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Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by donchuzy22: 4:58am On Sep 19, 2016 |
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Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by Cutehector(m): 6:00am On Sep 19, 2016 |
Sing along with me people Ebezina Chukwu nonso Ogini bu nsogbu gi? Mana Chi a di gi de Nwanne mo |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by nothernstar: 6:02am On Sep 19, 2016 |
Florblu:my dear. Can you do that? If you were the mither of the girl, will you accept that. I feel this your idea can only be possible if the lady in question is married already. |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by ephi123(f): 6:29am On Sep 19, 2016 |
This kind of pressing matter created since end of July is being brought to FP in September 1 Like |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by zubinike(m): 6:37am On Sep 19, 2016 |
Temilola01: Embrace it....it's fate, though it hurts, because the love will somewhat be distracted and divided. If u feel comfy living with little child, bring the child home and show some love...but if u ain't comfy living with the kid, show support by always asking and showing care. Don't deny the child whatever you believe your own child will want or be given. Believe me you will forever be grateful |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by delishpot: 6:46am On Sep 19, 2016 |
Na wa, it's a nice time to be a man ESP in naija. I have one kwesion, why is it that some societies are quick to say...... Ori omo L'oun pe omo wale when they suspect it's the woman's fault there are no kids in the union. And ask her to allow hubby bang other women in a bid to make any of his sidebabes have kids and maybe the wife would have hers too. But if it is confirmed that the man is the problem, the same principle doesn't apply. The wife is asked to sit down and fast and pray for husbands shooter to recover fast and do it's natural job. Why doesn't the Ori Omo L' oun pe omo wale apply to the man too? 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by oribi(m): 6:48am On Sep 19, 2016 |
I really did not wish to reply but had to,this is not an insult but seriously if you and your husband(whom i assume you love dearly)has a problem you can fix it without coming to nairaland or any social media site...just thinking out loud |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by Lasese: 6:49am On Sep 19, 2016 |
Believ in God, trust in him nd very soon u wil laugh while satan cry. Take the girl as urs, God bless u |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by vareal(m): 6:56am On Sep 19, 2016 |
Free ur mind nd don't let ur feelin destroy ur marriage. Go bk sit wit ur husband and discuss the future of the child. Find out if the mother is willin to giv ur husband the child, if she is fine, if not; then he should find a away to send aids to her. Its well |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by Henrypraise: 7:08am On Sep 19, 2016 |
Temilola01: my dear, believe God, d realization of dis daughter n how much u pple accept dis daughter will to a large extent determine if u will av ur own children. pls don't pretend but give all ur heart to dis girl wen she comes. see her as ur own daughter @ least u still av d right to av a son in d future. |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by oglalasioux(m): 7:14am On Sep 19, 2016 |
She's 18. She'll be married off in a few years. It's only male children that are trouble. |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by Hardtalkjoe: 7:18am On Sep 19, 2016 |
Temilola01:madam there's no need exploding, take her as your own child , respect and love her. WHAT YOU EXPECT YOU RESPECT AND LOVE. WHAT YOU RESPECT AND LOVE YOU ATTRACT |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by PDF: 7:18am On Sep 19, 2016 |
LuvU2: No sense whatsoever in ur contribution. Pple who have been commenting so far understand also that a man can av a child without honestly knowing abt it for years (Tnx to the child's mother) But will a woman actually av a child and claim oblivion? Receive brain! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by AntiWailer: 7:19am On Sep 19, 2016 |
oglalasioux: Male children shelf are not trouble if you are a nice woman. Some will blend better than with their mother cos she can indulge him more than mama will. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by dotedote: 7:21am On Sep 19, 2016 |
It's an issue you've got no control over so just concentrate more on controlling your emotions. Going back, I wonder how the story was presented to your husband. 18 YEARS There had better been an undeniable facial resemblance shared by him & the girl. O ga o. Pls I'm calling out to all y'all Ho's I've poured in in the past. Bring forth my fruits y'all keeping NOW or FoREVER HOLD YOUR PEACE. |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by iamclime(m): 7:39am On Sep 19, 2016 |
Eketem: I go with this comment. It makes good sense. Op, take one step at a time. No need to rush. Peace be yours. |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by LuvU2: 7:48am On Sep 19, 2016 |
abbey621:What is ur conscience telling u? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by LuvU2: 7:50am On Sep 19, 2016 |
PDF:too bad, I dnt reason wif people struggling with 50/55 I Q |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by LuvU2: 7:56am On Sep 19, 2016 |
delishpot:Women shouldnt allow themselves get treated in this manner. If most of us wise up, this will stop. That nonsense tradition cannot work with me or any of my relatives. |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by Chukazu: 8:10am On Sep 19, 2016 |
for me, one good thing about it, at least now you are sure that your husband is "potent" enough to impregnate you, and that is a word of hope as it concerns your delay childbirth |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by Johnsown1(m): 8:31am On Sep 19, 2016 |
Am not a family guy though But i think u should encourage him to meet his daughter and u should he calm also give him the necessary support, also try to know the gals mother and make friends wirh her, Always pray to God |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by andreawills96(f): 8:34am On Sep 19, 2016 |
Please take her as your own, love her more than ur husband will love her and see what God will do on your behalf. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by Nobody: 8:45am On Sep 19, 2016 |
You have to be very careful, I think your husband has just acquired a replacement for you under the guise of a lost daughter. Inlaws at work. |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by gbishman: 8:50am On Sep 19, 2016 |
Have DSTV remove telemundo from dstv and u would notice the change. |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by ismaog4u(m): 9:11am On Sep 19, 2016 |
take a bold step by belief urs child is comming soon... keep ur marriage nothing to worried about |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by ventq: 9:15am On Sep 19, 2016 |
ikbnice:I don't understand the need for a third person plural tense when you are supposedly talking directly to the person affected, the message looses its empathy |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by Reptyle(m): 9:27am On Sep 19, 2016 |
Florblu: How can there be no contact between a man and the mother of his child? In my opinion, that is the kind of thing that ultimately leads to the very same issues you are trying to avoid. Soon the man begins to creep around behind you to go see the woman, you find out, trust is broken and all that you have been struggling to build is out of the window. My advise is that you not only allow the man to relate freely with his child and her mother, but you also need to build a good relationship with both of them. Make room for openness and raise concerns where necessary to avoid any shadiness. Don't know for a fact but I suspect the baby mama did not put her life on hold all of this time...18 years is a long time. So I do not think she will be aiming to build any kind of conjugal relationship with her child's father right now. Exercise patience and continue to pray to God. I am sure he will grant you your own fruit soon. May God grant you wisdom in dealing with this matter. |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by OCHOdee(f): 9:39am On Sep 19, 2016 |
First of all, we are humans with emotions but I tell you that This is a TEST! Take all the Good advice that has been shared here and remain positive. There's nothing too hard for my God |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by kally90(f): 9:45am On Sep 19, 2016 |
If the daughter is truly his,keep calm dear.Accepted the daughter wholly and be the best to her.Don't fear,nothing is going to happen to your marriage, instead it will be more stronger and through her God will bless you too. |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by bamosagie(m): 9:58am On Sep 19, 2016 |
misspicy: I understand and share your view of equality between male and female child, sometimes a female child is more than three male combine. However, I think his point is that the society see things from a different point of view, which may lead to family and peer pressure that may complicate things for the lady in question. |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by Mememan: 10:03am On Sep 19, 2016 |
Temilola01:Madam calm down and embrace the child ori omo lo nfomo waye... Leave and lose everything... |
Re: My Husband And I Just Found Out He Has An 18yr Old Daughter. by Malawian(m): 10:28am On Sep 19, 2016 |
Temilola01:is it that you cannot be a mother to your husband's daughter? or is it because she is not yours? take a very good look at your conscience and determine if you are a good person. |
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