and so she started....

….I was in my third serious relationship (excluding school runs offcourse,), i was closer to 30 than 25, Tunde had met with my parents we were both in love, my dad really liked him so did my mum, he had a good job, had his apartment, an ac chilling car and most of all he said he loved me, his bedroom skills superb, so you could imagine my utter amazement when he proposed, yes Tunde wanted to marry me. i was all too eager to share with my friends my mum, i was in high heavens. Tunde officially declared his intentions to my parents a week later, formal introduction was agreed to hold in month, after introduction a date was agreed by both parents for the engagement/wedding proper... ghen ghen i couldnt wait to be called Mrs. Ore xyz. and then it happened, a few weeks later Tunde called off the wedding. I was in total shock ,ahan!!! Ahan!!! no way could lightning strike 3times, yes i repeat 3times this was the third consecutive time i would get dumped just before the wedding day. haba something was definitely wrong.... I remained inconsolable (Tunde got married to someone else), no one could bring me out of my shell, I lost weight, resigned from my job, I became a ghost of my robust self. My mum panicked when it appeared I was becoming suicidal and then one evening she called me to her room…what happened next was stranger than fiction… she stripped and made me swear that what she was about to reveal could never be revealed, and then asked me why was I killing yourself over a man, and if having a man was my problem then all I had to do was get my chosen spouse to eat of the concoction which she brought out and then she boasted saying “your daddy has been on this for the past 35yrs, he thinks he is in love but I know better"… in my desperation I took the concoction and proceeded to look for my spouse…..i am so so sorry… I really love you,

….that was how my wife of two years, confessed to me. I’m still in shock, I look at our baby, I look at my wife with eyes wide open, with disgust…. and walked out

I need advise, what should I do

snthesis:
and so she started....

….I was in my third serious relationship (excluding school runs offcourse,), i was closer to 30 than 25, Tunde had met with my parents we were both in love, my dad really liked him so did my mum, he had a good job, had his apartment, an ac chilling car and most of all he said he loved me, his bedroom skills superb, so you could imagine my utter amazement when he proposed, yes Tunde wanted to marry me. i was all too eager to share with my friends my mum, i was in high heavens. Tunde officially declared his intentions to my parents a week later, formal introduction was agreed to hold in month, after introduction a date was agreed by both parents for the engagement/wedding proper... ghen ghen i couldnt wait to be called Mrs. Ore xyz. and then it happened, a few weeks later Tunde called off the wedding. I was in total shock ,ahan!!! Ahan!!! no way could lightning strike 3times, yes i repeat 3times this was the third consecutive time i would get dumped just before the wedding day. haba something was definitely wrong.... I remained inconsolable (Tunde got married to someone else), no one could bring me out of my shell, I lost weight, resigned from my job, I became a ghost of my robust self. My mum panicked when it appeared I was becoming suicidal and then one evening she called me to her room…what happened next was stranger than fiction… she stripped and made me swear that what she was about to reveal could never be revealed, and then asked me why was I killing yourself over a man, and if having a man was my problem then all I had to do was get my chosen spouse to eat of the concoction which she brought out and then she boasted saying “your daddy has been on this for the past 35yrs, he thinks he is in love but I know better"… in my desperation I took the concoction and proceeded to look for my spouse…..i am so so sorry… I really love you,

….that was how my wife of two years, confessed to me. I’m still in shock, I look at our baby, I look at my wife with eyes wide open, with disgust…. and walked out

I need advise, what should I do

Why did she confess?The jazz don fail?

thorpido:
Why did she confess?The jazz don fail?

i really cant say, i was out of country for 6months and my attitude towards her changed, i saw her in a different light, i couldnt recall marrying her, everything was just hazy. i told my mum and a few weeks later she confided in me, and asked me to forgive her

snthesis:


i really cant say, i was out of country for 6months and my attitude towards her changed, i saw her in a different light, i couldnt recall marrying her, everything was just hazy. i told my mum and a few weeks later she confided in me, and asked me to forgive her

Hmmm.It's a marriage of deception.I really can't tell you what to do but make the decision that's best for you.

snthesis:


i really cant say, i was out of country for 6months and my attitude towards her changed, i saw her in a different light, i couldnt recall marrying her, everything was just hazy. i told my mum and a few weeks later she confided in me, and asked me to forgive her

For real? So such works

Story for Obatala

For real or another Nollywood story?

Wowzer! I think you should annul the marriage even with the evidence of consummation( your baby) ! You weren't there nau...


Or, just start afresh....See if u could love her enough to stay married to her.

You can't recall marrying her??



Oboy this one pass me.

cc: Seun

Done is done abi?!

Now what next?

If your marriage was great pre-confession, you both can tolerate each others weaknesses, make each other happy, are great buddies, partners and parents, i'd say forgive her and continue with the marriage.

However, if you can't deal with it and not sure you ever loved her or will love her again from henceforth, then quietly go your separate ways.

Your next can be worse, or better. No winner in marriage sha.

If it really happened to you, why did your write up sound like literature? I know this kind of things happen but I doubt it happened to the Op. If it did, you won't have the calmness to be writing it like its fiction.

Anyways, I can't stay married to a man that married me with jazz. If I can't trust you or never knew or loved you, why will I remain? Someone like that woman can kill. My opinion though.

really strange. I don't know things like this exist. you need divine help. what. Lord have mercy.

U ca just pretend she never told you and focus on those things she does that blows your mind

snthesis:


i really cant say, i was out of country for 6months and my attitude towards her changed, i saw her in a different light, i couldnt recall marrying her, everything was just hazy. i told my mum and a few weeks later she confided in me, and asked me to forgive her

So the concoction has a limited range of within the country's borders, this is why it failed when you went beyond coverage.

Whoever made that concoction is an amateur.

this kept me entertained... didn't know jazz have boundary limits

Idydarling:
this kept me entertained... didn't know jazz have boundary limits

hahahaha u hav turn a muslim

Idydarling:
this kept me entertained... didn't know jazz have boundary limits

Don't be so limited babes. Firstly, do you believe jazz like that exists? Well it does. I once had an arm's length friend in school that did hers on the Virgo for the bobo. Babe was a runs girl, who sleeps with neighbors and friends...In fact, she once slept with the bobo's cousin. Long story short, bobo always finds this out and beats girl like heavens will fall. When this happens, we cringe. Interesting, after the fight, they end it with sex and life goes on. The day we knew things weren't normal was the day she was bragging that dude wasn't going anywhere unless she leaves him or he TRAVELS far from her. He traveled eventually, that was the end of them.


Praypraypray sister fellow gbeboru, our sons need our prayers

jakandeola:
hahahaha u hav turn a muslim

hehehe I'm finding that shii funny my guy

sisisioge:


Don't be so limited babes. Firstly, do you believe jazz like that exists? Well it does. I once had an arm's length friend in school that did hers on the Virgo for the bobo. Babe was a runs girl, who sleeps with neighbors and friends...In fact, she once slept with the bobo's cousin. Long story short, bobo always finds this out and beats girl like heavens will fall. When this happens, we cringe. Interesting, after the fight, they end it with sex and life goes on. The day we knew things weren't normal was the day she was bragging that dude wasn't going anywhere unless she leaves him or he TRAVELS far from her. He traveled eventually, that was the end of them.


Praypraypray sister fellow gbeboru, our sons need our prayers

na wa oo

Sorry, this sounds like a crock of shït. Jazz? Abegi.

sisisioge:


...., after the fight, they end it with sex and life goes on. The day we knew things weren't normal was the day she was bragging that dude wasn't going anywhere unless she leaves him or he TRAVELS far from her. He traveled eventually, that was the end of them.


Praypraypray sister fellow gbeboru, our sons need our prayers

My Oh my... African juju with limited coverage.
God help our people. Oga run for your life. But be careful as you prepare to run. Dont pre-inform her so she wont waste you. I hope she neva go renew the jazz quick quick to one with world wide coverage. Are you still with us?

Many people are under this type of spell right now without them knowing.

Loisemm:


My Oh my... African juju with limited coverage.
God help our people. Oga run for your life. But be careful as you prepare to run. Dont pre-inform her so she wont waste you. I hope she neva go renew the jazz quick quick to one with world wide coverage. Are you still with us?

I think the potency not only lies with proximity, contact is also important. For as long as the dude is still doing the do...No leelee

sisisioge:



I think the potency not only lies with proximity, contact is also important. For as long as the dude is still doing the do...No leelee

Chai... no be small thing.

What transpired between you two that made her to confess? She can't just wake up one morning and start confessing over something that would ruin her supposed "happiness"

We need part 2.

What a load of crap!
As if there is any such thing as 'jazz'

Loisemm:
If it really happened to you, why did your write up sound like literature? I know this kind of things happen but I doubt it happened to the Op. If it did, you won't have the calmness to be writing it like its fiction.

Anyways, I can't stay married to a man that married me with jazz. If I can't trust you or never knew or loved you, why will I remain? Someone like that woman can kill. My opinion though.

The only reasonable answer so far everyone is trying to romanticize it, she could have given him poison. Besides I agree too it sounds fictional .

Ujoan:
What a load of crap!
As if there is any such thing as 'jazz'

People say there is but I have yet to see one sha.

hmmm, i cant believe i wrote this.....

y did i write this

i love my wife and she'll never do this things, we are together i never left, did sum1 hack my account