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Would You Accept An Ex As A Maid? by Nobody: 2:18pm On Oct 23, 2017
You come home one evening and discover that the new maid your wife/husband just employed is one of your Ex what would you do?
Re: Would You Accept An Ex As A Maid? by Gloriagee(f): 2:40pm On Oct 23, 2017
so that she go poison person or pikin , abi

we no gree o, we no go gree....

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Re: Would You Accept An Ex As A Maid? by teemy(m): 4:04pm On Oct 23, 2017
Alero3Arubi:
You come home one evening and discover that the new maid your wife/husband just employed is one of your Ex what would you do?

There is no need to make a scene or raise your voice. Just let him know in a gentle voice that it is not ideal nor pleasing to you. Remember that the keyword here is ACT GENTLE (any sensible person can foretell that a man that did this intentionally would have prepared battle plans for when you hurl those verbal missiles women are known for. Neutralise his strategy by acting as un-expected).

Once he refuses, just get someone he HIGHLY respects (JUST ONE) to talk to him and you would win the war without firing a shot.

Wishing you well - Teemy
Re: Would You Accept An Ex As A Maid? by Nobody: 4:48pm On Oct 23, 2017
teemy:


There is no need to make a scene or raise your voice. Just let him know in a gentle voice that it is not ideal nor pleasing to you. Remember that the keyword here is ACT GENTLE (any sensible person can foretell that a man that did this intentionally would have prepared battle plans for when you hurl those verbal missiles women are known for. Neutralise his strategy by acting as un-expected).

Once he refuses, just get someone he HIGHLY respects (JUST ONE) to talk to him and you would win the war without firing a shot.

Wishing you well - Teemy
your spouse has no idea of the relationship you both had
Re: Would You Accept An Ex As A Maid? by teemy(m): 5:20pm On Oct 23, 2017
Alero3Arubi:

your spouse has no idea of the relationship you both had
the randy one just brought in a second wife/husband codedly. after a while sha, body language will reveal the truth.
Re: Would You Accept An Ex As A Maid? by teemy(m): 6:00pm On Oct 23, 2017
Alero3Arubi:

your spouse has no idea of the relationship you both had
Oh! the wife is mine and the ex is mine. Simple the ex has to go and probably help her get a better job. I of course would introduce my wife to my ex . no need keeping secrets about it. a good laugh about the mistake by all thereafter.

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