1. Keeping scores

Relationships aren’t a competition. One important thing to do to keep your relationship harmonious is to stop keeping score. Keeping scores will create tension for no reason.

2. Threatening to leave your relationship

It’s totally okay to dislike certain things about your partner and to have deal breakers that will end the relationship. But it is wrong to convert every flaw into a deal breaker to force your partner into changing it. You should never threaten to break up with your partner if you don’t really mean it. A breakup should be something you have seriously thought about. Bringing it up casually is emotional blackmail and unfair to the both of you.

3. Bringing up past fights

Once you fight and resolve issues with your partner, let it go. Fights are part of relationships. Bringing up past fights repeatedly is just salt in the wound and is counterproductive to moving on with the relationship. If you fight about a new topic, stick to that topic and resist the urge to bring up something that happened years ago.

4. Exhibiting passive-aggressive behaviour

Stop using a passive aggressive attitude to attract your partner’s attention. Stop being afraid of telling your partner what’s bothering you and speak up. Good communication is key to maintaining a happy relationship, and doing it passive-aggressively is not the way to go.

5. Agreeing on everything

You and your partner can’t agree on everything in life. No relationship is that perfect. You are never going to find someone who agrees with you on absolutely everything and even if you did, that relationship would be boring. Some conflict is inevitable, and that’s totally fine. So pick your battles and don’t let some disagreements ruin an otherwise happy relationship.

6. Having unrealistic expectations

Loving someone isn’t about moulding that person into your perfect partner – it’s about accepting that person flaws and all. But many people harbour unrealistic expectations from their partners. And when these expectations aren’t met, they become upset but can’t articulate why.


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