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| Please Help, My Girl Friend Has Problems. by LORDI(m): 7:21am On Oct 13, 2016 |
Having graduated about 5 years ago, I am already making plans to settle down probably next year or two, but the issue is my girl friend. My girl friend has a problem of depression, am sure hers is way above the normal level of depression(if depression has levels). Her dad has been having health issues lately, all she does is stay indoors and get drunk, wishing she was never given birth to, lamenting how her dad has been punishing them (by punishment she meant not being able to provide),it has been her mom that have been helping them. Though according to stories from her and her sisters, her dad is very lazy.. When he has money, he rather party outside till he spends it all, before coming home. Gf currently has ulcer.. Because she starved herself for days when her ex broke up with her. According to her parents she has attmped committing suicide before, she was stopped. I found a book in her bag, where she wrote how she would die and leave this miserable earth,.. Seriously I thought this only happens in the movies until I met her. After from this depression part, she is a nice girl, a girl I would love to settle down with ,she has sacrificed alot for me. I don't know what should do... Am confused. Pardon my typo error, am in a hurry, I have work this morning. Pls your advice is appreciated. |
| Re: Please Help, My Girl Friend Has Problems. by LORDI(m): 7:22am On Oct 13, 2016 |
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| Re: Please Help, My Girl Friend Has Problems. by funnynation(m): 7:26am On Oct 13, 2016 |
1.My brother just go and marry her before you regret, atleast do her introduction so that she will think less about marriage. 2. Take her to your Pastor, Rev. Fr., your imam or your babalawo for prayer. 3. Take her to a cousellor for proper advice. 4. Thank me later and make sure you shine her congo more thank her ex. Nairaland official comedian |
| Re: Please Help, My Girl Friend Has Problems. by Tallesty1(m): 7:26am On Oct 13, 2016 |
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| Re: Please Help, My Girl Friend Has Problems. by LORDI(m): 7:28am On Oct 13, 2016 |
Tallesty1:bro I need advice.. |
| Re: Please Help, My Girl Friend Has Problems. by Nobody: 7:30am On Oct 13, 2016 |
DM me her number  Mayb she need big oko nla..... And one mumu dey shout FP Dey call lala |
| Re: Please Help, My Girl Friend Has Problems. by Tundeiab(m): 7:30am On Oct 13, 2016 |
No body can advice you better than yourself, because you are the one wearing the shoes now. Just imagine what it will feel like spending the rest of your life with her. That will help you make your decision. Marriage is a personal race. You know what you want, go for it. 2 Likes |
| Re: Please Help, My Girl Friend Has Problems. by funnynation(m): 7:32am On Oct 13, 2016 |
LORDI:keep booking space... Abi u wan upload her pics here? Lalasticlala may need this story.. |
| Re: Please Help, My Girl Friend Has Problems. by osesology(m): 7:32am On Oct 13, 2016 |
I'll comment when l get to work. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Please Help, My Girl Friend Has Problems. by Ojestas(m): 7:37am On Oct 13, 2016 |
Jezyfreezman:Shoro niyen !! |
| Re: Please Help, My Girl Friend Has Problems. by krak101(m): 7:46am On Oct 13, 2016 |
She needs professional care. Sort that out first before committing further to the relationship |
| Re: Please Help, My Girl Friend Has Problems. by Mujaheeeden: 7:50am On Oct 13, 2016 |
LORDI:This is the time she needs you most. Encourag her with positive words, take her out for a stroll on a beach, take her to a good counsellor or pastor and finally remind her that if she dies then her Dad won instrad of her winning. P.S i don't see why she should dwell on her dad stupidity in this her adult life or does she love drinking |
| Re: Please Help, My Girl Friend Has Problems. by Nobody: 8:05am On Oct 13, 2016 |
| Re: Please Help, My Girl Friend Has Problems. by Nobody: 8:10am On Oct 13, 2016 |
Tallesty1: 1 Like |
| Re: Please Help, My Girl Friend Has Problems. by lastbaff(m): 8:11am On Oct 13, 2016 |
She needs counselling. Marriage is a good idea. 2 Likes |
| Re: Please Help, My Girl Friend Has Problems. by sisisioge: 8:15am On Oct 13, 2016 |
Hmmm, if you were my brother I would say pls biko leave the girl alone. Imagine what that kind of a scattered person will become when faced with life's more pressing issues after marriage. No be for here o! 3 Likes |
| Re: Please Help, My Girl Friend Has Problems. by braimeddy: 8:34am On Oct 13, 2016 |
It's good that u really know her flaws. It's only u dat can turn tins around. Except u want us to tell u how to cheer ur babe up. She's being depressed because her dad doesn't take care of dem and moreover her ex breaking up wit her. So for u to cheer her up, if u really luv her u knw wat to do. 1 Like |
| Re: Please Help, My Girl Friend Has Problems. by debraluv(f): 9:44am On Oct 13, 2016 |
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| Re: Please Help, My Girl Friend Has Problems. by sunnydayasaba(m): 9:55am On Oct 13, 2016 |
Don't even think of marrying her for now, She really needs help, Marriage should be far from it if you want to enjoy your marriage, A depressed wife is a time bomb. Just get her a councilors to help her, Am sure some General Hospital provides that service. Get her help first and leave marriage out of it for now. |
| Re: Please Help, My Girl Friend Has Problems. by tintingz(m): 10:22am On Oct 13, 2016 |
Depression kill slowly, many people died of depression. Depressive disorder is very bad. What she need now is counselling and people around her. |
| Re: Please Help, My Girl Friend Has Problems. by Janeyinspires(f): 10:31am On Oct 13, 2016 |
Your GF is disoriented and has lost grip on life.She is also suicidal.That's not a child's play. She needs a paradigm shift.She needs to be fixed-a counselling session will do. Help her get out of depression first,before you start talking about marriage. 2 Likes |
| Re: Please Help, My Girl Friend Has Problems. by yvelchstores(f): 5:29pm On Oct 13, 2016 |
I can't blv some nairaland comments. op u must think life is a joke. unlike what people are commenting, u can't do anything to help her because depression is d medical be of a spiritual problem. she needs Christ.even if u sacrifice ur life for this her problem, it won't suffice. take her to Dubai n wed her there, it won't suffice, buy her car n all, it will still continue. marriage is not where ppl get better. if she hasn't gotten better, marriage won't help at all. let her stop feeling sorry for herself and embrace God. all d best. 2 Likes |
| Re: Please Help, My Girl Friend Has Problems. by Richy4(m): 8:42pm On Oct 13, 2016 |
I will suggest you go online... I always say solution to some problem in this world is within a click of a button... there's nothing new under this planet.. someone before u must have passed through that... the point is, I am happy you knew what she was passing through.... the next step will be to remedy it... So click.. u will find something... I am afraid NL is the worst place to bring issues like this.... one person might ask u to walk out of the relationship, and you will be amazed to see one million likes.... Most won't even care if it was matters of the heart or not....just use your Google bro |
| Re: Please Help, My Girl Friend Has Problems. by Nobody: 9:04pm On Oct 13, 2016 |
LORDI:  so there are caring bf like this in Nigeria, for now she needs help I think you should talk to her, and try to get her engaged in an activity. Idleness severely stimulates depression to a large extent also you need to make her feel good a out herself. Nice work dude you're a sincere person the world needs more people like you. |
| Re: Please Help, My Girl Friend Has Problems. by Nobody: 9:09pm On Oct 13, 2016 |
yvelchstores:What is this crap, she's not spiritually affected in anything, her depression stems from conditions created by people not like she's medically depressed we've all been depressed done marijuana and did heavy drinking , so I know what am saying, it's because she's allowing the whole issue get to her. The moment she has found her bearing she will be alright. Not everything is ascribed to religion. |
| Re: Please Help, My Girl Friend Has Problems. by pickabeau1: 9:26pm On Oct 13, 2016 |
LORDI: So what is exactly positive about this lady She hates her fada She does not want to work She is suicidal Has bouts of Anorexia An alcoholic |
| Re: Please Help, My Girl Friend Has Problems. by baby124: 9:30pm On Oct 13, 2016 |
Lol, Fiancé of life. Mr. fix it himself. Ask yourself if you would want to spend the rest of your life with this personality. Remember that you do not live with her everyday. Can you take this daily dose of emotional roller coaster? To open this thread, i am sure you have doubts. If she has helped you financially make sure you return everything you owe her and if you break up make sure you do not show up around her again. |
| Re: Please Help, My Girl Friend Has Problems. by yvelchstores(f): 9:46pm On Oct 13, 2016 |
pcguru1:whatever makes u rest easy. 1 Like |
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