I have been pondering on this issue, a woman is a mother first then she proceed to a mother in-law, and before then she nursed her children with much love and tenderness,some mothers were hurt deeply by their children and they still forgave them each time they stray, why then do daughter in -laws claim that their mother in-law is impossible to live with? someone told me that she resent her husband because he tells his mother about his plans, she questions this closeness.Others have sworn not to marry anyone whose mother is still alive, then again I ask them how they will feel if their brother's fiancee wished death on their mother.This war has been going on for centuries, is about supremacy, who controls what, someone even said that her mother in-law will be confined to their boys quarters...while her mother will be given full access to the main house, does it mean that the lady's mother is superior to his? Please show them equal love, accommodate her for she brought forth the man you are married to, respect her because if you didn't exchange words with your mother, you wouldn't do the same to her...enter your marriage with a clean heart, do not read meaning to her facial expression...if you take her as your mother she will take you as a daughter, if you don't respect her I assure you that your marriage will not be sweet except you are married to an only child with no clan and kindred....I won't fail to balance this, mothers please respect the woman your son settled with, it doesn't matter if you approve or not, it is his choice so support his happiness.

Nice one op, the problem with most ladies is that they lack respect and have too much jealousy in their hearts.

So true! If you love your man,you will love his mum and your man will love your mum if he really loves you. Its is important we walk in love and understanding when dealing with inlaws.

U are right op, but unfortunately most ladies lack respect and are unnecessarily jealous..

preshez:
So true! If you love your man,you will love his mum and your man will love your mum if he really loves you. Its is important we walk in love and understanding when dealing with inlaws.

you nailed it

Can't wait to meet mine.

i intend to. my mother-in-law will be my mother too, i do not see anything that will make me think of her as a monster or a threat to my marriage.

Vendoor:
Nice one op, the problem with most ladies is that they lack respect and have too much jealousy in their hearts.

20 cartons of orijin for you
20 million for you credited to your account mistakenly by dasuki again
And a million blessings more

I Wont even hesitate to throw u out if u dare insult or cos problem for my mom no matter how much i claim to love u.... inshort u go beg tire

The girls are obviously not married yet...guilty me too.

Good to start out with clean hands and hopeful hearts. Better to pray to God to give one a good woman as mil, the alternative is crazy. It's as if they were never dil!

Vendoor:
Nice one op, the problem with most ladies is that they lack respect and have too much jealousy in their hearts.

Gbam! Case closed.