Hello Nairalanders. Please, your advices are needed. To cut the story short, let me just summarise it.
He neglected us when we needed him most which led to the death of my mum, me and my sister being dropped from school and our being thrown away from the house because of rent.. After the whole storm and agonies, which has led to me having a heart of stone, he popped out from no where and is now seeking forgiveness.
Inside of me, i find it hard to forgive him. I told him i'll only forgive him if he can bring back my mum.. I'm not God, and God do forgive us. But my experiences totally changed my heart.
each time i remember the painful circumstances that led to the death of my mum, my hatred for him grows.
What do i do?

No one owes you anything in this world, not even your parents. You came alone you will leave alone. In the light of this, forgive and forget, life is turn by turn!

forgive and forget

LordIsaac:
No one owes you anything in this world, not even your parents. You came alone you will leave alone. In the light of this, forgive and forget, life is turn by turn!

It's true, once you're in this world, you stand alone. But also know that there are people who make sacrifices for the sake of others.
And that was the case.

To err is human, to forgive is divine, try and forgive him then ask him why he left.

It mainly depends on the reason he left

However it's best to forgive but don't let him come too close

LordIsaac:
No one owes you anything in this world, not even your parents. You came alone you will leave alone. In the light of this, forgive and forget, life is turn by turn!

and you think you're making sense

A father and husband ran away from his responsibilities and you are justifying with xtupid philosophy



Your parents owe you alot till you're an adult, if they can't, they should use protection.

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and you think you're making sense

A father and husband ran away from his responsibilities and you are justifying with xtupid philosophy



Your parents owe you alot till you're an adult, if they can't, they should use protection.[/quote
I don't expect comprehension from someone who is incapable of seeing simple logic. Leech!

Whatever rocks your boat

VeniJu:
Hello Nairalanders. Please, your advices are needed. To cut the story short, let me just summarise it.
He neglected us when we needed him most which led to the death of my mum, me and my sister being dropped from school and our being thrown away from the house because of rent.. After the whole storm and agonies, which has led to me having a heart of stone, he popped out from no where and is now seeking forgiveness.
Inside of me, i find it hard to forgive him. I told him i'll only forgive him if he can bring back my mum.. I'm not God, and God do forgive us. But my experiences totally changed my heart.
each time i remember the painful circumstances that led to the death of my mum, my hatred for him grows.
What do i do?

For you to share such information here shows that you are considering forgiving him.

You never know what made him ran away.

I will advice you forgive him but this time try to fight for your self. If he assist, bonus .if he doesn't you have nothing to worry about

LordIsaac:
No one owes you anything in this world, not even your parents. You came alone you will leave alone. In the light of this, forgive and forget, life is turn by turn!

they owe her ooo,she did not ask to be born to them.na them them
op just forgive and move on .life is too short to cage yourself in the name of un forgiveness.you are actually setting itself free instead of him.

VeniJu:
Hello Nairalanders. Please, your advices are needed. To cut the story short, let me just summarise it.
He neglected us when we needed him most which led to the death of my mum, me and my sister being dropped from school and our being thrown away from the house because of rent.. After the whole storm and agonies, which has led to me having a heart of stone, he popped out from no where and is now seeking forgiveness.
Inside of me, i find it hard to forgive him. I told him i'll only forgive him if he can bring back my mum.. I'm not God, and God do forgive us. But my experiences totally changed my heart.
each time i remember the painful circumstances that led to the death of my mum, my hatred for him grows.
What do i do?

You don't have to forgive him for his sake but you need to forgive him for your sake so that you can move on. You don't have to accept him. Just forgive and put him in the past where he belongs. Then go on and make a better life for yourself free of his influence over you.

CNN80:


You don't have to forgive him for his sake but you need to forgive him for your sake so that you can move on. You don't have to accept him. Just forgive and put him in the past where he belongs. Then go on and make a better life for yourself free of his influence over you.

Thanks

winetapper:
For you to share such information here shows that you are considering forgiving him.

You never know what made him ran away.

I will advice you forgive him but this time try to fight for your self. If he assist, bonus .if he doesn't you have nothing to worry about

Thanks