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My dear, I'm so sorry you lost your job. Yes, you really do need a job, but don't kill yourself because the wedding is in December. You must not call everyone to your wedding. I will keep saying it " wedding is not expensive especially the white wedding" you can dress up in your old shirt and go to your pastor to bless your union. You don't need to spend up to 5k sef....your wife can use any of her old dress then maybe take your pastor out and thats all. All you need is just two witnesses maybe both parents.

I don't like it when peeps bother so much on stuff like this....YOLO! There are still so many celebrations to come & if there's money, then you can invite the whole world, but as for now please don't give yourself headache over nothing.



All the best

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Dripy:


You are right but I have put in 40% effort before this present predicament. It is not a society wedding just a moderate ceremony I am planning. You also have to know that it is the lady that wants an elaborate occasion. Left to a man, na just to give d woman belle and carry her put for house

But if the woman no see the money for elaborate wedding nko? Will she remain single?

Dripy:


You are right but I have put in 40% effort before this present predicament. It is not a society wedding just a moderate ceremony I am planning. You also have to know that it is the lady that wants an elaborate occasion. Left to a man, na just to give d woman belle and carry her put for house

If your fiancée is one of those ladies, then she's not serious yet.

Has she realised the reality on ground? Where will the money for moderate/elaborate wedding come from?

If I were you, we are so doing a very quiet registry wedding and parlour trad.

ammyluv2002:
My dear, I'm so sorry you lost your job. Yes, you really do need a job, but don't kill yourself because the wedding is in December. You must not call everyone to your wedding. I will keep saying it " wedding is not expensive especially the white wedding" you can dress up in your old shirt and go to your pastor to bless your union. You don't need to spend up to 5k sef....your wife can use any of her old dress then maybe take your pastor out and thats all. All you need is just two witnesses maybe both parents.

I don't like it when peeps bother so much on stuff like this....YOLO! There are still so many celebrations to come & if there's money, then you can invite the whole world, but as for now please don't give yourself headache over nothing.



All the best

@ammyluv u nailed it joor...@OP pls follow this sane advice

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laraoge:


@ammyluv u nailed it joor...@OP pls follow this sane advice

SlowlybtSurely:


If your fiancée is one of those ladies, then she's not serious yet.

Has she realised the reality on ground? Where will the money for moderate/elaborate wedding come from?

If I were you, we are so doing a very quiet registry wedding and parlour trad.

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