Hi , so I decided to write this post for the single ladies and guys out there, being single is not a bad thing depending on your reasons, but Africans, especially Nigerians seem to tag singles of late 30’s as unwanted or unserious.there are various reasons why one decides to be single ;why don’t we take a look by reading below;

1 you have trust issues; you have been heartbroken before and this has killed your trust , so you tend to guide your heart by not trusting nor being involve with anyone.

2 you are not financially stable; it is very important for a man to be financially capable in taking care of himself and family., do you know diapers are expensive, baby food, school fees tuition , etc.

3 your criteria is on a high level; you not what you want in a spouse ,you probably haven’t seen the potentials you want yet and refuse to settle for less and this isn’t bad you know.

4 you still single because its a choice ; every one has its own choice in life, being single might be part of yours because you don’t want to be bothered or worried about anyone.

5 you don’t want to answer to anybody; its not new anymore that some of us love been our own boss, you could still be single because you don’t want interference, you don’t want to be questioned, want to be able to do whatever you like.

6 you love being a player; you love your girls, or your guys, you can’t see yourself settling for one, you want to keep having fun,that’s why we have baby daddy and baby mama’s , and some even think as long as they already have a child there’s no reason for them to settle down.

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