Hello Everyone, this is a topic people discuss in churches and seminars but the truth is that I'm yet to find someone who will hit the nail on the head just as it is.

How far is too far in a Christian relationship in terms of romance? Should it just end in kissing? How about cuddling, handling of body parts, oral s*x, spending the night in your partner's house. I understand the Bible speaks against fornication and sexual immorality but what limit do you get to for you to classify an action as sexually immoral?

Its easy to say the above falls under sexual immorality, but I would like to hear from Christians who have dated for years and how far they went in their relationship as regards romance. I want us to be practical and realistic, please no pretense, no judgment and no condemnation.

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Truth is, it's boring. The moral boundaries no go make you flow. Marriage is the only option to be free on an intimate level with your Christian partner.

There is a period of courtship, one can't jump into marriage.

Boomboost:
Truth is, it's boring. The moral boundaries no go make you flow. Marriage is the only option to be free on an intimate level with your Christian partner.

She wants to have sex before marriage... And is looking for someone to say GO AHEAD. You're on your own oo.
#Team ABSTINENCE. MouthAction is a No No.

NoWorries7:
She wants to have sex before marriage... And is looking for someone to say GO AHEAD. You're on your own oo.
#Team ABSTINENCE. MouthAction is a No No.

And what if it's for the purpose of a seminar, u never can tell if I'm writing an article on it. Give ur advice and leave. Stop being judgemental. Thank you.

dunamis321:
There is a period of courtship, one can't jump into marriage.

Yeah, I won't argue, Courtship is also boring or whether it's just the girl I was with. Anyway, spicing up the relationship might mean corrupting the morals both of you hold.

...or is there a way courtship can be "real", (ie without pretence or holding back) between Christians in a relationship?