Alright, let me break this down for you as logically as possible. From everything you have seen in this write up, EQ would require the emotionally intelligent person remaining in a state of awareness of their own emotions and that of others, as well as learning how to empathetically manage these emotions. Now, just for a moment, remove the word “empathetically” and replace it with “persuasively”. Right there, you see how the person who manages your emotions can influence or manipulate you to create the result he wants from the circumstance that brought you two together.
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