A Facebook user posted this and it got me thinking. Should Babymama be encouraged or abortion?
The truth is that most people are sexually active and once you are,there are certain risks that pertains to it, babies and STD's.
So, since being a babymama is the natural trend in this country,should it be encouraged?

I read on a popular dating site about a man proposing to the girlfriend but the girlfriend turned it
down, saying she prefers being the man's babymama. Her reason is that he will take care of her and that their love will never dwindle.
Note, this man called on everyone to beg his girlfriend to accept his proposal as he does not want to have kids out of wedlock.

To many, the girl seem unreasonable and foolish. Some are right but lets look at it from the girls perspective, as a babymama, you get the full support from your babydaddy which he might not actually give to his immediate family and since distance makes the heart grow warmer,the love will keep being fresh till both decides to be cranky about it. You are free to do anything you want without another getting in your way and when you demand for anything,it's treated as priority by the babydaddy.
Need i say the many vacations and trips abroad,anywhere of your choice if you have a buoyant and 'remotable' babydaddy. And the car, mehn! sight for sore eyes.

These are some of the things women look at which makes them prefer being a babymama to 'wifey.'
And the most important reason, for most men, there's no need to cheat when you have a babymama willing to maintain her payroll with you.
She gives you what you want and so makes it useless to have another.

But looking at it on another and more sensible matter, you bring forth innocent kids to suffer for your mistakes. There's no way you will give them the attention that they need since you are not there everytime. The girls turns around to be needy and might have 'daddy issues' making every potential man a daddy figure and thereby falling into a bad life.
And most times, due to no and every fault of yours,the kids will always compete with the ones you had in marriage, be it academically, emotionally and physically.

What do you give yourself then? Tones of problem which might drive you to an early grave.

In another scenario, abortion is bad and a no-no, ask people who lives with the guilt everyday,they will tell you.

What's your opinion? Do let me know in the comment section.

Premarital sex should be discouraged and contraception encouraged.