Av been married for almost 4yrs...we are blessed wt 2 preety girls..bt for d past 3 and halt tears my sexual life is not encouraging.i av.never been wet b4 sex,not for once talkless of orgasm...each time we make luv,most times i pretend to be enjoying it...to be fair to my hisband he has really tried...he romances me,show me luv,envourages me bt nothing meaningful is happening...no matter hw much he toyrches me i hardly get moved....i tot things wl change after child birth but i was wrong...just last week my hubby dropped d bombshel....he told me he had kept quiet 4 all dis years just becos he hope things wl changed...he told me he had not been enjoying his sexual life wt me...and asked me if i do enjoy it,he want to kno if hes d problem...i told him no dat i do not...he almost broke down in tears...av seeked medial help bt no result...am scared he mite start.an affair wt anoda lady soon....he told me he had resulted to porn in d last 3yrs,and dats y he always lock his videos,just bvos he dnt want to have extral marital affairs...he said if things dosent improve b4 our 4th yr anniversary,he wl be force to seek divorce...pls pple,help me...someone advice me to join nairaland,dat i culd find solution

hmmm! over to the experts. FTC

Does he engage u in pre-intimacy?

afanide:
Does he engage u in pre-intimacy?

yes...hes very romantic....he hold back nothing in bed....he goes as far as MouthAction

Carsy say something

unlimitedgrace4:
Av been married for almost 4yrs...we are blessed

1) Ask for Maca from any good pharmacy.
2) Make tigernut (aya), dates and coconut juice.( buy it fresh, soak, remove the seeds, blend with clean water, sieve out the chaff and drink. Take this juice regularly, it boosts libido.
3) Speak to your hubby, tell him that he is not the reason you are having this issue of low libido, but you are willing to work on it and improve your marital relationship. You can also ask him to invite you to watch the p.orn with him, it make provoke intimacy again in you.(it works for some people)
4) Buy female lubricants, like pressed. Insert it before the do, dress sexy, initiate the act, do it the cow boy way. It helps to stimulate women.
5) Most importantly, commit it to God in prayer, and ask Him to evoke sex.usl feelings for your hubby again, that your marriage is on the verge of break down. He will do it.
Cheers love.

mamakendra:

1) Ask for Maca from any good pharmacy.
2) Make tigernut (aya), dates and coconut juice.( buy it fresh, soak, remove the seeds, blend with clean water, sieve out the chaff and drink. Take this juice regularly, it boosts libido.
3) Speak to your hubby, tell him that he is not the reason you are having this issue of low libido, but you are willing to work on it and improve your marital relationship. You can also ask him to invite you to watch the p.orn with him, it make provoke intimacy again in you.(it works for some people)
4) Buy female lubricants, like pressed. Insert it before the do, dress sexy, initiate the act, do it the cow boy way. It helps to stimulate women.
5) Most importantly, commit it to God in prayer, and ask Him to evoke sex.usl feelings for your hubby again, that your marriage is on the verge of break down. He will do it.
Cheers love.

i just cant thank u enof

i will try ur advice right away

unlimitedgrace4:
Av been married for almost 4yrs...we are blessed wt 2 preety girls..bt for d past 3 and halt tears my sexual life is not encouraging.i av.never been wet b4 sex,not for once talkless of orgasm...each time we make luv,most times i pretend to be enjoying it...to be fair to my hisband he has really tried...he romances me,show me luv,envourages me bt nothing meaningful is happening...no matter hw much he toyrches me i hardly get moved....i tot things wl change after child birth but i was wrong...just last week my hubby dropped d bombshel....he told me he had kept quiet 4 all dis years just becos he hope things wl changed...he told me he had not been enjoying his sexual life wt me...and asked me if i do enjoy it,he want to kno if hes d problem...i told him no dat i do not...he almost broke down in tears...av seeked medial help bt no result...am scared he mite start.an affair wt anoda lady soon....he told me he had resulted to porn in d last 3yrs,and dats y he always lock his videos,just bvos he dnt want to have extral marital affairs...he said if things dosent improve b4 our 4th yr anniversary,he wl be force to seek divorce...pls pple,help me...someone advice me to join nairaland,dat i culd find solution

Just try the suggested and I believe with ur hubby's encouragement and prayers, things should change.

But don't rule out medical assistance.

Sometimes we just find out we have some weird attributes but can't tell why. Life can be funny but hold on to God ma'am! It is well

God be with u!

unlimitedgrace4:
i will try ur advice right away

Hi. Hope things have improved?