The man in question is me the OP. I am 43 years old now yet, my mother is not perturbed in telling me who my father is or giving me a link on how to search for me him. My mother is an Igbo woman while my father is a yoruba man from Ondo state as I was told. They met after the civil war and my mother conceived while they were dating. Because dowry was not paid, my grand parents ordered my mother to return home with the pregnancy. When my father finally came to pay the bride price, my mother absconded. The man left with anger. After the civil war, my father left the east back to his place because he was a soldier then in the Nigerian Army. Since my mother gave birth to me till now, I don't know and have not seen my father. My grand parents brought me up because my mother married and had other children. I am sad to be seen as a bastard. I then demanded that my mother show me my father. She has being feigning ignorant that she does not know exactly the town in Ondo state where my father come from. I just want to meet the man. I don't know if he is still alive or not. Incase he is not alive, I am sure he has siblings or even children. I only know his name is Olu. I am preparing for a trip to Ondo state precisely Nigerian Television Authority Ondo to see of I can be shown on the tele. Its not funny at all. Even if I don't stay with my father, it will be on the record that I know him. He still has fatherly roles to play in my life. Please your suggestions are highly welcomed.

What s your surname...
If you know his father's name, it'll help alot.
You can't just to Ondo and start looking for Olu
They won't answer you sir ooo...
ask mumsy about his father's name...
if you can ask him to describe him too
mumsy suppose know him home town too.

Not even a picture?

" Am single mum" syndrome don't work in Nigeria, every child will one day ask of his father.

Women never deny a man his child, because when the jungle mature, your past will definitely be looking at you.

According to Igbo culture, you are your grandfather's son. He is to give you an inheritance and you should bear his name.