I honestly don't understand why I get often judged in Nigeria than in any other place in the world. I might be shy in some situations, but only in Nigeria do people make you weep for it, rub it all over your face and trample on you. They'd aggressively take your space in a bar, a parking space or interpret it that you are miserable once you are an atom different from them. Sometimes, they put it to shakara.

Outside of the country, people actually treat you with more respect. Sometimes, even the Nigerians who would quickly treat you as trash in the country will be so nice to you outside you'd think their brain just got hit by a car, lol.

Outside the country though, it's just respect for who you are. Not often are people judging you by your sex or your personality type. And in professional environments, they certainly don't gaze down at your boo..bs.

Why this?

Aunty mathschic... Please let me pm u...can I go ahead?

Mathschic, can you give instances?

I like the sound of your moniker by the way. Are you a Maths tutor?