Please I need answers from matured people even though I know insult too will follow.... I used to date this guy until last year when things fell apart between us. He is married now and we are no longer on speaking terms. He tried coming back to me claiming it was a mistake and singing how he supposed marriage has brought him ill luck but I ignored him and I archived the message should in case something goes wrong. I was speechless when his best friend who is also a friend to me came to my house with my pictures on his phone.... I sent those pictures when we were still dating(which I now regret) though they are not nude pics but semi-nude.... The friend claimed my ex-boyfriend wife sent the pictures to him that am trying to break her home.... Calling me a prostitute. I am so confused at the moment.... I collected her number and called her just to explain and apologise to her but she rained insults and curses. What do I do?

You could explain what happened to your friend and show him the messages you archived. He can relay the info to your ex's wife.

You could send the messages you archived to your ex's wife yourself.

You could ignore them altogether and continue living your life.

Just ignore both of them

Explain what happened to the friend letting him know the pictures were sent while you dated him and show him his recent messages like the guy above said.

You will need to ignore him and his wife......their problem.

Most importantly,screw a good head on your neck.What's with sending nude semi-nude pictures?

Thanks you all for the advice......

Ignore them and move on with your life.

Or maybe the Op is lying.......

TheArchangel:
Or maybe the Op is lying.......

I really don't need your type.....take care

Abeg, press the ignore button on their family.
Nothing join you guys together again.
Don't pick his calls, have nothing to do with him.
If she tries to misbehave and starts calling You, give it back to her, fire for fire. If she rains curses, tell her back to sender a thousand fold.
You are not responsible for her husband's stupidity. She should face her problem, and you also face yours.
However, don't ever encourage the husband. Never pick his calls again.

eyinjuege:
Abeg, press the ignore button on their family.
Nothing join you guys together again.
Don't pick his calls, have nothing to do with him.
If she tries to misbehave and starts calling You, give it back to her, fire for fire. If she rains curses, tell her back to sender a thousand fold.
You are not responsible for her husband's stupidity. She should face her problem, and you also face yours.
However, don't ever encourage the husband. Never pick his calls again.

Simple!


I wonder why some people just stress themselves up unnecessarily.

Op you get time . I swear.

Thanks guys I have learnt my lesson.

Just ignore them please... move on with your life.
But the question remains why would the ex bf still have your semi nudes not to ask how it got to his wife

in as much as you should ignore, your nudes aren't something you should joke with cos they might fall into the wrong hands, you might want to get the appropriate authorities involved.... quite a long shot but your privacy will be respected.

In all, choose your fights,maybe this is worth it or not, only you can decide. you can decide to ignore or tell her to get a hold on her husband

That is non issue now. Go about your normal life and act has nothing happen and you av learn your lesson