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| My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair! by Sonye(f): 2:56pm On Feb 20, 2007 |
My boyfriend has a very long hair. I love him so much but the hair thing doesn't work in Nigeria. He had a family meeting and i was invited, talking about him cutting his hair and he spat out to me "I'D RATHER LOOSE U THAN TO CUT MY HAIR".What do i do?I can't do without him. |
| Re: My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair! by Badman888(m): 7:54pm On Feb 20, 2007 |
sorry to say about that, really painful but if it was me i would do the same no ones removing my hair |
| Re: My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair! by jgirl3: 7:59pm On Feb 20, 2007 |
I love guys with long hair, it looks good on some of them. Why do you want it off? Is it untidy or does it not fit him? If those are the cases - you need to find a way to improve it. If not, let the boy be and try and accept him the way he is |
| Re: My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair! by Busta(f): 9:27pm On Feb 20, 2007 |
depends on how long we talkin bout here, Guys that keep long hair are so shabby and imature. how old is ur boyfriend? guess he doesn't love u that much enuff to do things for u. Lots of guys wanna keep their hair at their teenage yrs, afro, braids, dreads . . but it gets to a stage that they come around and realise that it needs to go and doesn't make them look responsible. With time, he'll come around. |
| Re: My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair! by ikamefa(f): 9:37pm On Feb 20, 2007 |
Sonye:  what a wicked , immature thing to say! how old is this your boyfriend? if a guy can say that to you then he is not that into you! does he have the word diplomacy in his lexicon? ish! what you should have replied to that his outbust was f#$k you! ,F#$k your bloody, lice infested hair!  Badman888: nahhhhhh! i hope you don't ever have to say that to any girl that will match you pound for pound!  |
| Re: My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair! by Badman888(m): 9:41pm On Feb 20, 2007 |
girls complain if their boyfriends say they should stop using make up that they are being controlled and all that stuff. they lots of old men nowadays with long hair in which you would be glad they have that hair than skin cut. |
| Re: My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair! by Busta(f): 9:45pm On Feb 20, 2007 |
@badman old men with long hair, old men that are don't know wat they want after life and got no decent job. even if u don't wanna loose ur hair, there are better ways to let ur gurl know that u're still a baby and would love to keep ur hair but not shouting at her that u'll loose her first than ur hair. . .really childish if u ask me. |
| Re: My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair! by ikamefa(f): 9:48pm On Feb 20, 2007 |
Badman888: old man oh! young man oh all am saying is @ topic boyfriend's outburst was immature and wicked , at least she saw him with his hair before agreeing to go into a relationship with him. having a relationship involves a lot of give and take shikena! |
| Re: My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair! by Badman888(m): 9:50pm On Feb 20, 2007 |
anyhow we cant judge the boy yet, mayb his hair is really long and untidy, the type of long hair am talkin about is just relatively high and well kept its until she explains better that we would know. |
| Re: My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair! by iice(f): 2:06am On Feb 21, 2007 |
j-girl: Word! |
| Re: My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair! by ima1(f): 2:21am On Feb 21, 2007 |
cut it when he is sleeping- all he would do is get pissed off, i know i'll do it |
| Re: My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair! by Maneater1(f): 9:59am On Feb 21, 2007 |
Is he SAMSON? Althiough i understand that the nigerian society doesnt take guys with long hair sereious, here its a sign of immaturity and irresponsibility. It all comes down to sacrifice, its either you love him the way he is and forget about everyone else. But he doesnt love you if he will pick his hair over you. With true love, u should be able to give a kidney or your left eye for the person you love. And i think he's definately way to vain for a guy. picking looks over someone that loves you. Shame on him.  |
| Re: My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair! by mamaput(f): 10:10am On Feb 21, 2007 |
i suppose that the hair is dada hair. She met him with the hair . And two what did she say at the family meeting that made him tell her to shut up. She if she was not in support of him should have not said anything at all. stand by your man . |
| Re: My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair! by Sonye(f): 11:47am On Feb 21, 2007 |
My reply to all Question 1.He's not a teenager. He's in his late 20s. 2.Its not dada.Its VERY long. 3.He keeps it tidy all the time 4.His family members asked for my opinion about long hair and Nigerian society and i spoke the truth. I love the hair, it actually fits him (He's really handsome) but my parents don't like it.His parents as well.And dating a man i love means i'd love to marry him but my parents have to approve of it. He has also lost a lot of jobs just cos of his hair |
| Re: My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair! by nonny2(f): 11:56am On Feb 21, 2007 |
sorry girlie your guy must be samson and you re delilah maybe he don't want to loose his powers.if that is what he really want leave him and let him be.ciao |
| Re: My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair! by jgirl3: 11:58am On Feb 21, 2007 |
If it's tidy and it fits him, why do you want to cramp his style esp if you love it too? Choose what you want to do, keep your handsome man with his hair or don't accept him and lose him. Allow him to enjoy his hair |
| Re: My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair! by Seun(m): 12:09pm On Feb 21, 2007 |
This is why I am not going to get married. How can a woman ask me to choose between my hair and her? So, because she's my girlfriend, she must now tell me how to dress? No way! Because freedom is my religion. |
| Re: My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair! by daslimpt2: 12:28pm On Feb 21, 2007 |
hello dear, it will be really nice to wanna get to knw you, I saw ur post and i noticed you are online. Am Az by name, and you. I really dont mind if we can hookup as friends. Hope to hear frm u, Am basically online now. |
| Re: My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair! by ggirl1(f): 2:42pm On Feb 21, 2007 |
Awww! I really understand how she feels. She loves him with the long hair cos she met him like that but she cares about his future(Cos she wants to marry him).Honestly, no matter how beautiful the hair is, you can never get a decent job with a hair on in naija. And i also think the family cares as well by talking to him. By the look of things, i uess this guy is BROKE thanks to his hair.Is he comfortable being broke?If yes then i guess u give him money so STOP IT NOW.The hair must go off or u move on with a guy with skin decent cut and a good job |
| Re: My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair! by FactorChic(f): 12:13am On Mar 07, 2007 |
RUBBISH! Nigerians and their mentality, what's so wrong about a long hair, I'm 78% sure those are yoruba ppl, always criticising he cant loose his hair, he'll rather lose you, hmmm dats bad if u truly love someone you should be able to sacrifice most of the things you love, as long as you get the love back maybe he's not the right one and again, ignore the parents abeg! rubbish! |
| Re: My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair! by CrazyMan(m): 12:43am On Mar 07, 2007 |
If you love him as you say then forget about the hair. Most guys look handsome on long hairs; maybe he loves the hair so much. What you should be concentrated on is about how both of you will produce something meaningful in your relationship not how long or short his hair is. |
| Re: My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair! by Seun(m): 8:42am On Mar 07, 2007 |
Some ladies are just to petty. You may be the smartest man in the world, but all they can see is your hair. |
| Re: My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair! by Nobody: 9:14am On Mar 07, 2007 |
See girl that guy na correct guy. Dem nor born una too the same time and nor be the same mama. Please give him his freedom stalker! |
| Re: My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair! by finemocha(f): 3:14am On Mar 08, 2007 |
lololololololololololololololololololololololololol,  dont worry girl after being unemployed for a while he will cut it, bu thonestly its pretty funny though, i will loose u before i loose my hair. that is a cardinal sign of an immature brother |
| Re: My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair! by Seun(m): 9:22am On Mar 08, 2007 |
It is immature to ask him o choose between you and his hair in the first place. Sign of an immature daughter. |
| Re: My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair! by franklincn(m): 1:36pm On Mar 08, 2007 |
sonye, leave him alone for me i have gorimapa,im sure he is a mad man |
| Re: My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair! by LilRed1(f): 5:43pm On Mar 13, 2007 |
he's not worth keeping, NEXT! |
| Re: My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair! by Seun(m): 1:52am On Mar 14, 2007 |
One reason why I may die a rich and single man is that I'm not ready to be changed by anybody. No regrets. |
| Re: My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair! by bunmii(f): 7:51am On Mar 14, 2007 |
how dare he embarass you in front of his family leave his ass alone if he is not wlling to make small changes that will make you happy what is the point of the relationship |
| Re: My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair! by diyobdw(f): 10:00am On Mar 14, 2007 |
Was her eyes on his poket or between his legs that she didnt notice the hair when they started? Abeg make she go chuck! You are lucky he said it to you and no just cut off the relationship and blow you far off him. The next thing she would say is "Honey i don't like the way your mother looks at me i want you to tell are to stop visiting our house"  |
| Re: My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair! by finemocha(f): 7:55pm On Mar 14, 2007 |
LOOk ur boyfriend is not a bad person, he just likes his hair. he isnt in love with u for goodness sakes, dotn take it personally but when he loves u he will be more willing to listen to what u have to say. so relax he still has a lot of growing up to do. so its up to u to decide if u want to stick around and see how long it takes him to mature.  |
| Re: My Boyfriend Will Rather Lose Me Than Lose His Hair! by finemocha(f): 7:56pm On Mar 14, 2007 |
LOOk ur boyfriend is not a bad person, he just likes his hair. he isnt in love with u for goodness sakes, dotn take it personally but when he loves u he will be more willing to listen to what u have to say. so relax he still has a lot of growing up to do. so its up to u to decide if u want to stick around and see how long it takes him to mature. |
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