Issue on human violation rape is becoming hyper by the day.
The cases of rape treated this year mush more than last or year
before.
Like you know that on our blog we deal with relationship family
lifestyle among others and something about this case is that the
it like a poison the victim carries almost for life expect they go
for me which many might decide to keep to themselves.
Now when you go into a relationship with those people maybe
friendship bases or romantically problem decided to appear.
You need to know the signs of rape victims.
Anger issue - people that have passed through such traumatic
experience tends to be hostile to people and general environs
because the guilt and hurt still there especially when it about
intimacy. People like that hate touch maybe hug pat shoulder
rub or sort
Trust issues - : any form they do not trust anybody for anything
because their personal space has been violated already the fear
phobia is still very present. When they think or have a flash of
the ugly event they angry violent and scared.
Phobias
A common psychological defense that is seen in rape survivors
is the development of
fears and phobias specific to the circumstances of the rape, for
example:
A fear of being in crowds. - that reason why a grown up lady
will decided not to stay where too much crowd are it feels like
all the attention are on then which makes them feel
uncomfortable
A fear of being left alone anywhere. - they feel unsecured
unprotected they can't stay alone thinking not safe for them.
People like that likes to have flat mates or roommate
A fear of men or women. (androphobia or gynophobia) they fear
when people are trying to come closer to their life afraid so that
such case might not repeat itself
A fear of going out at all, agoraphobia .-they prefer staying in
door believe that their safe haven and also takes extra security
measures
A fear of being touched, hapnophobia .- like I said earlier they
feel other people touch irritating and dangerous to their spirit
begin, to them it shows breaking of boundary.
Past - they don't let talking about their past because they known
that one way or the other the issue Will raise up again which
they don't want to remember that ugly moment that brings rush
of sadness ever again so they shut the door, keep the secret in
the darkest part of their heart.
Solution - if your partner is a rape victim there is an urgent need
to open up. And if you know you can't help wait because the
process takes time better end the relationship but good to stay
to help such person quickens the recovery rate.
NOTE :-
ADVICE FOR ANY RAPE VICTIMS IS TO GO FOR PROPER
COUNSELING
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