i am in love with a lady that in her church it is forbidden to marry somebody outside their faith ( not attending their church) this lady loves me and confess this, can somebody advise us on how to go about it.

compromise, sacrifice

start attending her church

If u believe in God, He will provide an exact replica who attends your own church. I personally think its just juvenile and myopic how people attend churches and allow it to rule their lives. Poverty has caused a lot of transgressions in nigeria and anyone who can perform one magic or the other is being worshipped like they were God's Father!

A girl refuses to marry u unless u attend their church, makes me think if she was an idol worshipper, u'd probably join in to prove your love,

Leave her alone,by the time she is 40 and stil unmarried ,you know what?she wil get married to her pastor

If she loves you, she'll rather follow you to your church, abeg forget all that s**t, God does not live in churches, He lives in our hearts. If she cant see it that way with you, I'll advice you to let her be (though it might be difficult) but i don't think you want to go out with someone who has her Pastor telling her when to s**t and when to eat. na wah for all these babes sef!!!