Using Love as Qualification for Marriage
Thinking that the only qualification for marriage is love, this is an erroneous belief. If God our creator need wisdom, understanding and knowledge, through His very own name is love, you mighty really need more love to make your marriage work. Understand that in scriptures, our guiding principle is love. Before a man or woman settles into marriage, he or she should possess love. The fruit of love is patience, kindness, humanity, longsuffering.

The fruit of wisdom is prudence, knowledge, discretion, sound judgment matters. The man must have power to carry the responsibilities of marriage; otherwise both parties will experience untold hardships that deplete love banks. Ensure your partner is mature, and indeed study for the very serious business of marriage.

Always remember this ‘The Lord by wisdom founded the earth; by understanding He established the heavens; by His knowledge the depths were broken up, and clouds drop down the dew’. These principles are very useful in relationship. I hope it will work for your case, and bring lasting joy into that your relationship starting from today.

Using sex as Qualification for Marriage
Many singles assure one other of marriage. As a result, they take liberty for licence and begin to engage in sexual immorality. Sex before marriage can destroy your relationship. Not only is it a violation of God policy to abstain from Immorality, it may leave the parties involved with nothing to look forward to in marriage. Some singles watch pornography together in the name of learning and preparing for sex within marriage. This is wrong. Because it may succeeds creating inflamed passions within you and set you on a path you are not ready for.

Many times pornography precedes many problems singles deal with, like masturbation, promiscuity, sleeping around with prostitutes, even rape. This is so because after watching a porn, being inflamed, they seek channels through which their hot emotions can expunged.
A man or a woman who engages in premarital sex is likely going to commit adultery in marriage, for all that is required is a neglect of their consciences of such immoral acts. I’m Kingsmond, see you on my next publication; until then remained blessed.

Source: Kingsmond.com

Relationship Spot With: Kingsmond Ehimare

On the Above second point, are you suggesting what i'm thinking? that no testing of the Ponyor of the woman you are 110% sure you are going to marry?

i don't want my case to be like...woman says she's a virgin but on wedding night...