs that, the child need both parents and only steps in, when both parents cannot amicably or willingly settle their issues.

gemale:


keep defending sexism & 1 obsolete custom dt has less value dan bull crap (@ least dt 1 can b used as manure). So wld u advise ur sister 2 leave her only child wt a man lyk dt & his family?

I hate being right all the time

linearity:
It is very sad that, someone in this 21st century will have the mindset, that relatives should have more rights to children than their biological mother.

As a matter of fact. This is by calling a spade a spade. And yes, in this 21st century, you have a masculine society in Nigeria. if you want a feminine society, you should go to Scandinavians. again this just balls back to oro agba, words from the helders. Teebillz himself is a typical example of a mother bringing up a child. Yes, Teebillz did not grow up with his Father. Now you see the resultant ? Ai ti ko'fa, ifa ti'n se.
This is 21st century and yes, we have culture and the ones transfered from our fathers to us is known as tradition. There are also different well established foreign traditions too but all things being equal and without any cultural conflict here.
So what is the 21st century about. Which country does not have its culture and traditions in this 21st century ? Name one ?

linearity:

And it is more ironic that, the same individual(s) that trashes western "tradition" and the whiteman ways, will choose the whiteman's inventions like the Internet, blog and media to convey such ignorance. I believe the same Yoruba culture and tradition define means of communications, transportations, commerce, why don't we also stick to those old traditional ways of doing and accomplishing these tasks?

Omg!!No wonder they labelled your country a 3rd world country and you also accept. This is the type of mindset i don't like. now you are saying because we want to eat cow now, we must call cow brother or respect cow ?

Now let me asnwer you, or remind you. The first ever coding digits known to man in this world is from Ifa Sixteen codes o digits. Here Physics starts from there and every other codes uses this idea. Like Aski code and so on. The first ever known. So when you talk have it at the back of your mind that Yoruba are inventors and historians as well.. And for your information means of comunication back in the day were letters via post office. Even anyone living in the 90s pretty much use a letter. Even if you go to Nederlands today, they still use letter like never before. So what is the big deal. Internet and then what ? I don't even need to talk much here because this is an issue of identity. If anyone does not come up with the idea of codes in the first place, we wont be here.. It all started somewhere. And if The U.S or the west did not do the net, somehow someone will do it. But that does not mean you must sell out yourself because of what ? Life goes on man..

linearity:


In the past, these same Yoruba customs term twins evil and kill them with complete abandonment and many other inhuman practices that were put in place to appease the gods from time to time. We should as well stick to all those and completely disavow ourselves of the benefits and quality of life improvements that the western view of things have given to us.

You see where you just like to type without having the right information. Yoruba will never kill anyone because of one stupid belief.. Never, again never. If you are talking about the set of people that values life the most, I can bet you it's a Yooba person and for this reason this is a pure misinformation. That idea of killing twins or belief is from the Southern eastern part of Nigeria. Again when you type please always get the facts right before running your keyboard. Chai.. And to quickly correct you here, non of the Irunmoles, or Orisa demand human blood for Etutu or sacrifices. Non again I repeat. And Someone saying Abobaku.. Abobaku is also another pure propaganda used agasint the OyoEmpire.

It's just a para phrase in yoruba.. Just like Abokoku.. Have you ever seen anyone burried with her husband just because he passed on ? So if there is ABobaku, then there must be Abokoku right ? Pls.

linearity:

And it is utter ignorance to summise that, the western or America family court system blindly gives the rights of the kids to the mother. The America family court system revolves around the concept of the 'best interest of the child', which is a multifaceted criteria the 'trial of facts' must go through in other to determine who among both parents (in some states grandparents) should have primary custody/visitation of the child.

Again who is Igorant here ? If the U.S gives such, is U.S Nigeria ? Or is U.S Yoruba people ? You have loads of traditions in Nigeria, you should speak of Nigeria but not external. You don;t even know how to copy. You just do follow follow wrongly. Well, I have replied this one about the u.s ok.. I probably even know more about how it works than you. Again that is U.S not Yoruba or South Western part of Nigeria. See sold out, typical example of potential foreign puppets. Wantto be like America. You will never be like anyone else..be yourself first and sell what you have to others first but not buy all the time. It kills your own culture or tradition. And a man with no cultural or traditional background is nothing but a lost human being. Lost identity using a borrowed one or fake one. Put on your identity and be proud.

linearity:

And except in cases where there is documented cases of real danger to the child/parent, the other party always have visitation rights and there have been cases, where the custodial parent had been forced to even drive the kids to the prison, so that the noncustodial parent can exercise his/her visitation rights. This system, though not perfect and in some cases have done harms to the family dynamics, beliefs that, the child need both parents and only steps in, when both parents cannot amicably or willingly settle their issues.

Do I need to answer this ? Which system ? System that everything is money money... Capitalist abi no bi so ?
Abegi park well joo. I am done here.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Barack_Obama

His mother, Stanley Ann Dunham, born in Wichita, Kansas, was of mostly English ancestry.[9] His father, Barack Obama Sr., was a Luo from Nyang'oma Kogelo, Kenya. Obama's parents met in 1960 in a Russian language class at the University of Hawaiʻi at Mānoa, where his father was a foreign student on scholarship.[10][11] The couple married in Wailuku on Maui on February 2, 1961,[12][13] and separated when, in late August 1961, Obama's mother moved with their newborn son to attend the University of Washington in Seattle for a year. During that time, Obama Sr. completed his undergraduate economics degree in Hawaii in June 1962, then left to attend graduate school at Harvard University on a scholarship. Obama's parents divorced in March 1964.[14] Obama Sr. returned to Kenya in 1964 where he remarried; he visited Barack in Hawaii only once, in 1971.[15] He died in an automobile accident in 1982, his son being 21 years old at that time.[16]

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Barack_Obama_Sr.

In 1954 at age 18, Obama married Kezia Aoko[23] in a tribal ceremony in Kenya. They had two children, Malik (a.k.a. Roy) and Auma, during the early years of their marriage.[24]

He took two more wives. In 1960 while studying at the University of Hawai'i on a special program, he met and dated Stanley Ann Dunham, an American woman. She became pregnant and they were married on the Hawaiian island of Maui on February 2, 1961, despite parental opposition from both families;[25][26] their son Barack II was born in August 1961. They later separated and divorced on 20 March 1964, whereupon she was granted sole custody.[24][27]

Obama went to Harvard University for a doctoral program in economics, but left the university with a master's degree. At Harvard he started dating Ruth Beatrice Baker, a Jewish American woman. She went with him to Kenya in 1964. They married late that year and had two sons, Mark and David. The couple separated in 1971 and divorced.

In Kenya, Obama reconnected with his first wife Kezia, and she had two sons after his return, Abo (b. 1968) and Bernard (b. 1970), believed to be his children.[24] It was still culturally acceptable for successful men in Kenya to take multiple wives.[citation needed]

Barack Obama II, in his memoir Dreams from My Father (1995), said that his father's family has questioned whether Abo and Bernard are Barack Sr.'s biological sons.[28]

The senior Obama fathered his last son George in 1982 with Jael Otinyo. The boy was about six months old when Obama was killed in a car accident. He was reared by his mother, who later remarried; his stepfather cared for him as well.[24]

obamas mother effectively raised him as a single parent. thats one example that puts all ths denigration of women as single pareants in the dustbin where it belongs.

@ scully, obama is an example of a person who was brought up by his mother alone

read up on obama's father, who seems to have a lot in common with Tbillz. what do you think would have become of obama with a father like that?


the possession of a penis is no guarantee of competence as a parent

oyb:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Barack_Obama




https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Barack_Obama_Sr.



obamas mother effectively raised him as a single parent. thats one example that puts all ths denigration of women as single pareants in the dustbin where it belongs.

@ scully, obama is an example of a person who was brought up by his mother alone

read up on obama's father, who seems to have a lot in common with Tbillz. what do you think would have become of obama with a father like that?

Stop trying so hard to prove anything. Nigeria has more than 150 million people. First of all, you did not choose anyone from this 150 million you are calling one Obama ?

Secondly, if you check what i wrote, i said only a very few cases, you have the child turn out very good. The chances are very very low. The best is when the two parent are together and just watch their kids grow.

Because Obama became President, yes what's the big deal.. Who is Obama.. Ok do you even want me to define obama for you ? Obama is nothing but a pure Zionist puppet. Controlled by the Zionist regime in the U.S.

The fact that he got there did not stop the killing of innocent African Americans. So who the bloody fck is Obama. When we talk about real president, i would choose Putin, Hu Jintao, Buhari anyday anytime against Obama. Cos Obama is nothing but a demon that has blood on his hands. Now the same zionsit regime wants Hilary so bad because they need to continue war and Hilary is the best bet for the game.

So what is special about obama ? How has it benefited anyone even in Baltimore to start with not to talk of Kenya or any African country..

If you don't know, the future is BRICS, AIIB, SCO and African development banks. These are the future frontiers or Economic power house and this Obama wants to destroy and any POTUS will do. So what is the big deal. If you got deceived, Im not oh.

Im not Obama fan one bit. Obama is a complete failure to humanity and a bloody liar. It really shows who brought him up for real.

Yoruba customs and laws don't apply in real world situations anymore because of this one thing called Modernity. If young yoruba people were to follow Yoruba customs strictly today, there would be a huge difference in quality of life. They are a modern couple and are subject above anything to Nigerian common law which suggests either of them could have sole custody of their son if they go down the divorce route.

scully95:


Stop trying so hard to prove anything. Nigeria has more than 150 million people. First of all, you did not choose anyone from this 150 million you are calling one Obama ?

Secondly, if you check what i wrote, i said only a very few cases, you have the child turn out very good. The chances are very very low. The best is when the two parent are together and just watch their kids grow.

Because Obama became President, yes what's the big deal.. Who is Obama.. Ok do you even want me to define obama for you ? Obama is nothing put a pure Zionist puppet. Controlled by the Zionist regime in the U.S.

The fact that he got there did not stop the killing of innocent African Americans. So who the bloody fck is Obama. When we talk about real president, i would choose Putin, Hu Jintao, Buhari anyday anytime against Obama. Cos Obama is nothing but a demon that has blood on his hands. Now the same zionsit regime wants Hilary so bad because they need to continue war and Hilary is the best bet for the game.

So what is special about obama ? How has it benefited anyone even in Baltimore to start with not to talk of Kenya or any Africa country..

If you don't know, the future is BRICS, AIIB, SCO and African development banks. These are the future frontiers or Economic power house and this Obama wants to destroy and any POTUS will do. So what is the big deal. If you got deceived, Im not oh.

Im not Obama fan one bit. Obama is a complete failure to humanity and a bloody liar. It really shows who brought him up for real.

everything you have posted on this subject makes one thing clear.

you clearly belive that a woman is incapable or raising a responsible adult

whatever tinfoil hat conspiracies are rocking your boat [ which may also explain your malicious aspersions on single mothers], obama would not have made it anywhere near the white house if he was not an extremely responsble adult.

that was the crux of my post.

if he had been with his dad, he would not have amounted to much. in addition to being a womaniser, his dad was a notorious drunkard.

there are many parallels between his dad and your hero tbillz, though his dad was raised by both parents.

instead of going off on some loony tanagents, take my post for what it is - a shining example that a woman can raise a man to become a fantatsic adult.

of course the most ideal situation is a proper family, but when that cannot work, it is what it is.

when you have nothing else to say, you fall back to 'tradition'.

Scully95, lets put all sentiments aside...

Do you, FROM THE BOTTOM of your heart dont think all what you are typing upandan on this thread isnt some HOGWASH BULL CRAP.

Do you honestly think that people are so dummmb not to see through your senselesss rants. You can see no one is basically liking your comments even though all you have been typing here could fill a textbook, meaning they aren't falling for your sensational lies and backwardness.

This is 2016 bro. Wake up, get out of the cave and smell the coffee.

Chill na..

Chill already

adorable29:
Scully95, lets put all sentiments aside...

Do you, FROM THE BOTTOM of your heart dont think all what you are typing upandan on this thread isnt some HOGWASH BULL CRAP.

Naturally i don't like to asnwer junk comments like this but let me help you out a bit but this will be my last comment on this thread.

adorable29:

Do you honestly think that people are so dummmb not to see through your senselesss rants. You can see no one is basically liking your comments even though all you have been typing here could fill a textbook, meaning they aren't falling for your sensational lies and backwardness.

What else could be more than backward than selling yourself out and buying every cat and dog tradition thrown at you. Why didnt they sign the gay too pracking and marrying each other in Churches and mosques ?

adorable29:

This is 2016 bro. Wake up, get out of the cave and smell the coffee.

Chill na..

Chill already

I have woken up before you were born. Probably gone far, been to places, seen cultures, got first class information, graduated both home and abroad with a first class. Speak 5 different foreign languages. Know how it's done and how these people put their traditions first and are always selling it to any Foreigner.

What do you have to sell to anyone ? Why do you keep buying instead of selling ? Yet you are still 3rd world, they call you 3rd world.
Please hang it there joo.

scully95:


Stop trying so hard to prove anything. Nigeria has more than 150 million people. First of all, you did not choose anyone from this 150 million you are calling one Obama ?

Secondly, if you check what i wrote, i said only a very few cases, you have the child turn out very good. The chances are very very low. The best is when the two parent are together and just watch their kids grow.

Because Obama became President, yes what's the big deal.. Who is Obama.. Ok do you even want me to define obama for you ? Obama is nothing put a pure Zionist puppet. Controlled by the Zionist regime in the U.S.

The fact that he got there did not stop the killing of innocent African Americans. So who the bloody fck is Obama. When we talk about real president, i would choose Putin, Hu Jintao, Buhari anyday anytime against Obama. Cos Obama is nothing but a demon that has blood on his hands. Now the same zionsit regime wants Hilary so bad because they need to continue war and Hilary is the best bet for the game.

So what is special about obama ? How has it benefited anyone even in Baltimore to start with not to talk of Kenya or any African country..

If you don't know, the future is BRICS, AIIB, SCO and African development banks. These are the future frontiers or Economic power house and this Obama wants to destroy and any POTUS will do. So what is the big deal. If you got deceived, Im not oh.

Im not Obama fan one bit. Obama is a complete failure to humanity and a bloody liar. It really shows who brought him up for real.

You hit the nail on the head here ! Nigerians are too backward, always deceiving themselves

scully95:
Written by Grandson Soyemi.

Tiwa Salvage says she will always allow her estranged husband to have access to their son. As a Yoruba woman, she is totally in the wrong here. This is more so because the Yoruba people have three phases of marriage: the Introduction, the Engagement and the Registry, Church or Mosque Ceremony.

The most significant of the three stages is the engagement proper which is often conducted under the Yoruba Cutomary Marriage Act.
The Act states that the children of the union between a husband and a wife belong to the father and if the father dies, the children belong to his immediate family. Tiwa's husband has all the rights over their child, according to the Yoruba culture and tradition, which are laws in Yorubaland.

However, this tradition is not the same as those of the White in America or the English from the United Kingdom, where more often than not it is the wife who has the custody of the children. In Yorubaland, it is the father who has the custody. Tiwa, therefore has no right whatsoever over the child of her union with the husband. She is in Lagos, Yorubaland and not in New York or London.
I have done this post to educate the gullible Yoruba Youth who may have watched Tiwa's video. On reflection, I am, however disturbed on the mores and mishaps that increasingly afflict love and marriage among young Yorubas.

Our society expects us all to get married. With only rare exceptions, we all do just that. Getting married is a rather complicated business. It involves mastering certain complex hustling and courtship games, the rituals and the ceremonies that celebrate the act of marriage, and finally the difficult requirements of domestic life with a husband or wife. It is an enormously elaborate round of activities, much more so than finding a job, and yet while many resolutely remain unemployed, few remain unmarried.

Now all this would not be particularly remarkable if there were no question about the advantages, the joys, and the rewards of married life, but most Yoruba, even young Yoruba, know or have heard that marriage is a hazardous affair.
Of course, for all the increase in divorce, there are still young marriages that work, unions made by young men and women intelligent or fortunate enough to find the kind of mates they want, who know that they want children and how to love them when they come, or who find the artful blend between giving and receiving.

It is not these marriages that concern us here, and that is not the trend in Yoruba today. We are concerned with the increasing number of others who, with mixed intentions and varied illusions, grope or fling themselves into marital disaster. They talk solemnly and sincerely about working to make their marriage succeed, but they are very aware of the countless marriages they have seen fail.
But young people in particular do not seem to be able to relate the awesome divorce statistics to the probability of failure of their own marriage. And they rush into it, in increasing numbers, without any clear idea of the reality that underlies the myth.
I can only hope Tiwa and her husband find the grace to work things out on their own.

Well said but I don't think that's what she meant
The baby in question is still very small and is still breastfeeding

So maybe when he is now all grown, he can go back to the dad but for now, the poor child needs the mother

scully95:


Naturally i don't like to asnwer junk comments like this but let me help you out a bit but this will be my last comment on this thread.



What else could be more than backward than selling yourself out and buying every cat an
d dog tradition thrown at you. Why didnt they sign the gay too pracking and marrying each other in Churches and mosques ?


I have woken up before you were born. Probably gone far, been to places, seen cultures, got first class information, graduated both home and abroad with a first class. Speak 5 different foreign languages. Know how it's done and how these people put their traditions first and are always selling it to any Foreigner.

What do you have to sell to anyone ? Why do you keep buying instead of selling ? Yet you are still 3rd world, they call you 3rd world.
Please hang it there joo.

You see what I am saying and why I am calling your rants senseless even with all your phantom first class. You are just going here, there and NOWHERE......

SO UNBELIEVABLY POINTLESS. Your moniker should be called OP(out of point). At times the simplest things makes far more sense. Yes , the simple COMMON SENSE. Forget all this your beating around the bush and throwing ur qualifications at our faces. You can learn life lessons even from a little baby.


Dad:
Cocaine addict. Threat to child
Womanizer who brings harloots to his matrimonal home. Threat to child
Lives irresponsibly above his means. Threat to child
Serial debtor wanted by authorities. Threat to child
Drunkard. Threat to child
Deadbeat. Threat to child
Sucidal. Threat to child
Has kids everywhere whom he doesnt even cater for. Threat to child
Someone who cursed his FATHER in the presence of the whole world for making him turn out the way he is. Blames everybody but himself. Followin his warp logic, his son Jamil is expected to turn out like Teebills too.

How you have been able to mentally figure out that the description up there beats that of a loving mother who will do anything for her 9months old baby beats my imagination.


YOU KNOW THE BEST OPTION FOR THAT BABY IS TO BE WITH HIS MOTHER. YOU KNOW. YES, YOU KNOW.
But you had rather ruin that child for the sake of the so called tradition.
Who set the cultural rules. Its people like you and I. They dont have two heads. They only agreed to what they believed was right at the time based on all that was playing out then in those centuries.

So WHY must we continue to imbibe something so wrong when we have brains too like those of old? When we know better than the HUMANS of old? When we are more enlightened than those HUMANS of old. Am purposely emphasising human. Why cant we do what is best for our child. Yes Jamil can be any body's child.

See, life is not so complicated as you are painting all over this thread.

If you were THE LITTLE BABY, WHO WOULD YOU RATHER BE WITH?

This are the POINTS as regards this issue. All this your plenty plenty talk, who e epp?

With all ur first class, you still need a lot of UNLEARNING to do.

Kachisbarbie:

small issue?
Being married to a philanderer who mismanages money and takes cocaine, is a small issue?

Haba uncle!!!

As in eh
I no fit shout
Small ish indeed
Fling my weaves and walk away

adorable29:



You see what I am saying and why I am calling your rants senseless even with all your phantom first class. You are just going here, there and NOWHERE......

SO UNBELIEVABLY POINTLESS. Your moniker should be called OP(out of point).


Dad:
Cocaine addict. Threat to child
Womanizer who brings harloots to his matrimonal home. Threat to child
Lives irresponsibly above his means. Threat to child
Serial debtor wanted by authorities. Threat to child
Drunkard. Threat to child
Deadbeat. Threat to child
Sucidal. Threat to child
Has kids everywhere whom he doesnt even cater for. Threat to child

Cocaine addict. Threat to child ----Na your papa be cocaine addict so Tiwa talk am or catch once that means say na so e bi right. Mumu ni e.
Womanizer who brings harloots to his matrimonal home. Threat to child ----- Tiwa no dey f(u)ck like Teebillz revealed right. Mumu you dey believe Tiwa but no believe Teebillz. Hypocrite.
Lives irresponsibly above his means. Threat to child ----- Pointless, why Tiwa sack him ? him bi dey look for job and job na going to clubs meeting people...

Serial debtor wanted by authorities. Threat to child --- mumu talk again
Drunkard. Threat to child --- Now i see you bi dumb more than Tiwa
Deadbeat. Threat to child --- Tiwa is a classless bltch wey dey f(u)ck Don jazzy and she said it herself when she talk say Teebillz did not get any endorsement. So she f(u)cked as usual to get the endorsements right just like she did when the cajoled Teebillz with her smelling hole
Sucidal. Threat to child ----- say another thing, mumu
Has kids everywhere whom he doesnt even cater for. Threat to child-- now i know you are mumu wey carry first from mumu competition

U

scully95:


Who is talking about bride price here ? The Child belonging to the Father, means it used the rope to tie the wife down to the father right ? If the wife wants to go here, she's also free to go. So what's the point ?

How did that tie the wife down to the Husband ? She can also visit but the father will have full custody of the child (especially when it's one child) and when Child grows up to 18 he or she can decide where to go.


And this is simply because of Ladies generally. Single mother in Yoruba land are always suspected to be fcking about anyhow or some even turn prostitutes. (Even when they are married they are still fcking abt carelessely, and kids learn very fast from them especially when these kids are not with their fathers or the two living together)

So you expect the kid here to grow up and be like her mother right ? Again this is not London or Uk or even Russia where they have a different culture. This is Yoruba land and the helders must have seen a lot before coming to this conclusion.

If we are to even go by your idealism of slavery, it's catholic here that is doing that. As we speak it's almost impossible to get a divorce and marry again in Catholic church.
What is that ?

a father that has reportedly not spent a dime on his child doesn't have a child. He only contributed his sperm. Forget custom for some obvious matter joor

onstelly:



Well said but I don't think that's what she meant
The baby in question is still very small and is still breastfeeding

So maybe when he is now all grown, he can go back to the dad but for now, the poor child needs the mother

This is the only comment that makes super sense.

Jhnmaxxwel... you sound too unintelligent and dull
for me to deal with jor. I am not ready to reduce my IQ this nite.

At least scully is smart. Although too intelligent for his own good.

adorable29:
Jhnmaxxwel... you sound too unintelligent for me to deal with jor. I am not ready to reduce my IQ this nite.

At least scully is smart. Although too intelligent for his own good.

Kosi lo jo mumu wey carry first class degree. mumu ni e jo. Who you eep? You don chop ? at least Teebillz help person and the person fck up now because she dey fck another prick. Donjazzy,Tuface, Dr Sid. Even if I no believe the rest that 2uface own, I believe am die. 2uface can fck anything fckable.

mumu u. sit down there.