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Help! My Wife Takes Our Sex Life For Granted Now To Sleep Off by tresuremira(m): 7:08am On Jul 19, 2016 |
I NEED HELP HERE.... I have a wife I've been with for 7 years, we have 3 kids and we are both young, early thirties. Our sex life went down recently and am being tempted into having affair outside. She hadly satisfy me even when i try to give enough pre-intimacy and caressing. She sleeps off even while we make love, i have discussed her lazy attitude towards our sex life but she dosen't show remorse or change. I believe I meet her personal need and even bought her a new car weeks ago. I also have asked her before now if she's cheating on me she said No. Am am sure she isn't having affair outside unless emotional relationship . What can i do because i love sex but not indiscriminately or with wrong women. I NEED HELP!! |
Re: Help! My Wife Takes Our Sex Life For Granted Now To Sleep Off by ucnwafor(m): 7:18am On Jul 19, 2016 |
Mayb she is emotionally depressed, u can talk it over with her Waiting 4 them married ones to say sumtin 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Wife Takes Our Sex Life For Granted Now To Sleep Off by uzedo1(m): 7:19am On Jul 19, 2016 |
Try and be spontaneous, she may be tired and want emotional connection. Have beyond the bedroom fun and try talking to her, she might be going through something.... 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Wife Takes Our Sex Life For Granted Now To Sleep Off by Nelgenius4me(m): 7:29am On Jul 19, 2016 |
Mr worried Man, Sex in marriage is quite vital, it is one of the most important ingredient of marriage. Find out the reason why your wife isn't taking sex serious - it could be as result of domestic work: having three children to take care of is no mean fit. If you can,ensure you get your wife a house help or you make it early down home to assist her. Material things may not be all that is necessary at this point, perhaps if you can create a time where both of you can go for a honeymoon-this will allow both of you to rediscover yourselves. This getaway should be about you two: the children can be excluded from the equation. Spice your sex life with new techniques. Above all, pray about it. 6 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Takes Our Sex Life For Granted Now To Sleep Off by keepingmum: 7:37am On Jul 19, 2016 |
Oga its clear you are boring in bed and dont satisfy your wife. You come across as a selfish lover. Go and learn the art of romance and pre-intimacy- when you have done that, trust me, she will come be your hoe in bed. How can you be shagging and the person is sleeping? you are really an awful novice oo baba. Even without hearing from wifey, with what you have said so far, I think the problem is You 4 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Takes Our Sex Life For Granted Now To Sleep Off by janvier27(m): 7:50am On Jul 19, 2016 |
keepingmum: I'd rather keep mum over issues I obviously don't have experience about. 6 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Takes Our Sex Life For Granted Now To Sleep Off by Ejemehn(m): 7:55am On Jul 19, 2016 |
WARNING!!! Do not CHEAT on your wife. The reason most marriages fail is because most of us stop working at our marriages immediately after getting married. We just assume things will take its course. We stop "dating" our wives after marriage. When last did you help with the chores at home? I tell you, the reward for helping with chores is sex which she'll initiate. I can bet she'll not sleep off. Come home early from work and help with the chores at home. She has three kids to take care of. Its not easy on her. Come to think of it. When last did you take her out? When last did you buy her that sexy lingerie? Have you ever taken the time to spice up your love and sex life? Don't say she's sleeping off or she's become lazy in bed....... Has it ever crossed your mind to think maybe you're the one sleeping off on her emotional needs and also become lazy to even think she has emotional needs? Look in the mirror. The person who needs to up his game is staring at you......... 7 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Takes Our Sex Life For Granted Now To Sleep Off by Boring: 8:19am On Jul 19, 2016 |
Watch what she does, and not what she says for any red flags, cos what is unsaid wen communicating is often times more powerful than what is said... dont let pple advice u on ur marriage o... give her time cos only u know the reason u love her.. 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Takes Our Sex Life For Granted Now To Sleep Off by 5minsmadness: 8:44am On Jul 19, 2016 |
OUCH! |
Re: Help! My Wife Takes Our Sex Life For Granted Now To Sleep Off by AuroraB(f): 9:04am On Jul 19, 2016 |
If you keep whining about it, I suppose she'd loose interest naa . She'll come around if you let her 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Wife Takes Our Sex Life For Granted Now To Sleep Off by Blade21: 9:35am On Jul 19, 2016 |
make Fin drink for her and her life will not remain de same. |
Re: Help! My Wife Takes Our Sex Life For Granted Now To Sleep Off by SirVintageCock: 10:30am On Jul 19, 2016 |
I wonder how you will be fvcking someone and that person will be sleeping. Bro, up your game na. Which kain sleepy fvck be that, haba.? 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Wife Takes Our Sex Life For Granted Now To Sleep Off by sisisioge: 10:35am On Jul 19, 2016 |
Maybe she's stressed out or you have become boring... 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Wife Takes Our Sex Life For Granted Now To Sleep Off by Ndukings92(m): 7:49pm On Jul 19, 2016 |
that word Marriage sef de fear me cos of wetin I de see here on Nairaland.end time marriage |
Re: Help! My Wife Takes Our Sex Life For Granted Now To Sleep Off by Nobody: 7:31am On Oct 14, 2016 |
Blade21:bros. Pls was it in abuja You collected ur letter? #nscdc |
Re: Help! My Wife Takes Our Sex Life For Granted Now To Sleep Off by Blade21: 8:38am On Oct 14, 2016 |
trustnobodi:boss its a public forum some things are best kept secret thanks 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Wife Takes Our Sex Life For Granted Now To Sleep Off by Nobody: 12:08pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
Your wife is likely tired from the children and household duties. But to fall asleep during the act means she is completely disinterested in you. It's obvious you are terrible at the art of love making. Please make sure you are clean and smell fresh (mouth an body). Try giving her a massage with light kisses from top to bottom, before you do the act. Find all the spots that make her smile. Also, please send the kids away for a few days and take her on an outing. Most importantly talk to her about the matter and ask her to be completely honest with you. |
Re: Help! My Wife Takes Our Sex Life For Granted Now To Sleep Off by infogenius(m): 1:05pm On Oct 14, 2016 |
I picked this piece from my wall on Facebook posted by a dear friend. This may not be what you wrote about but there are quite a few lessons to learn so also a few adjustments you can make in your marriage. My name is Dayo. I’m a typical Nigerian guy and I cherish my Fridays a lot; I get to hang out with the sickest guys every Friday night and secondly, It’s another escape from my nagging and boring wife. I get confused sometimes on whether she’s my mother or my wife. Don’t get it twisted; I love her pieces. It just gets complicated; like I wish we never got married…marriage has turned her into something that doesn’t amuse me. I wish she was still the adventurous, charming, high spirited lady I dated for five years. 5 Likes |
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