Good evening.Thanks and God bless you all for your kind suggestions.

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I share your pain, but it is not necessary you cook for people because you want to name your child. Get the relevant people in attendance, Pastor or Imam to oversee the process. When you gallant financially you can decide to block Third mainland bridge to celebrate.

How can you beg people online to do naming ceremony for your child?
You are a damn irresponsible father. I weep for you seriously.

gmajor10 thanks for your kind words.

How can you be having unprotected sekx when you clearly can't look after the one you have?
If you manage to get help here you should be thinking of stocking your home with enough food to last the next few months with a breastfeeding mum and toddler rather than trying to feed people who wouldn't share their pot of soup with you after the naming.......and whilst at it , pls go for family planning

boldx thank you.

keepingmum:
How can you be having unprotected sekx when you clearly can't look after the one you have?
If you manage to get help here you should be thinking of stocking your home with enough food to last the next few months with a breastfeeding mum and toddler rather than trying to feed people who wouldn't share their pot of soup with you after the naming.......and whilst at it , pls go for family planning

thanks alot for these kind suggestions.

why you ho marry when u know say your not capable of feeding a family


Bro, my papa no my naming ceremony when I was born

but today many people know my name.


well those that have should pls help him


BT don't come back here to ask for help again during ur second child's naming ceremony

Young03,thanks

No, you wouldn't go about THANKING everyone here. No!
Congratulations on the birth of your little one. May his arrival be the beginning of good things in your life ONLY if you rise now and go kick your own ass.

You can't sit behind your keyboard and continue begging and thanking..
Forget naming ceremony, don't even call any religious leader. Whisper your child's name into his/her ears.

Go and hustle! Go to building sites and do 'laboring' jobs. Go to motor parks and offer to do motor conductor.
Go to car wash and apply for jobs.
The list is endless.

You owe your wife and kids total responsibility. I wish you all the Best.