Kemi Omololu-Olunloyo, the outspoken daughter of a
former governor of Oyo state, Victor Omololu-Olunloyo,
has revealed why she has not been enjoying sex.
[b]Olunloyo, known for her straightforward comments
on social issues, told IBTimes UK during a recent
interview that few African women (especially Nigerians)
are willing to speak about their experiences with Female
Genital Mutilation (FGM) which she claims is one of the
reasons some of them have poor libido and urge for
mating. She has therefore advised such affected
individuals to use intimacy gadgets in order to get maximum
satisfaction rather than sleep with men who are not likely
to satisfy them.
Kemi Olunloyo, the 52-year-old daughter of ex-governor,
Victor Omololu-Olunloyo, says she does not enjoy sex.
“There was no anaesthetic and a sharp razor blade was
used. I remember my sister and I screaming afterwards.
We went home bleeding in diapers and, for a week, it
was like we were little girls with menstrual periods. My
mom was bathing us and diapering us. Deep down, mom
was not happy for some reason.
“After years of resentment towards my mother, I finally
confronted her in 2012. She burst into tears telling me
that our late paternal grandmother ordered my dad to
have us do it.
“This tradition is over 70-years-old. Our grandmother
was a traditional Muslim woman who dictated many rules
to her young son, my dad. “Some women and girls, who
undergo FGM, have their entire Instruments cut and “sewn
closed.”
My Instruments were only partially removed, meaning I did
not experience difficulties while giving birth, however,
the psychological and physical consequences of the
mutilation still linger in my life. “Calling it an operation
is nothing. It was a cultural barbaric act used to
decrease the female libido. It caused me post-traumatic
stress disorder (PTSD) for life.
[i][b]“I don’t experience orgasm during sex and when I
tried to promote the use of intimacy gadgets among Nigerian
women, men started attacking me saying I was
discouraging African women ‘from the real thing’.
“Sex is not important. I have no libido or urge to have
sex and I’ve been celibate for 10 years. Millions of
women in Nigeria go through this, but they cannot talk
or be outspoken like me. It is shameful and a disgrace to
them. “Many women say they fake orgasms and others
have husbands who go out to prostitutes and girlfriends.
FGM has destroyed marriages here.
“My message to girls who have been through it is to stay
strong and get into support groups. Its better to educate
girls about sex education the right way, instead of
cutting part of their genitals off causing a lifelong
traumatic problem,” Olunloyo cried out.
This revelation is coming just days after the controversial
feminist slammed immediate past Imo state governor,
Chief Ikedi Ohakim, for saying the nation’s economy was
‘HIV positive’ before President Muhammadu Buhari’s
administration.[/Quote]