Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,151,604 members, 7,812,975 topics. Date: Tuesday, 30 April 2024 at 12:50 AM

5 Signs You Are Not Just A Sex Mate - Dating And Meet-up Zone - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Dating And Meet-up Zone / 5 Signs You Are Not Just A Sex Mate (1775 Views)

For The Ladies:you Want A Sugar Boy, Sex Mate, Here Is Your Opportunity / I Need Sex Mate In Lagos Anytime She Needed It Hot / Sex Mate Needed In Iyana Iyesi, Sango Ota (2) (3) (4)

(1) (Reply)

5 Signs You Are Not Just A Sex Mate by Syphonn(m): 11:14am On Nov 11, 2017
Discovering you are just a sexmate is one of the worst things that ladies hate, especially if they had fallen in love with the man.
There is something every man wants from a lady and this is what gives the man the boldness to walk up to her and start up a conversation.

It is believed that when two minds agree, then they will decide to walk together. Many ladies have stumbled upon men that only approached them just for the interest they had in their body.
This isn't applicable to women only as ladies too do get into a man's life just for the lustful act of having sexual intercourse with them, but being it as it may this is not often rampant in this part of the world.
This article is based on the fact that women are the ones that face this issue on numerous occasions and need to be enlightened on the signs they should note and quit the relationship before things get out of place.

Becoming pregnant for someone who doesn't have any feelings for you can be very infuriating as you begin to hate yourself and even the baby you are carrying.

THESE SIGNS INCLUDE:

1. HE ONLY CALLS YOU WHEN HE WANTS TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU


Many relationships these days are all about having sex, but if you are battling for a man that would turn out to be your own husband, sex should not be among his priorities whenever you are together.
Some men will tell you that if you cannot afford to be laid, then you are seeing someone else. This is no lie as some females prefer to be having sex with other guys rather than the one they want to marry.

This is not a case to be given much consideration as it happens in both parties.

2. YOU NEVER SIT DOWN TOGETHER TO HAVE A WONDERFUL DISCUSSION PERTAINING TO YOUR FUTURE.


Many failed relationships are as a result of the inability of the parties involved to have a heart to heart discussion with each other reasons being that love doesn't exist, or one person is trying to create that mutual relationship when the other person's mind is not even there.
When this is noticed, you have no option than to step aside without having your heart broken.
3. YOUR MAN NEVER INTRODUCES YOU TO ANY OF HIS FRIENDS


It is baseless remaining in a relationship where you don't even know your boo's best friends whom you can confide on if at all you have any problems or people that can help you know more about your man.
As a lady that wants a good relationship, it is not bad if he decides to introduce you to even his family. This truly is a good omen showing he is up to something rather than just visiting him at night when nobody will really recognize you, now you will have the self-assurance that you are not wasting your time and that something good is going to come out of the relationship, may be marriage.

Men’s Gist: Boobs; Big or Small? Which do you prefer?
4. WHEN HE DOES NOT REALLY CARE ABOUT YOUR FAMILY AND YOUR JOB


Every serious-minded man would always want to know where you are from, your parents, siblings and probably want to meet any of them. Your job too should be of importance to him, But if you notice that your acclaimed man does not care about this, It will be a better decision to call it a quit because if at the beginning he shows no concern, then nothing will move him to start showing concern except if you get pregnant for him and he manages to accept the responsibilities.
5. HE GETS ANGRY WHENEVER YOU TRY TO QUESTION HIS UNLOVING ATTITUDE


Men hate it when they are confronted with questions like "Why didn't you call me?", "What's my place in your heart?", "Are you cheating on me?". These questions are usually from the lips of girls who don't really understand why they keep loving a man without getting the love back.
A lady should be able to comprehend that she is not loved, instead she's just in a relationship for sexual gratification and should quit.
If you found this article useful, you can subscribe to our mailing list for upcoming post.
Feel free to comment

Check out my blog on my signature and subscribe.

(1) (Reply)

Were Are All The Beautiful Girls In Here? / Shomolu/bariga Guyz Nd Babes Here We Come! / 2018 Latest Ibadan Naughty Whatsapp Group

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 12
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.