Hi guys, i read a post recently about a guy who has been sleeping with prostitutes since he was 24 and caught HIV in the process. Ever since i read that post i v been really scared cos i am sexually active and i have found solace in sleeping with prostitutes at least once a week.

Reason is due to the fact that i am fed up with girls. They seem to be a pain in the neck.

I have had 3 relationships and they ended badly because i found out they were cheating on me. i am an IT geek so catching you cheating seems to be an easy thing for me. I caught girlfriend A cheating though her BB device manger, it had a locator feature. I caught girlfriend B by login into her Facebook one night cos i knew her Facebook password. I caught girlfriend C through Facebook nearby friends feature (I don't want to go into much details). Their cheating are not assumptions, they all confessed. If u are a techie you will know how much information this features can provide you.

What is even worrying me now is that i no longer trust girls. I will rather sleep with prostitutes than invest my time, energy, money on someone who will cheat in the long run.

Note: During my relationships i stayed away from prostitutes because i count it as cheating to do that.

I plan getting married in 4 years time as i am still a young guy with a good job in an oil company.

But i need advice, do i still risk my heart again with another relationship.

Each breakup turns me 'crazy' for at least 1 months and the hurt is always 3-4 months post break up.

I need your advice and comments, thanks.

jennyluck:
Hi guys, i read a post recently about a guy who has been sleeping with prostitutes since he was 24 and caught HIV in the process. Ever since i read that post i v been really scared cos i am sexually active and i have found solace in sleeping with prostitutes at least once a week.

Reason is due to the fact that i am fed up with girls. They seem to be a pain in the neck.

I have had 3 relationships and they ended badly because i found out they were cheating on me. i am an IT geek so catching you cheating seems to be an easy thing for me. I caught girlfriend A cheating though her BB device manger, it had a locator feature. I caught girlfriend B by login into her Facebook one night cos i knew her Facebook password. I caught girlfriend C through Facebook nearby friends feature (I don't want to go into much details). Their cheating are not assumptions, they all confessed. If u are a techie you will know how much information this features can provide you.

What is even worrying me now is that i no longer trust girls. I will rather sleep with prostitutes than invest my time, energy, money on someone who will cheat in the long run.

Note: During my relationships i stayed away from prostitutes because i count it as cheating to do that.

I plan getting married in 4 years time as i am still a young guy with a good job in an oil company.

But i need advice, do i still risk my heart again with another relationship.

Each breakup turns me 'crazy' for at least 1 months and the hurt is always 3-4 months post break up.

I need your advice and comments, thanks.

eleyi gidi gan (this one is strong)

looks like it's all about the sex afterall

I feel your pain sha. You are a direct equivalent of the girls you choose. ust 3 and you are fed up. test up to like 20, you will find yor wife

First of all, go and confirm your (hiv) status.

Supersuave2:
looks like it's all about the sex afterall

How do you mean sir?

Acidosis:
First of all, go and confirm your (hiv) status.

Ok. I will do that ASAP.

okosodo:
I feel your pain sha. You are a direct equivalent of the girls you choose. ust 3 and you are fed up. test up to like 20, you will find yor wife

Hmmmmm

Please avoid prostitutes because condoms are not 100% safe o,and fornication is a sin,pray for God to show you your wife it is well.

Forget about those that hurt you(your different ex girlfriends)

Be happy and grateful to God,praise God for your blessings and pray to God for the grace to abstain from premarital sex

Missthin:
Please avoid prostitutes because condoms are not 100% safe o,and fornication is a sin,pray for God to show you your wife it is well.

Thanks for the advice.

Wtf is the meaning of this...

@op am also facing the same dilemma


the prostitute gives me listening ear, she is a Young girl of 21, sometimes she comes around and hangs out with me not because of the sex just so she says she wants to be with me.


Normal girls really suck. I don't have the nerve to check my HIV status I just have to wait for two weeks if I see any symptoms

holyboii:
@op am also facing the same dilemma


the prostitute gives me listening ear, she is a Young girl of 21, sometimes she comes around and hangs out with me not because of the sex just so she says she wants to be with me.


Normal girls really suck. I don't have the nerve to check my HIV status I just have to wait for two weeks if I see any symptoms

If you have it you have it, better to know now and take measures that's a cowardly way to face things.

I didn't read the full story but I perceive someone is toying with HIV/AIDS

Since that HIV story, I have been scared shitless too and I have not gone to meet my regular hoes.

Hoes in Nigeria have lost millions of customers because of that guy's thread

So you will rather spend your money and time on prostitutes than decent women? You are damn irresponsible and obviously very bad mannered. That's why the women flee from u. Is Jenny the name of one of the prostitues? Jennyluck?

News flash! You have higher chance of contacting HIV from non-prostitutes than prostitutes...

Just don't fvck them raw and endeavour to always go with your own condoms

Hmm...stop snooping.

Stop bunking the working girls.

Get a gf and fall in love with a CD.

About your heart, get it a long reins. Love is beautiful when invested correctly.

All will be well.

If your phenis causes you to sin, cut it off! It's not worth your salvation

sisisioge:
Hmm...stop snooping.

Stop bunking the working girls.

Get a gf and fall in love with a CD

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About your heart, get it a long reins. Love is beautiful when invested correctly.

All will be well.

Lol@ bunking the working girls , but your second bit of advice is not reallistic is it ?

IamaNigerianGuy:


Lol@ bunking the working girls , but your second bit of advice is not reallistic is it ?

Why not? Since it's just his luck to have GFs that end up cheating, why not protect himself all the way with them until he finally gets married. He shouldn't gambling with his health mehn.

sisisioge:


Why not? Since it's just his luck to have GFs that end up cheating, why not protect himself all the way with them until he finally gets married. He shouldn't gambling with his health mehn.

Guys do not like 'bunking' with condoms and they are particularly averse to doing so when in a stable relationship. You and I know that's the reality.

This life self


ThankGod na only once I tried it n I will never try it again

No gf ..no wahala

You need to ask yourself what keeps attracting you to girls that are prone to cheating.

IamaNigerianGuy:


Guys do not like 'bunking' with condoms and they are particularly averse to doing so when in a stable relationship. You and I know that's the reality.

Well, na only you know am.

Jimi23:
So you will rather spend your money and time on prostitutes than decent women? You are damn irresponsible and obviously very bad mannered. That's why the women flee from u. Is Jenny the name of one of the prostitues? Jennyluck?

I am not Sir. I am responsible and well mannered. Just expressing my plight, no need for insult.

YourCoffin:
News flash! You have higher chance of contacting HIV from non-prostitutes than prostitutes...

Just don't fvck them raw and endeavour to always go with your own condoms

You are very correct. Because you get comfortable with a girlfriend.

sisisioge:
Hmm...stop snooping.

Stop bunking the working girls.

Get a gf and fall in love with a CD.

About your heart, get it a long reins. Love is beautiful when invested correctly.

All will be well.

Well said sisioge... I have stopped bunking the working girls since the night i wrote this post...lol
I will keep female friends for now. Not ready for gf palava.
Thanks though.

soonest:
You need to ask yourself what keeps attracting you to girls that are prone to cheating.

Yeah i have realized that is the root of all these. i need to understudy a girls character very well before jumping into relationship. Thanks.

sisisioge:


Why not? Since it's just his luck to have GFs that end up cheating, why not protect himself all the way with them until he finally gets married. He shouldn't gambling with his health mehn.

I reject that kind luck o. But u make a point though. I am a huge fan of protection. I don't joke with that.