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What Are Surface Friends by datswasup(f): 7:46pm On May 12, 2016
Surface Friends..
There's nothing wrong in having surface friends but there is definitely something wrong when the only friends you have are surface friends...
Surface friends are surface friends. Friends on the surface. You never go deep. You connect on the surface and that's all. You like the same music. That's all.
You share the same jokes. That's all . You hate/love the same kind of people but that's all. Those are the best kinds of surface friends.
Now the worst kind is when you share only one common goal, aim or objective. E.g course mates, colleagues at work, church members, group chat members, clique member, gist partner, yabbing partner, cinema partner etc. You can actually have a real friend from one of those groups but most times, it's otherwise...
Everyone should have a minimum of one "Real Friend". Someone you can always share your feelings, secrets and ideas with without getting laughed at. Someone that understands you or makes an effort to understand you. Someone that will always give it to you when you are wrong. Someone that will stand by you when you stop sharing a common goal and will always bring out the real you...
Having only surface friends is a major cause of depression because you have no one to share your thoughts with. Depression is a major cause of suicide. So you better leave your shell and find a real friend... Always know how to differentiate Real friendships from Forced ones
Word of the day: callipygian
/ˌkalɪˈpɪdʒɪən/
adjective
Means "having well-shaped butt0cks."

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