Singer, Kenny Saint Best, doesn’t seem to joke with her two teenage kids, even as a single mother, she has so far, made sure she took good care of them.

Her daughter is gradually growing to become a beautiful damsel and when asked what age she would allow her teenage daughter to have a boyfriend, the singer hinted that it would be when she attains the “penis envy” stage.

According to Wikipedia, ‘Penis Envy’ is a stage theorised by Sigmund Freud regarding female psychosexual development, in which young girls experience anxiety upon realisation that they do not have a penis. However, the singer said that her Philosophy lecturer in school defined it as a stage in a young girl’s life when she realises that she attracts the member of the opposite sex.



KSB noted that she started dating when she was 15 years old so she would be a wicked mother to deny her child from dating a man at that age.

“When I was in the university, I took a course in Philosophy and they taught us that there is a particular age that girls start dating and they call it the age of ‘Penis Envy’. It is not that the girls are necessarily looking for sex, it is just a stage in their life whereby they realise that they are pretty and they can be attractive to a guy. For me, once my daughter is 15 years old then it is okay for her to date. It is not that they would be walking around holding hands but it has to be a civil and responsible relationship. I am not a regular parent, I feel it is okay for a female child to be aware that she is attractive to guys and she should also know that the guy would woo her. That was the age it happened to me and I would be a wicked mother to expect that at the age of 15, my daughter would not have someone wooing her or telling her the usual lies guys tell ladies.

“So for my boy, if he is 17 and I notice that he is always talking to someone on the phone and always smiling, it is okay. It does not mean that they are going to be practising sex; it just means that they are understanding matters of the heart and love apart from the love they get from their parents,” she said.

http://punchng.com/id-be-wicked-if-i-dont-allow-my-daughter-to-date-at-15-ksb/

Mine will start dating @ 12

don't even remember her again

0b100100111:
Mine will start dating @ 12

Invite me for the dating, will gladly do it for free

you can even allow them to start at the age of 10......your children...your life

Groovenaija360:


Invite me for the dating, will gladly do it for free

Paedophille....

Kamelot77:
don't even remember her again

Her brother Kenny ogungbe spent so much money on her and did a lot of music promotion just to make sure she is very successful in her music career but it did not work,maybe she was not destined to be a musician

so u still dey naija

What a good parent.... Instead of fighting the inevitable, she has resigned herself to it and thus will be in a better position to help her daughter pass that rather confused stage of her life

Not like all those strict parents who by their excessive strictness, push their kids into becoming the exact opposite of what their parents are pushing them to be

A Round of Applause for KSB

Na wa o.

your family, your life

your daughter's teenage pregnancy, your wahala



bullcrap

Lol. Not a very bad idea, only that the relationship should be seriously guided & guarded by the parents.

By the way, whether you like it or not, your children will begin to notice boys/ girls at that age. It's nature.

All one needs is just guidance. For young people, dating should not necessarily mean sex.

But if as a parent, you have done all you can to ensure they turn out well, yet it takes the run turn, don't kill yourself. Such is life

No be only 15, in fact let her born by 12. Yeyenatu

Mumu.

Guys will just widen her orifice for nothing.

......"KSB noted that she started dating when she was 15 years old so she would be a wicked mother to deny her child from dating a man at that age.

And see where you ended....a baby mama you will be more wicked if you allow your kids the freedom to date at this tender age. And how on earth will you monitor their private activities in this jet age? All in the name of civilisation or being a cool mum?

Bring up a child in the way of the Lord. When he grows up, he will not depart from it...

Enough said....

She is a confirmed psychologist. I support her way of reasoning. I once read a book called THE PSYCHOLOGY OF SEX, where I discovered a lot of things people don't know and I had a different mental inclination to issues of female sex life and teenage relationships.
Modern research shows that young girls now start dating at approximately 15 years old. So it is very unwise to tell them not to date at that age because they'll still do it secretly and you'll only get to know it when it backfired on them. So simply allow her to date at 15 but guide her and make sure she is not dating a wrong person. Let her understand the dangers involved in teenage sexual activities and why she should avoid it. This way she'll satisfy her emotional and psychological desire to date and be loved by the opposite sex without getting herself into trouble.
Teenage relationships is more useful to girls than boys. Only psychologists like KSB will understand this.

Wehdonma!

your children, your decision

NothingDoMe:
Mumu.

Guys will just widen her orifice for nothing.

U are wicked honestly

I would be wicked if my daughter tries it at 15.

She's your daughter now, not mine. So do whatever you like with her. In short, start taking her to strip club b4 she clocks 15.

Poor parenting.

Once she discovers boys, she discovers sex.

Mschewwww! Something about her dressing reminds me of the late Goldie especially the hand gloves.

See mumu...even from the name sef na trouble..Joystick envy..no na joystick enjoy.You see where e land you.You chop hot yam too early.Single mother.She can start chopping now sef.

Her decision though! She was once at that age, and maybe talking through experience
That's how my mom told me when I was 16 that the fact that she hasn't seen me with a guy doesn't mean am not dating. And I was like...

Mumu everywhere.

At 15 my daughter will only be dating her books and extra curricula activities. Music sports art etc.

She will only date whales she is mature enough to marry.