Family means the people you belong to or feel you belong to, might be your friends, neighbours, wife, brothers and sisters, father and mum etc. All mentioned above are family, but no sense applies, when the above mentioned sees you just like a stranger would in times of confusion and pain. It has become a point of concern as brothers and sisters fight within themselves to show their siblings that they are financially independent above their dependent siblings.
Pain is also felt when in times of challenge the brother or sister fails to surface, under normal circumstances. Your consolation comes through your journey and target, God's Favours, help from those who don't know your lineage, God's intervention.
Your help comes beyond the people you think are responsible for your survival.