Hello all

I married a naija guy and I live abroad. I've been through ups and downs with this guy, and I finally decided to forgive him and come down to naija to marry him. Shortly after the marriage, I filed for him to come to the u.s, when I went to naija unannounced, i discovered he was cheating on me with a sugar mama and wasn't wearing his wedding ring. To add insult to the injury his family that pretended to like me, was overheard talking trash about me and calling me all kinds of names. I've been nothing but good to this people. I have a child with this guy and he's not taking care of the child.

He called recently to tell me that his father died (mind you me and my child never met the dad even though i tried many times for it to happened and he always refuse for us to meet the dad)

what should I do?

luvtoluvya:

Hello all

I married a naija guy and I live abroad. I've been through ups and downs with this guy, and I finally decided to forgive him and come down to naija to marry him. Shortly after the marriage, I filed for him to come to the u.s, when I went to naija unannounced, i discovered he was cheating on me with a sugar mama and wasn't wearing his wedding ring. To add insult to the injury his family that pretended to like me, was overheard talking trash about me and calling me all kinds of names. I've been nothing but good to this people. I have a child with this guy and he's not taking care of the child.

He called recently to tell me that his father died (mind you me and my child never met the dad even though i tried many times for it to happened and he always refuse for us to meet the dad)

what should I do?

i think you should bang your head on the wall a few times and hopefully you will see the light.
this guy messed up before and you forgave him, he cheated, treated you and your kid poorly, his family abused you and you are still asking on WHAT TO DO?!

also it is safe to say that if you refer to your ¨husband¨ and his family as THESE PEOPLE, you have a lot to learn about life.

I don't know, we may never know.