I was exhausted with the whole back and forth in my marriage. There must be an answer to this whole episode. Drained in my thoughts of the cause and possible solution, I stood up from my bed and walked to the mirror. There must be an answer. I stood before the mirror and all I could see was me!. I asked myself, "why all these? Where have I gone wrong?, still, all I could see in the mirror was me. Hmm, I am the reason for my trouble?
http://diaryofthephenomenalwoman.org/blog/retrospect-staying-in-my-marriage