Why Halle Berry’s Relationship is Lasting




By Cassandra George Sturges MA, MA, Psy. D

Halle Berry was born August 14, 1966. This woman is in her forties and she looks like she is in her late twenties. She won an Oscar for the movie Monster’s Ball and won the Miss USA world title in 1986. Halle Berry is currently one of the highest paid actresses in Hollywood and; a model and spokesperson for Revlon cosmetic company.





For a minute there it looked liked Halle Berry could not keep man to save her life. I thought that she and the Atlanta Braves, former baseball player, David Justice, was such an adorable couple. But that didn’t last. Then she was married to musician Eric Benét. You guessed it, that didn’t last either. In fact, there was a lot of news coverage about how Eric Benét cheated on Halle Berry -- all the time. I mean if Halle Berry can’t keep a man faithful--- Lord please pray for the rest of regular women. I thought Halle Berry and Eric Benét were too cute together. Then she dated that cute guy Michael Ealy, from the movie Barbara shop. But they broke up.









Halle Berry said that she had been a victim of domestic violence …”Domestic violence is something I've known about since I was a child. My mother was a victim of it. Early on in my life I made choices, and I chose men that were abusive because that was what I knew growing up.” Sounds like she has some issue her that have contributed to why her relationships had not worked out in the past.

Halle Berry met supermodel Gabriel Aubry in November 2005 at a Versace photo shoot. Gabriel Aubry is nine years younger than Halle Berry. Halle and Gabriel have a beautiful little girl named Nahla Ariela Aubry, born on March 16, 2008.




It’s been four years and I haven’t heard any drama about Gabriel cheating on Halle. I haven’t heard anything about scheduling conflicts that prevent many Hollywood couples from finding quality time to spend together.





Okay, I am about to say something that is stereotyping and does not apply to every couple. I think that the reason Halle Berry’s relationship is lasting this time is because she is dating a white man. Not just any white man, but a supermodel white man who probably knows his own worth and value in a predominately white mainstream society.





I think that because of Halle Berry’s level of beauty and success she needs a man who feels equally yolked in the relationship and who is not intimidated by her success. But not only is Gabriel not intimidated by her money, fame and beauty; he is also not easily insulted when Halle asks him to take out the garbage; pick up some milk on his way home or change the baby’s diaper. Gabriel has a strong sense of who he is in terms of his gender role and masculinity as a man.

I believe the Gabriel Aubry is secure within himself and it is much psychologically easier for him to deal with a beautiful, strong, wealthy, and maybe even bossy and emotionally needy black woman than it would be for an African American man who is trying to earn the respect that he deserves in a white male dominated patriarchal society.





Gabreil Aubry is not hurt by Halle Berry’s nude pictures, which I heard in several news sources, that Halle Berry’s nudity in some hermovies devastated Eric Benet and was one of the root causes that started their marriage to unravel.





I think that black men have a harder time dealing with seeing a woman that they love as a sex object naked for the whole world to see, and admire. Black men were forced to unwilling share their women with white slave masters for centuries during and after slavery end in America. I think that Halle Berry’s posing nude humiliated the pride in the black men that she dated, but because white men have a different culture this type of nudity does not bother them.





Halle Berry’s nudity actually boosted her career as a actress in a capitalistic society where the value of something is determined by how much money it makes and not how it makes people feel. I think that it is wise for Halle Berry to remain in relationships with white men who can accept who and what she is at this juncture in her career.

Okay, I am about to say something that is stereotyping and does not apply to every couple. I think that the reason Halle Berry’s relationship is lasting this time is because she is dating a white man. Not just any white man, but a supermodel white man who probably knows his own worth and value in a predominately white mainstream society.

semid4lyfe:

Abegiiiii, bone this na becos she marry whitey 'thingy' jare. Halle Berry was and is still very obsessed with her 'super-slim' model like figure. She constantly[b] denied her ex-husband Eric Bennet the 'koko'[/b] and the poor dude had no choice but to get sum' outside

Anyhow sha, I''m happy her present marriage dey jolli dey go.

semid4lyfe:

Abegiiiii, bone this na becos she marry whitey 'thingy' jare. Halle Berry was and is still very obsessed with her 'super-slim' model like figure. She constantly denied her ex-husband Eric Bennet the 'koko' and the poor dude had no choice but to get sum' outside

Anyhow sha, I''m happy her present marriage dey jolli dey go.

iice:

Aubry is hot!!!

vislabraye:

You need to see my pics. I'm hotter

You don't say

vislabraye:

I wonder if he could stand watching his wife fake s.r.e-wing another guy in movies,

You don't say

vislabraye:

Oh yes it is true. I just like to live a low profile cos I'm modest

I'm a bit obsessed about Halle , you know. May be cos she's shot and very portable , or her smiles.

Well good for you

LOL i know all about portable. . .guys and portable sef And yes, she is hot

vislabraye:

http://authentikbeauty..com/2009/10/why-halle-berrys-relationship-is.html

May be she never met the right black brother

Mashtown:

Well i think is good for her

vislabraye:

Sexy sugar mum. The guy is 10 years her junior

The guy get sense. She didn't intimidate him. He saw her, wanted her, got her

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