Hi..I am an old nairalander..I just had to create a separate account for this topic..
My name is Aisha..I have been best friends with Tobi for about three years now. We actually met in our 100 level during registration. We could easily pass for sisters because our friendship is so tight. We confide in each other and keep no secrets. We have alot in common and she's a trustworthy friend.
The major downside about her is that she nags...alot. She could complain about the most insignificant thing numerous times. Even when I try to satisfy her or amend my ways, she would bring up a new complaint. It is like she's never satisfied with anything. When we're arguing..she always plays the victim card..she never feels that she's wrong. Honestly, I can't take it anymore. I have tried my best to accommodate her but she never feels like she's the one at fault. She can be very ungrateful at times. I have tried my best to talk to her but that makes her flare up the more. I know every friendship has its bad times but I'm really confused right now. Please, nairalanders..I need your advice on this matter..Thank you.

cc:lalasticlala...mynd44

Fashy am na

Friendship o not marriage
Why are you bothering yourself
Let her act when she wants to act. Listen quietly then give her a gentle slap on her shoulder, tickle her and continue whatever
No time. There are other things that bother

Why let a friend be your problem?. If she's misbehaving, ignore her and she'll come back to her senses if she has one.

Like you two are living together.

Are you still both students and do you live together?
If you don't live together,simply do your own thing.Play with her whenever you see her but keep your own company.

thorpido:
Are you still both students and do you live together?
If you don't live together,simply do your own thing.Play with her whenever you see her but keep your own company.

We're living together actually

Who cares ? Not to sound harsh but as long as you guys are not married its not a big deal. Forget about her and move on, friends will always leave, I had so many friends before but now I can't count up to 10 now. Move on

Sugar daddies are behind ur roforofo fight.If u are ready to open up/tell us the TRUTH, we'll do justice to una storm but until then, I'm outa here

nastycgolden:
We're living together actually

The only choice now is to ignore her rantings and spend as less time with her as possible.
The othe choice is to move out and get your own accommodation.She won't change,so just cope with it.

Oh boy,! See matter! Bestieship no be by force! Biko find your friend go front! Find a friend that suits you. Full stop!

Rabeesh

Snatch her boyfriend and fvck him, then dump both of them. She will forever fear you

Always put this at the back of your mind " We won't be together till eternity" Sooner or later everyone will go their separate ways. Enjoy your friendship while it last.