There is really no exact formula used in achieving a successful and happy relationships. While others know exactly what works perfectly for them, for some people, its a continuous struggle. Earlier the news was reported of the things Nigerian believe they can't tolerate in a relationship of which cheating was the majority response.

A Nigerian lady however, has taken to the social media platform to seek for relationship advice. According to her story, she is in love with an uneducated man whose command of English is bad and she is scared of being limited by him in the future. She wrote: "I am in a relationship with this young man from the north, while I’m from the West. I think I love him and I know he loves me too. He cares about me and treats me well, though we have our arguments sometimes but we usually resolve them eventually."

"The problem now is that he’s not that educated. According to him, he attended a polytechnic in the north but he has poor English speaking skills. He commits grammatical and pronunciation errors that my younger brother in SS3 cannot even commit. However, he has a good job and some assets as well. He even has a house of his own. He’s smart and intelligent and his words are filled with wisdom. He has been through a lot in life and he’s experienced. But the problem is this English. As for me, I’m very educated and speak English well. I’ve been trying to cope with his English, hoping that with time, I’ll be able to rub-off on him and he’ll improve.”

“He has also indicated interest in furthering his education. Moreso, my parents are opposed, though not strongly, to my marrying a man from another tribe than mine. Should I go ahead and marry him? I used to feel so irritated by his manner of speaking but as time went by, I was being tolerant and I feel I can teach and correct him too. I just hope that in future, I will not feel frustrated and regretful for marrying a man like him. I hope he will not feel inferior and throw tantrums. I hope he will not be over-possessive, thus limiting me from moving forward, maybe faster than him, in future. These are my doubts and fears.”

hmmmmm big damn shit

Educate him... Enroll him into evening classes

Poor command of english has now become the reason marriages are not surviving abi? Rubbish

Is wizkid a graduate?
Is 2baba educated ?
Does Buhari your president have his first school leaving certificate?
Use your tongue to count your teeth my dear.

In this scarcity of husband you still dey do shakara? Sit down there and let another lady snatch am

lol... this is simply worid apart ...


She is sincerely not in love with him but into his wealth


it's love of money that makes her think she is in love with him


if she goes ahead for serious commitment with him she will be frustrated as the days goes by
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Threebear:
Is wizkid a graduate?
Is 2baba educated ?
Does Buhari your president have his first school leaving certificate?
Use your tongue to count your teeth my dear.

Education is overrated; civilization is all that really matters..

And like 2baba said in ''spiritual healing '' to be civilized you don't have to b educated.

nrexzy:
Educate him... Enroll him into evening classes

A typical Nigerian lady don't wanna be the one spending on guys, especially things like this which is considered as recurrent expenditure, but they would rather make capital expenditure to make profits when it pays off.

Pocohantas, the queen of relationship, what do you have to say on this?

what is even the problem of ladies sef?.husband no dey!na wahala.e dey! na problem.he has hot temper na problem.he no perform well for bed na problem haba..abeg if you dont like his english iya pack ya load and go back to village.kandacious!

that he's a good man and treats you is all that matters. leave grammar (not totally o). You also mentioned his intelligence and wisdom...which is a good thing. My dear, no let his poor command of English Language dissuade you. Don't let that man go!