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Don't Make Enemies Out Of Nothing by Stoical: 6:50pm On Aug 21, 2016 |
I remember when gaining admission into the University was still a problem. I had a besty that was lucky to gain admission before me. Whenever I went to visit him, his mother will tell me he is not at home. My besty started giving me attitude. He stopped coming to my house. I asked him what the problem was, he opened up and told me his mother had Warned him to stop associating with me because I might not be happy he gained admission, while I was still at home. Ah I cried Sha. Honestly I was pained. Fast forward 5 years later, I have gained admission, and even graduated, my besty was still in the University. It was a 5 Years course but he changed department and ended up spending 6 Years. His mother saw me in the neighborhood shortly after graduation and asked if I was on holiday. Holiday ke? "MA I have graduated". You can imagine the look on her face. Epic. Lol . Some of us are quilty of this. *When we have a house filled with kids.... Our loyal friend struggling to have kids becomes an enemy. We push them away *Once we get married... Our loyal single friend becomes an enemy.. We push them away *Once we get a job... Our loyal jobless friend becomes an enemy.... We push them away. *Once we get to the top... Our loyal friends at the bottom becomes an enemy.... We push away. *When we are happily married... Our loyal friend that is unfortunately a widower or divorcee becomes an enemy.... We push them away *When we have food and water... Our loyal friend struggling to survive becomes an enemy... We push them away. *Nobody is your enemy, you are only being an enemy to them We quickly forget... Life is not static. It moves and changes. When you condemn a situation along with the person in the situation. You are only gambling. At the end, the winner is always the person you condemned, the person you least expected. Happy Sunday |
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