new to nairaland how do i check replied mail and how do i get involve

When you click on a thread, at the top of the page, look carefully, you will see, 'reply' 'subscribe'. If you need to contribute to the topic, you click on 'reply' and after typing out your contribution check the bottom of the page you will see 'click once, then wait'. But if you want to know what people say about your comments, post and views, then you subscribe to the thread. This will be sent to your email intimating you of when and who had comments on the same thread you subscribe to.
Alternatively, you can click on 'new post replying yours' at the top of every page in nairaland to see th elist of all the post you had participated in. (Though this sometimes is not working nowadays). Goodluck pal.

you forgot to mention recent post

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