In the past year, I have noticed something about myself and it's being making me so worried. I have noticed I give up so easily. I wasn't always this way until i came to the university. In secondary school I was a very young enthusiastic boy who believed I will one day make an impact in the world of science. I had a dream of going to a world class university, i still do but my grades are so subpar. I am graduating with a 2 2 in marine engineering (a 2.8 on a 4.0) and it's making me so depressed. I wake up everyday feeling like shi.t. I just don't see the need to try anymore, my project supervisor tells me I can still make it to a top institution even with my grades. But I still can't get over it. And it's not just academics, I have given up on almost everything else in my life even girls, i never kissed a girl until i turned 20. Most of my friends had fun in the university and i didnt do anything worthwhile.I dont particularly have anything that's exciting to me. Am just 21 but I would really wanna do something about this. I need suggestions on how I can stop giving up so easily and continue feeling motivated.

we can't do it for you,you just have to repeatedly tell yourself what you wanna become,you can't do anything about the past,so why not let it go and focus on the future(which is now),you've gat greatness ahead of you if only you can dust yourself and try, d'nt wait for others to motivate you,have an intrinsic motivation,for every goal you achieve,reward yourself......DON'T STOP BECAUSE YOU ARE TIRED,BUT STOP BECAUSE YOU ARE DONE......
you'll go far in life...

Divay22:
we can't do it for you,you just have to repeatedly tell yourself what you wanna become,you can't do anything about the past,so why not let it go and focus on the future(which is now),you've gat greatness ahead of you if only you can dust yourself and try, d'nt wait for others to motivate you,have an intrinsic motivation,for every goal you achieve,reward yourself......DON'T STOP BECAUSE YOU ARE TIRED,BUT STOP BECAUSE YOU ARE DONE......
you'll go far in life...

Thank you is there any way or anything you can suggest to be motivated and optimistic everyday.

tensazangetsu20:

Thank you is there any way or anything you can suggest to be motivated and optimistic everyday.

pray,yea put God first,be happy, speak positively to yourself, always remember if you fail 2day,you can try tomorrow and get it,stay away from people who have nothing good to say, either about you or others, and lastly always look forward to a better tomorrow........
I hope this help

I'm not in any position to give you advice. But if you can afford a professional therapist / psychologist, try see one.

Join a gym.

I think you have this fierce desire to succeed, and it always makes you feel inadequate.
Forget about the grades. there's nothing you can do about it, and I can tell you're smart, so why do you think your life is crumbling?
Because you kissed a girl at twenty? lmao.

You still never mentioned why you always feel like shiiiiit every morning.
Is it specifically because of the grades?

Elxandre:
I think you have this fierce desire to succeed, and it always makes you feel inadequate.
Forget about the grades. there's nothing you can do about it, and I can tell you're smart, so why do you think your life is crumbling?
Because you kissed a girl at twenty? lmao.

You still never mentioned why you always feel like shiiiiit every morning.
Is it specifically because of the grades?

That and seeing how well all my peers are doing.

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