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Re: Is It Advisable For A Single Lady To Live Alone by sunvick(m): 12:12pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
Re: Is It Advisable For A Single Lady To Live Alone by sunvick(m): 12:16pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
Pros 10. you can pkekus when and who you wanted unperturbed Cons 7. Your mind might be the devils workshop esp when you are ideal and dont have a regular job. sisisioge: |
Re: Is It Advisable For A Single Lady To Live Alone by sunvick(m): 12:22pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
I like your style. Perhaps very few people could must up that courage. I believe she wanted you to stay more so you can be helping out with house chores and errands. seizethaBae: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Advisable For A Single Lady To Live Alone by Nobody: 12:29pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
Sapphiredamsel: Lmao, I'm guessing you work in the office of Executive Governor. Those 2 people, am sure they aren't close to you, You wouldn't have done that tho. Another thing i found out in Lagos is, Its better to live in a house where the Landlord does not reside. In my previous place, during my NYSC, my landlady kept checking the Ladies i bring into the house, she's a spirit Koko church type. Telling me this is not allowed in her house. That was a big turnoff for me, I had to leave that house even before my rent was due. |
Re: Is It Advisable For A Single Lady To Live Alone by Nobody: 12:30pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
seizethaBae: Kudos to you ma, you have my respect # |
Re: Is It Advisable For A Single Lady To Live Alone by Nobody: 12:32pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
cococandy: Hahaha na wah o, see casting, how do you know he's blowing his youth away, what if he's a pastor doing the work of God |
Re: Is It Advisable For A Single Lady To Live Alone by SAMBARRY: 2:12pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
Op What is your damn buisness with anyone's opinion. The question should be will such decision add to your life or make your life better |
Re: Is It Advisable For A Single Lady To Live Alone by SAMBARRY: 2:14pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
truthsayer007:so pastor NO dey fok? |
Re: Is It Advisable For A Single Lady To Live Alone by Nobody: 2:21pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
ednut1: Don't mind those set of people. I hate living my life on societal dictates.. When I bought my car, people on my street,talk like there's no tomorrow and it's always my landlord they will send to tell me their views about what I do and how I look.. My landlord stays in the same compound with us.. He stylishly chipped in one airy Sunday, in the evening close to the compound gate, cos sometimes two or three of us hangout at the gate including our landlord to chat and talk about the govt and economy..and yes bills yet to be paid... Lol.. So he stylishly chipped in, Amelia your car is fine, nice car but isn't it too big for u? I smiled, I already knows where he's heading to... And I said, noo, at least the car will help incarrying machines and other things sport cars cannot carry.. He said well guys are saying on the street, that first am not married and am cruising a car like this, let's see who will marry her. I just shook my head, and I smiled at the landlord and told him look land lord, am not begging them to come marry me. I have enough admirers and toasters outside.. Am just not the type who dates different men up and down.. If not they should come see and men, real men wooing around my office environment.. So they should relax, am not waiting for them to marry me.. And yes, I will invite them to my wedding in due time.. My landlord smiled and said OK.. Ladies if u have money to buy a car? Buy o... Don't suffer yourself Oo |
Re: Is It Advisable For A Single Lady To Live Alone by Sapphiredamsel(f): 3:02pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
Nah I plan my movements well and it's good to know everyone's principles and policies. My friends do know that you don't come to my house without informing me and getting my consent is key. If I wanna spend the night at someone's place, I call to inform to inform before hand and ask if it's okay to come over. Don't tell me how to live my life inugo? sunvick: |
Re: Is It Advisable For A Single Lady To Live Alone by Sapphiredamsel(f): 3:08pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
Nah, not there. But I had to bring that to light because I think one of the reasons Landlords and agents wanna know where you work is to ascertain if you'd be able to continue paying the rent or not. In fact, while filling the form, I was asked who would pay the rent and I wrote "self". Also true, landlord may be a pain in the ass because the maywanna monitor your every move. But diplomacy is key irrespective of whomever it is. truthsayer007: 1 Like |
Re: Is It Advisable For A Single Lady To Live Alone by seizethaBae(f): 3:26pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
pocohantas:Not yet o,i don't even know what to do with all the skills yet. I was telling someone about my interest in cakemaking and d guy said 'one day you will wake up and decide to learn how to build house on your own' 1 Like |
Re: Is It Advisable For A Single Lady To Live Alone by Nobody: 3:55pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
SAMBARRY: Pastor fok ke? No oh, its sinful. they are virgins , until wedding day |
Re: Is It Advisable For A Single Lady To Live Alone by SAMBARRY: 4:02pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
truthsayer007:story for the gods.like say them no dey get erecshon |
Re: Is It Advisable For A Single Lady To Live Alone by Nobody: 4:10pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
SAMBARRY: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Advisable For A Single Lady To Live Alone by Nobody: 4:15pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
cococandy: hahahaha You sef! A young man can stay alone and bring in so many ladies to devour their vaginas, but a sister has to be under serious watch. Oriegwu o 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Is It Advisable For A Single Lady To Live Alone by Nobody: 4:15pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
seizethaBae: wow, I just read your old post - "Will I Ever Get Married", Dauuuuumn...that was an interesting topic to read, 20 pages |
Re: Is It Advisable For A Single Lady To Live Alone by ednut1(m): 4:15pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
Amelian: |
Re: Is It Advisable For A Single Lady To Live Alone by sunvick(m): 7:45pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
Nne were ya nwayo, anyI anaga see okwu. Taa by kwa nbosi ukah. I get your point now, I however veto individual principles as standarda and privacy needs to be maintained. Sapphiredamsel: |
Re: Is It Advisable For A Single Lady To Live Alone by cutiesoglam(f): 9:37pm On Oct 16, 2016 |
truthsayer007:A good landlord is hard to find..... I hate houses with landlords... All my friends that v dem living in their compound always have a bad story to tell. Just 10% respect themselves n mind thier biz... Thank God I don't live with my landlord.. Lol |
Re: Is It Advisable For A Single Lady To Live Alone by Nobody: 2:22am On Oct 17, 2016 |
truthsayer007:Hahahaha. Eventually his choice of tenants will own him and he will start to complain. |
Re: Is It Advisable For A Single Lady To Live Alone by Nobody: 4:08am On Oct 17, 2016 |
DeeTus: I tire o, my broda |
Re: Is It Advisable For A Single Lady To Live Alone by Nobody: 4:10am On Oct 17, 2016 |
cutiesoglam: I guess u are one of the few lucky ones. |
Re: Is It Advisable For A Single Lady To Live Alone by Teespice(f): 5:49am On Oct 17, 2016 |
sunvick: what she did is in order. there is something called courtesy. if you are to visit someone at least give a form of notice. even if it's unplanned and unforeseen, a phone call at a short notice would suffice. someone visited me out of the blue and at a time I was drifting to sleep. he was talking and I was yawning where I was. at a point I told him I was sleepy and he needed to leave which he did but not before telling me in not so good terms that what I did wasn't fair. |
Re: Is It Advisable For A Single Lady To Live Alone by sunvick(m): 10:29am On Oct 17, 2016 |
I totally agree with your view point. Courtesy demands you at least give the person a call if it's ok by the host. however, I used the word "emergency" or "unforseen circumstances" to coroborate my previous comments with op's action. Teespice: 1 Like |
Re: Is It Advisable For A Single Lady To Live Alone by Collenshy2020(m): 5:47pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
ItsQuinn:What made you think the above is are ripe recipe for consideration? |
Re: Is It Advisable For A Single Lady To Live Alone by Nobody: 5:52pm On Oct 17, 2016 |
Collenshy2020: |
Re: Is It Advisable For A Single Lady To Live Alone by ODAVI(m): 5:07pm On Nov 15, 2016 |
Hello dear, Well its a two way thing.. It important to know why.. Besides, if the lady is already engaged and has steady job and relationship i dont see the need for it, she should plan for setteling down. I once pm you dear probably 2 months ago. Please i did like you to respond to my PM. Cheers omotohdarajugbogbolo: |
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